theliquor (Lost but not fo 50595 Report post Posted October 8, 2013 Morning All. Again, to all my Cerb Family, thank you for the continued support, prayers and best wishes, it means a lot! Sooooo, as most of you know, I went to the Cancer Clinic at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbour to see if they had any ideas on how to fuck this cancer up. Got stuck with lots of needles, probes, scans and ended up pissing in technocolour (with the help of alcohol), see previous post...or not!. There was a conference call yesterday afternoon, with myself and the local docs, plus the docs from Toronto and Michigan. Here is the result: -The cancer that attacked the muscle around the shoulder is rare (around 1 in 750 cancer patients have this type floating around) but not so rare they were scratching their heads. -It spread, however the good news is it missed the lymph nodes under the arm (which would have meant a very short game plan for me!!!) -However it has spread to the lymph nodes in the neck and the muscle that surrounds the spinal cord (medulla oblongata?) that interfaces with the brain stuff. Bottom line, they have deemed it stage 3, with minimal options with significant, severe consequences including looking like a zombie with major holes cut out (unless Walking Dead is going for another couple of seasons and they need a new leading zombie !) . So will continue with chemo about every eight to twelve weeks to try and slow it down, rest whenever, and live life LARGE until I can't function any more, hopefully 3-5 years, worse case 18-24 months. So unless I get hit by a bus or swallowed up by a City of Ottawa sinkhole, or die in bed because of being drowned by Cerb ladies continuously squirting in my face for three continuous days (the CIA should have done this to the Taliban instead of water boarding!!) I will be around Cerb and you good folks until I can't play any more. THE OTHER GOOD NEWS.....IS THAT MY TONGUE STILL AND WILL CONTINUE TO FUNCTION UNTIL I AM PUT INTO THE GROUND!!!!!! This weekend will be spent telling family and friends in Southern Ontario what is going on and probably drinking lots of 30 year old Macallum single malt scotch. Well, that is it for now! Thank you again Tom TheLiquor xoxox 12 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bianca Jaguar 39183 Report post Posted October 8, 2013 What an amazing spirit you have Liquor...so inspiring! Bianca xxxxxxx 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paradise Spa 24019 Report post Posted October 9, 2013 Live Life to the fullest my friend!!!! xoxoxo Lots of Love :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest realnicehat Report post Posted October 9, 2013 Scotch and beautiful women. I like your style Tom. I've seen too many people accept bad news and just lay down. Live as large as you can as long as you can. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
1963Kennedy 10698 Report post Posted October 9, 2013 What a great attitude and like you, I am thankful for all my CERB friends. With tongue in good shape you will still be a very happy man. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Taylor, Olivia Devine 16934 Report post Posted October 9, 2013 You have a great spirit! I admire you so much! Live Strong! Live Large! Lots of love to you and your family xoxo 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest ChantalSummers Report post Posted October 9, 2013 You're a true inspiration the liqour for your strength and love of life!! I wish you all the happiness and health possible. You're one of the sweetest people I have met on cerb and I am proud to have met you and would call you a true dear friend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chanel Reign 28097 Report post Posted October 10, 2013 Tom, please read my response to your pm. I can't add to this thread anything other than what I have said. But I will always have your back in the Hope Zone. But you already know that. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theliquor (Lost but not fo 50595 Report post Posted October 17, 2013 I just wanted to say thank you for all the special comments and thoughts, it is really, really appreciated. Family took the news, digested and then we drank half a case of Dru single malt, and a case of Petit Petit over the weekend. We told stories, jokes, laughed and cried! So, we move forward! Hope to attend the Ottawa Christmas social! Hugs! Tom The Liquor 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moe1111 210 Report post Posted October 17, 2013 hi moe here was tool last year that i had oesphegas cancer after nine week of chimo before christmas surgery in feb for 15 hours then another chimoe in march for 9 week still here always kept smiling and positive though good luck 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malena Parisi 5142 Report post Posted November 28, 2013 My thoughts are with you my darling... Your positive attitude and the light you shine is inspiring and very courageaous.. You are indeed a beautiful person heart mind body and soul... I wish i had been on to find this out sooner, i am glad to take the opportunity now to be blown away by your stenghth and your love of life.... Go big baby...... This world is too small for awesome people like you xoxo Lots of luv thoughts and prayers..... :) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Miss Jane TG Report post Posted November 29, 2013 Keep it up! Not your cock, I meant your spirit;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites