Older experience SP's vs Younger SP's

[someguy 67067]

Hi there.

I thought this would be an interesting topic.

I have not met too many SP's yet. Just 2 younger ones and 2 older ones.

However i have found the experiences to be different. Younger ones seem to be in it for mostly the sex. They are wild and try to get it over quickly.

Not as much chatting and foreplay. Older SP's offer more companionship and erotic experience. They are slower and tease more and want to make the sex last longer. Then they cuddle more. As I have not had many experiences yet. Can I get your opinions on whether you find SP's experiences different based on their ages?

[roamingguy 300292]

My experience based on seeing ladies since embarking on this lifestyle in July 2010 has less to do with the ladies' age than their attitude. Fortunately I've been very blessed with the ladies I have had encounters with, and the age range of the ladies I've seen has been 25 to 50 years old.

I've been with some wonderful ladies in their 20's, 30's 40's and 50's

I've had (no names, and none were CERB members btw) horrible encounters with ladies in their late 20's, 30's and 40's

Encounters have to be based on a ymmv factor. And you can get a idea of the type of lady you'll meet if you read her posts/profile/website and any subsequent emails...that will determine much more what type of lady she is and whether you two will be a match rather than profiling on an older experience vs younger SP basis

A late night rambling

RG

[Andee 220524]

Remember though, in this day and age with even more ladies getting into the business than ever before, not all older SPs are necessarily more experienced than some of the younger ones. I know SPs in the their late 20's/earlier 30's who have more experience than some ladies 40+ who have only recently gotten into the business.

 

I think Roaming Guy pretty well hit the nail on the head, that it's not so much about age, as the attitude.

 

As a mature provider who has been around for the past 15 years, I can say that when I started (part-time), it was agency driven and outcall only. It was a completely different mentality then. GFE was not even heard of and I was only permitted to provided FS with CBJ (no kissing an no daty were allowed). Over the years, the shift being able to work indy, provide incalls, offer one'es own brand of service and of course the Internet revolution, has changed things considerably.

 

It seems now days, anyone with a picture, Internet connection and a cell phone can call themselves a Service Provider. This has provided a tremendous pool of ladies to choose from, not all of them necessarily providing good service. It really is "buyer beware" out there.

 

The good news is though that regardless of age and description you are seeking, you need to do you research. There are many amazing ladies out there, and boards such as CERB and sites like escorts-canada are not fool proof guarantees, but a good place to start in finding someone with a good reputation who offers the type of service you are looking for, regardless of their age.

[Kyra.Graves 23779]

I think this is a chicken, egg scenario, does the lady make the encounter or do the clients dictate it? From the OP's post it's clear he prefers a date that goes beyond the physical act however not all ladies target that market. Most ladies are capable of providing that to some clients (maybe not all if that isn't their forte) but how would they know that is the experience that you seek unless you indicate it?

The majority of clients that seek out a lady of 19 are doing so because she has a young, hot body, some clients think it's a bonus if a lady of that age can connect with them on multiple levels but a number of them don't care. The provider often knows this, it's in how she is approached by a number of clients - they don't have much in common to talk about (he could be Grandpas age and have no idea what band she is off to see that night) so the encounter is primarily physical.

The majority of clients that seek out an older lady (I'm defining "older" as 25+ as this industry is very, very youth-centric) are doing so because they want to have some sort of common ground, it's a bonus if she's sexy, hot and has a body that puts a 19yr old to shame but it's not their primary concern. These clients are seeking a different experience and the lady generally knows it.

 

There is certainly some crossover; younger ladies that offer more of a connection, older ladies that advertise as the 'hot model' type without a focus on the intangibles and clients that enjoy both experiences at any given time but in general I believe it holds true that clients typically seek out different age groups for different experiences and a lot of what you might see is reflective of market interest/demand.

[stand on guard 1186]

I agree with roamingguy that attitude not age is a better gauge. That being said, I prefer older women as they seem more confidant and better able to take control. Experience does matter!

[piano8950 32577]

I can say with a certainty that the 20 something SP I visited seemed to posses the maturity that you speak of with an older SP. Rushed was far from what actually transpired, there was a fair bit of communication leading up, and sex was not to only thing that we enjoyed. The way she handled my particular situation spoke volumes of her maturity.

[someguy 67067]

After having met many more girls and women since I started this thread. I find that the women that are over 25 have more experience and skills. They know how to tease and please a man and take there time. Some of the girls rely on their youthful bodies to attract men, but just rush to get the guy off quickly. This is not true of all girls, just in general. I've met a few younger girls that were just awesome and acted mature.

Any other opinions?

[Guest c**io**m7]

I found the most fulfilling encounters with the more mature ladies. As a forty-something, I know what I like in a bed-mate and am very comfortable with myself sexually. There is a certain erotic and sensual chemistry that comes with sharing a bed with a woman who knows what she likes and is comfortable with herself as well.

Such chemistry, in my opinion found more often with 30+ ladies, allows us both to let go and enjoy each other, no request is judged, no script is followed as we can anticipate each others wants and desires with a joy in satisfying those needs.

[someguy 67067]

It's been over a year and a half since I started this thread and have had met many more woman over the year. I have met women from very young to middle age. They offer different experiences, not because of the age, but because of their experience. Some of the young girls have had many experiences, but not life experiences. Older women have been through many life experiences, many loves, marriages children. They know what to expect from life and know that us older men want more then physical sex, we need to be held, and kissed and cuddled. With most young girls, it is just physical, and some do it just for the money. But sometimes you meet a young girl, that has had many life experiences, and they know how to please a man. In general women around 30 seem to be the most fun, still young and horny but experienced. But as always, YMMV, each girl is different and you will always be surprised. :)

[Miss Jessica Lee 43328]

I found the most fulfilling encounters with the more mature ladies. As a forty-something, I know what I like in a bed-mate and am very comfortable with myself sexually. There is a certain erotic and sensual chemistry that comes with sharing a bed with a woman who knows what she likes and is comfortable with herself as well.

Such chemistry, in my opinion found more often with 30+ ladies, allows us both to let go and enjoy each other, no request is judged, no script is followed as we can anticipate each others wants and desires with a joy in satisfying those needs.

 

What a coincidence ;)

 

I find the most fulfilling encounters with the more mature gents. As a mature lady, I know what I like in a bed-mate and am very comfortable with myself sexually. There is a certain erotic and sensual chemistry that comes with sharing a bed with a man who knows what he likes and is comfortable with himself as well.

Such chemistry, in my opinion found more often with 30+ gents, allows us both to let go and enjoy each other, no request is judged, no script is followed as we can anticipate each others wants and desires with a joy in satisfying those needs.

 

LoL ;)

[WriteOn 3250]

It's been over a year and a half since I started this thread and have had met many more woman over the year. I have met women from very young to middle age. They offer different experiences, not because of the age, but because of their experience. Some of the young girls have had many experiences, but not life experiences. Older women have been through many life experiences, many loves, marriages children. They know what to expect from life and know that us older men want more then physical sex, we need to be held, and kissed and cuddled. With most young girls, it is just physical, and some do it just for the money. But sometimes you meet a young girl, that has had many life experiences, and they know how to please a man. In general women around 30 seem to be the most fun, still young and horny but experienced. But as always, YMMV, each girl is different and you will always be surprised. :)

 

Your posts/threads are very suspect. You've made many general points in your post, I'm not sure any are of a result of experience though.

[CristyCurves 169032]

Experience doesn't necessarily come with age but with circumstance. But if we are to speak in generalizations the more years obviously and more than likely the more experiences. But why compare? This business is as unique as those involved in it. I will say that when I was in my twenties and having sex with some older men I too wanted it over quickly,( I mention my twenties because my first sexual encounter was at 19, then I had a boyfriend my age until my 21 bday) not in all cases but in some. When someone young-just recollecting my own experiences-has sex with a much older gentleman and the signs of age are there it can sometimes be less than pleasant. As I've matured the physical signs of age in a partner mean less and the other attributes they have are far more important, intriguing and seductive. I want to be with men now that are confident, sensitive, humorous, fun, I could care less about what they look like, but I do care how they treat me, others and themselves. These traits weigh heavily on determining my sexual attraction and chemistry with them.

We could argue all day and night about some young people are mature and some older are less mature, so on and so on. There are exceptions to everyone and to every situation. But again if generalizing, and you are an older man, significantly older than your partner don't be surprised if the sex is one sided and short lived, lol.

[Ice4fun 78407]

I have met wonderful ladies in their 20s and 30s and while I have no complaints I will say that I always seem to connect better with the older SPs it is not that the sex is better...it is more about the relaxed nature of the encounter. I think experience counts.

 

Now I say life is cruel because I am 53 and my life experiences has, I think, made me a better partner but now that I know what to do....lol... I am no match physically for the fit sexy SP regardless of their age...lol... they are all younger than me.

[someguy 67067]

After meeting a lot of SP's and mostly MA's, I find I relate more to the women that are over 25 more, then the 19 year olds. Women over 30 are more experience and know how to tease and are more intimate I find. But there are some young women that know what they are doing. But like a fine wine, some women get better with age :)

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

I must agree, I love cat's response to this forgotten thread.

 

In my opinion sexuality has nothing to do with age. Granted, some younger ladies may be "in it for the money" but let's not pull out the tar and feathers!

 

I hate assumptions and stereotypes! Don't forget, that that can be reversed!

 

The goal is to find someone that attracts you whether it be physically, intellectually, emotionally or a combination of all or one or two.

 

As long as you have had a great time, is that not the goal?

[SexyLacy 8537]

When I was 29 years old I chose to start my escort business.. I honestly believe that was the perfect age for me. When I first started although I had an innocence about me I was still mature and was able to learn quickly on how to be a good escort. And I loved it!

Now at 36 with almost 8 years of great memories and experiences I feel that I am not only confident in my skills but also with life in general.

 

I feel that we SP's understand men on a level that most civillian women just wouldn't understand. I walk away from almost all of my appointments with a smile.. this industry has reminded me that real men do exist.

 

I did leave the industry for a couple of years (2011-2013) - I came back because I was missing out on apart of who I am and what I enjoy doing. Since I have been back I have been reminded of how much I was meant to be a service provider lol

 

So, I don't know if it is age, experience or lifestyle choices that make girls different ... I think some just don't care to view this as a business and that's fine too

 

xoxo

[someguy 67067]

just wanted to bump this thread to see any more opinions ?

[limelemon 110]

I agree. every visit I had with a mature lady was take your time. tease and satisfy you. I also found the young ones try to get it over very fast .

[someguy 67067]

Some of my best times have been with older women. They know what we want and they also want to enjoy themselves also. They take their time and know how to add passion to the session. Some girls just want to get it over with as soon as possible.

[star99 4852]

Although I have cut down on hobbying, I have to say that when I first started I was seeing a lot of the younger SP's & MA's. but over the years, I find it more comfy with the 30+ women.

 

They have more experience, most are not rushed, and most are clean (meaning no drug or drinking habits).

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

I've met young SPs that were providing to feed an addiction

I've met mature SPs that were providing to feed an addiction

I've met young SPs that are awesome

I've met mature SPs that are awesome

I've met young SPs with experience and

I've met mature SPs with no experience at all.

 

This means only one thing: at one point it's ALWAYS YMMV... Choose your SP carefully, chat with her, and please, always consider the X factor. Sometimes, with either young or mature SPs, it just clicks... Regardless of age or experience.

 

P.S.: I am considering myself as young, and quality is always my main concern...

[TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458]

Hi there.

I thought this would be an interesting topic.

I have not met too many SP's yet. Just 2 younger ones and 2 older ones.

However i have found the experiences to be different. Younger ones seem to be in it for mostly the sex. They are wild and try to get it over quickly.

Not as much chatting and foreplay. Older SP's offer more companionship and erotic experience. They are slower and tease more and want to make the sex last longer. Then they cuddle more. As I have not had many experiences yet. Can I get your opinions on whether you find SP's experiences different based on their ages?

 

I never did this when I was younger so I can't speak on that.

 

But I know there was a lot I didn't know about my body and myself that I do now.

 

I know I gained a lot of interpersonal skills in my years as a dancer. But that also came from watching other (older, more experienced) girls, to see how they interacted etc. I couldn't imagine doing this cold and alone, with no one to emulate. You can't get the feedback (which could be immediate) that you can in a club as a dancer, so trial and error would be a long and grueling process, i would think.

 

Also, it took those years to develop the confidence I have now. There are so many stages to being a woman and those years of learning and growing are necessary.

 

And don't forget: young women are used to dealing with young men. Do you remember what you were like when you were young? The girls are a reflection of that. So if things are fast ... well ... you can figure out why. lol Been there, done that... burned the T-shirt !!! :icon_cool:

 

But I think that everyone is special and deserves to be looked at as such

[AUTUMN RAINE 15548]

I have been here and at this game for 30+ years so i have been a SP or some type of sexworker at all ages .. so i notice within myself that when i was younger i was a great dancer and travel companion .. trips away to beach resorts or wherever .. especially if arm candy was needed for business trips .. but now that i am older my dates are alot more refined .. great conversations and discussions about various topics and too old to care about not being the arm candy anymore lol

[Ice4fun 78407]

I have been here and at this game for 30+ years so i have been a SP or some type of sexworker at all ages .. so i notice within myself that when i was younger i was a great dancer and travel companion .. trips away to beach resorts or wherever .. especially if arm candy was needed for business trips .. but now that i am older my dates are alot more refined .. great conversations and discussions about various topics and too old to care about not being the arm candy anymore lol

 

Having met you Autumn I think i can say with some certainty that most guys would think you still fit all the criteria to be arm candy... but who wants just arm candy when you can also have the rest you also have to offer.

 

As for your dates being more refined.... on our future dates I will try much harder lolololol

[Tempted Monk 5057]

Have looked at this age preferences question at the other angle and found interesting thing.

Long time ago I tried to see 20 yo girls and found out that most of them had no clue what the intimacy really is. I decided that it was worth to set age cut to 30+.

I came to that conclusion about maybe 20 years ago and saw usually women of my age or older at that time. But I kept the same age cut over years and now I meet 30+ young girls! Change of view as life goes on