iluvmuffins 1764 Report post Posted May 6, 2012 I'm looking for an SP with a special skill. An ex-girlfriend of mine shocked me when she gave me a bj for the first time. What she did was proceed to give me a fantastic blowjob, but as she sensed I was about to cum, she stopped and used this unique gripping technique which not only quickly stopped any orgasm from occuring but kept me really hard. About a minute later she started sucking again, then used the same technique about three or four more times. For the final cycle she would suck me until I finally had a very strong and intense orgasm. The most intense I've ever experienced! Being taken to the edge over and over was an unbelievable feeling. She loved doing this not only because she loved giving blowjobs but she said controlling my release gave her a fantastic sense of control over me through my penis. I haven't been fortunate to find an SP in Ottawa who's skilled at doing this, so I'm inquiring here if anyone knows someone who knows how to do this, but also enjoys doing this. Reply here and/or PM me with some details. Thanks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
trucido peritus lingua 2699 Report post Posted May 6, 2012 You were experiencing edging. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm_control Edging and surfing are my favorite activities during playtime and yes, it goes both ways. IMO, surfing is that period between "your past the point of no return and your going to come" and actually coming. The trick is to apply the right amount of simulation extending this period. If one can tickle the testicles with one's other hand at the same time, all the more intense. On her, the perineum. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites