To the Men: Would you want to Know??

[spaceykca 198]

ha... Well, I think to all that I have seen, both mp & sp, especially Jas(who was the first that was introduced to my extreme spazzness)...It takes me like five thousand years to finally book with someone for the first time as that is something I always worry about. I have a super active, vivid, creative and absurd imagination(which is a blessing at times and also a complete frickin headache lol)... I always think for some reason when I see someone for the first time that I know them, or they know me, or of me, or my fam, or worse my wife, lol.

 

It could be kinda hot, running into someone you know, like maybe someone from HS or college/uni that you had a thing for or what not...kinda maybe add a little naughty-ness factor to it.... could also cause me to faint. But now im just babbling so in the end, yes i want to know, say even if I didnt know you, if you knew me or of me, I would still want to know lol(even though i may faint)(or giggle).

 

Thank you to Jas, Paige and Cat for putting up with my quirks and spazzy-ness! :)

[spud271 47779]

I agree with boner, just ask them out

 

It's always been a fantasy of mine to meet someone as an SP that I know in real life. While it hasn't happened yet, I can think of a few bank tellers and store clerks etc. who I wouldn't mind having the pleasure with! 8-)

[Carrie Moon 68826]

A couple years ago when I moved to Toronto from Ottawa.. my mover emailed me after the move to tell me he knew who I was and that he was a fan.. and had one of my magazines. Personally I was grateful he told me after the fact rather than during the move. I had only recently started doing porn at the time so wasn't that well known! what a small world. Now it happens to me more often that people I know book me. I had a client last week that was 20 years old and had met several times thru a friend's friend. I think he would have been 15 or so when we first met. I laughed and said you can now literally say you've been with your mom's hot friend! I prefer that a client just smile and nod when in public. I once had a client say hi to me in a grocery store and my boyfriend (now an ex) and his son were right around the corner! awkward.. I had to whisper to him to go away right away..

[sydsrandy 100]

Question for Ava or any other Sp's who wanna weigh in as I am essentially the guy in the question below.....

let's say you have another job, say..an Sp at night and a day job, and you let some guy at your day-job know you are a Sp, would you be offended if the next day he asked to 'see' you as a Sp?

Or maybe you are a regular at a coffee shop and you let it slip to your (male) server that you moonlight/full-time Sp. Would it ben weird if he asked if he could come over?

(Assuming you have no romantic interest in him:)

[Carrie Moon 68826]

I don't have another job except for the porn.. but yes I would find it weird if someone I saw every day came to see me for an appt... or a male friend I hung out with alot. It's 2 separate lives for me. I used to be a physician and it's basically the same principle. Don't treat family members or friends. Or as most client would put it.. don't shit where you eat! Plus why tell a co-worker? you'd be jeapardizing your job or at least making your other job an uncomfortable place to be worrying who knew and who didn't know. You are expected to respect his anonymity but he is not for you :)

[esoterica 624]

I used to be a physician and it's basically the same principle.

 

Oh god, I think I'm in love. Women with brains attract me more than big breasts do. The second best feeling in the world is an intense afterglow conversation about something obscure.

 

(And before people go all "you're sexist" on me, men with brains also attract me - very much so. However, I prefer their company, not their naked bodies)

[Carrie Moon 68826]

Women with brains attract me more than big breasts do. The second best feeling in the world is an intense afterglow conversation about something obscure.

 

Obscure conversation is my specialty. I was a naturopathic physician but love to converse about what some people might consider off the wall stuff... thankfully more and more people are open to banter about more than politics and the weather :)

[SamanthaEvans 166767]

I've had a couple of close calls.

 

I had a query from someone whom I discovered I might know, or with whom things could be uncomfortable once we were known to each other. I prefer for new clients to contact me via e-mail rather than on the phone. When this particular man e-mailed me, he said his availability was limited to certain times, with more options on some days than others because he teaches at a high school in a nearby town. He signed the e-mail with his real name, which rang a bell for me. His restricted availability gave me a good out; I declined the appointment after I checked and found that he was teaching at my son's high school. I didn't tell him that I couldn't see him because of who he was. I didn't think that would be fair to him, and it could potentially pose some problems for my son.

 

More recently, I had a query from someone who has the same name as a cousin of mine. I haven't seen that particular cousin in many years and I surely don't want to entertain him. I told him, in e-mail, that I once knew someone his age with the same name, and that it would be awkward for us to encounter each other now. I asked about his general line of work, trying to figure out if it was my cousin. The reply I got was ambiguous, though, and I realized with some chagrin that I needed different information. It was a relief when I remembered a dog my cousin's family had owned years ago. Lots of people who knew my cousin back then would have known of the dog, too. I described it in general terms, and got a reply saying they weren't the same people. The contact is terriby allergic to dogs! He became a very good client--I've seen him four times, now.

[alberta 222]

Smirk and Naughty!