Sjhockeyguy 100 Report post Posted May 4, 2012 Hey, so I'm new to this site and have been searching, without any luck, for more details on how the guys should handle themselves on dates to ensure they keep safe. Also, how to do so without being rude or making an awkward situation. Is it rude to decline kissing? Who supplies other protection, if needed? Thanks for reading. ;) Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest W***ledi*Time Report post Posted May 5, 2012 Discuss the type of services you want with the provider early in the process of arranging your encounter. That way, you're both on the same page. Of course all discussions should be conducted with politeness and respect! Some ladies don't even offer kissing, while some ladies have said here on Cerb that kissing is important to them. As with most things, there's a range of attitudes. I'd say that the general rule of thumb would be - the safer you wish to play, the greater the number of providers who will be very happy to accommodate you. The lady will in almost all cases wish to provide the condoms, etc. That way the lady can ensure and be confident that they have been properly taken care of, and are in good condition. The lady is the professional, and sexual health is an essential aspect of her business. If you have special or unusual desires or needs when it comes to condoms (size, etc), let your provider know well ahead of time. That way the lady will have time to stock them herself if she wishes to do so. Communication, in this as in all things, is key. The exact answer will vary, depending on the lady. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lexy Grace 103697 Report post Posted May 5, 2012 I can only speak for myself but really I don't think any lady would have an issue if you preferred to not kiss. The ladies here value their health and safety and the health and safety of anyone they have an encounter with and supply everything that is needed to ensure all parties are protected and safe. It is not rude or awkward if done in a proper manner to decline or say you wish to not partake in an activity that is offered, as long as you are respectful in how you approach and discuss this before hand with the lady. When contacting a lady you can always say respectfully exactly what you are looking for and I'm certain, most would be very accommodating. Communication is always key to an amazing, fun encounter. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
