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[Davrem 110]

I've done my best to do my research on all things involved in the hobby; without actually having ever partaken in it yet. I have managed to figure out a lot of "dos and don'ts" by reading escort sites and I've pieced together most of the Acronyms...

 

Here are the unsolved mysteries:

 

Spinner: I assume not the stationary bike?

 

YMMV: I know the acronym...I'm a decent looking guy, medium build...but I'm not modelling underwear. Should I have a great movie ready to go just in case?

 

MA: something to do with massage, or massage only?

 

Thanks

Dav

[Guest *ig*a**]

Spinner is a tiny petite woman also ma stands for massage attendant btw welcome to cerb I am sure if you do a search and read some threads you will find this site a rewarding experience.

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[Boomer 33202]

Just a suggestion, take a look in the Rules and Faq section at the top of the page. There is a Faq there titled List of common Abbreviations where you will find most of the information you're seeking.

 

Welcome to CERB and good luck.

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

I've done my best to do my research on all things involved in the hobby; without actually having ever partaken in it yet. I have managed to figure out a lot of "dos and don'ts" by reading escort sites and I've pieced together most of the Acronyms...

 

Here are the unsolved mysteries:

 

Spinner: I assume not the stationary bike?

 

YMMV: I know the acronym...I'm a decent looking guy, medium build...but I'm not modelling underwear. Should I have a great movie ready to go just in case?

 

MA: something to do with massage, or massage only?

 

Thanks

Dav

 

 

Spinner-what he said..lol..a tiny petite woman...usually young

MA-massage attentdant

 

YMMV-has nothing to do with YOUR looks..it means you may not get the excate same service as someone else...not a bad thing...example-some guys might get bbbj and some guys maynot...some may be able to cum several times some may not. It depends on the service your loking for really and the lady you choose.

 

To receive the best service possiable no matter who you are and what you look like the main thing is to be Clean, polite and follow your ladies of choice rules..which is usually done before the appointment. Most have them listed on their website.

[northerntantra 4671]

Try the Rules and FAQ link in the bar near the top of the page. The First FAQ topic is on acronyms. You'll find spinner and YMMV there. Someone should add MA ... I'm not sure either.

 

As for YMMV, it's not so much about your looks. Assuming you arrive well groomed , it'll have more to do with your attitude and personality ... and how well those mesh with the MP or SP. Also, the mood they happen to be in when you arrive. At least, that's been my experience. Perhaps the ladies can share their views.

[Guest Ser***der]

Emma said it all for YMMV. But from a hobbiest's perspective it's no different than any other encounter with another person. The respect you show is often returned and there is always, just like 'real' life, chemistry to be considered. When it all comes together it can be amazing. And if it doesn't, no life experience is without value. IMHO

So. Good luck and welcome aboard.

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

just incase...IMHO

-In my humble opinion ;)

Its taking me some time to learn this lingo too..

[Jhena Grey 25615]

There is a thread in the general area which explains most of the lingo.

 

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=1311

[Guest Ser***der]

Yes it is.

And. I just noticed you signature quote. I love it. I will be keeping it in mind. :)

[Davrem 110]

Amazing responses! Thanks for the tips guys and gals. I'll check out that link and continue my studies :motion:

[DukeSSk 3430]

YMMV-has nothing to do with YOUR looks..it means you may not get the excate same service as someone else...not a bad thing...example-some guys might get bbbj and some guys maynot...some may be able to cum several times some may not. It depends on the service your loking for really and the lady you choose.

 

To receive the best service possiable no matter who you are and what you look like the main thing is to be Clean, polite and follow your ladies of choice rules..which is usually done before the appointment. Most have them listed on their website.

 

I'm curious, will it also depend on the lady's mood? Even if I'm clean and kind...

 

I intend to clearly state what I'd like for an encounter in advance, but at the same time I don't want to come across as saying "I want this... or take a hike", trust me, I'm not like that.

 

Do the ladies tend to refuse something which technically isn't one of their restrictions?

[backrubman 64800]

I'm curious, will it also depend on the lady's mood? Even if I'm clean and kind...

I intend to clearly state what I'd like for an encounter in advance, but at the same time I don't want to come across as saying "I want this... or take a hike", trust me, I'm not like that.

Do the ladies tend to refuse something which technically isn't one of their restrictions?

 

Certainly. She could be having an off day, YMMV (your mileage may vary) means just that. I remember once I bought stale gas at a gas station, got very poor mileage and was declaring a fuel emergency far sooner than expected. They ladies are really under no obligation to offer anything (except perhaps the agreed to amount of time). Ok, so some things are "expected" -- it could be because of her ad or even your correspondence with her before meeting but there are no guarantees (aside from death and taxes). If you get not what you expect, it might be you but chances are it is her.

 

I really hate to go here but I'm going to because as I said before I am both stupid and fearless. The male anatomy is usually "normal" (unremarkable) but be dammed if it isn't just sinfully downright UGLY in some cases (to me) and is this the fault of the owner, nope, just the cards life dealt. Similarly do you find every women in the world created equal?

 

Yep, could be almost any reason but YMMV always applies :) Whatever the reason may be.

[whiteman 14028]

YMMV-has nothing to do with YOUR looks..it means you may not get the excate same service as someone else...not a bad thing...example-some guys might get bbbj and some guys maynot...some may be able to cum several times some may not. It depends on the service your loking for really and the lady you choose.

I'll have to disagree with Emma slightly on that definition. Yes, it may mean that some guy may get some services that other guys may not get. But that's not the major meaning, IMO. It mostly refers to a service that may not be available on your first visit, but might become available with some repeat visits. Or it could refer to a service that you may get during one session, and may not get it during a subsequent session (e.g. for time of month issues, etc.).

[Davrem 110]

I hate to end this debate...but I was thinking about PSE...

 

Porn Star Experience right...well...does that mean:

 

A: They have acted in a porno (infers a certain skill set)

 

B: That they are willing to role play as a porn actress (type of encounter)

 

...could it be C? all of the above??

 

Dav

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

... Porn Star Experience right...well...does that mean:

 

A: They have acted in a porno (infers a certain skill set)

 

B: That they are willing to role play as a porn actress (type of encounter)

 

...could it be C? all of the above?? ...

 

There's a great deal of variance, on a lady-by-lady basis, about what the "Experience" acronyms mean. But it's safe to say that someone providing the PS Experience need not be an actual porn star - in the same way that someone providing the GF Experience need not be your actual girlfriend.

 

The "Experience" acronyms, for me, really are best understood as applying to the general approach and atmosphere of an encounter (i.e , not to specific services):

 

GFE

= a friendly, intimate, relaxed approach to the encounter - where the main (but not necessarily exclusive)

focus is on each other

 

PSE

= a more energetic, and therefore probably less relaxed and less intimate, approach to the encounter - where the main (but not necessarily exclusive)

focus is on the sex itself

 

Obviously, even defining the two terms so narrowly, it's not necessarily an either/or distinction. Each provider is unique, and each is best qualified to explain the type of Experience they enjoy sharing with their clients - and what such an experience might entail for them.

[jimbo007 100]

Another great place to understand the acronyms is urbandictionary.com

 

The only problem is when they have multiple definitions.

[PhantomKnight 7914]

What does it mean when a lady puts

 

Party girl...

 

On her add?? I've seen it a few times on BP and I looked through lingo bible

(the cerb post of acronyms) and I can't seem to find what it means?

 

This might be a dumb question, but curiosity is getting the best of me

Here!!! :)

 

 

KCCO,

 

PK

[aubreyxxx 20240]

What does it mean when a lady puts

 

Party girl...

 

On her add?? I've seen it a few times on BP and I looked through lingo bible

(the cerb post of acronyms) and I can't seem to find what it means?

 

This might be a dumb question, but curiosity is getting the best of me

Here!!! :)

 

 

KCCO,

 

PK

 

 

Not a dumb question and I've seen different meanins but the main one is when a girl calls herself a ''partygirl'' is that she has no issues with drugs/alcohol being used throughout the call

Be cautious for this experience because as aware this is a mood altering substances and yuo cant be guaranteed the same experience as a sober SP

[PhantomKnight 7914]

Gotcha!!!

 

Thank you!! I couldn't find it anywhere and it was bugging me!

[Andee 220524]

Gotcha!!!

 

Thank you!! I couldn't find it anywhere and it was bugging me!

 

Also be wary of terms like "party like a rockstar". In some circles that means they like to indulge in a certain type of drug.

[whiteman 14028]

Not a dumb question and I've seen different meanins but the main one is when a girl calls herself a ''partygirl'' is that she has no issues with drugs/alcohol being used throughout the call

Be cautious for this experience because as aware this is a mood altering substances and yuo cant be guaranteed the same experience as a sober SP

Wow, never even thought of that, I just thought it was just a meaningless self-description, like "cute", "hot", etc.

[Reddog2402 2221]

Emma said it all for YMMV. But from a hobbiest's perspective it's no different than any other encounter with another person. The respect you show is often returned and there is always, just like 'real' life, chemistry to be considered. When it all comes together it can be amazing. And if it doesn't, no life experience is without value. IMHO

So. Good luck and welcome aboard.

 

I think that's an apt description of YMMV. I have had some memorable encounters where, for whatever the reason, the SP and I "clicked", which made the session so much more than the basic physical encounter. Another hobbyist may not have the same experience because that emotional connection was not there.

 

At the most basic level, an encounter is an interaction between two individuals - if you change one of the individuals, you change the whole encounter.

[aubreyxxx 20240]

Wow, never even thought of that, I just thought it was just a meaningless self-description, like "cute", "hot", etc.

 

 

lol There's a lingo term for everything my dear :P But no it is not a self description

[fortunateone 156618]

lol There's a lingo term for everything my dear :P But no it is not a self description

 

 

No, not at all. Altho to be fair, a newbie sp might think it is, like they use GFE inappropriately because they see it in other ads (or of course, they copy/pasted someone else's ad and didn't read it).

 

Guys still call me up asking if I 'Party". That is your clue that they are looking to trade drugs for services, or are looking for an sp who will do drugs with them (and so may be lax in time, rates or restrictions), or is just cool with hanging out with them while they do drugs (including smoking it). Some more experienced sps are ok with that, they know what to expect. The clients on the other hand may be lax about what services they expect (sometimes none) and lose track of what they are paying. They may be a bit more malleable, in other words. (oh, gee look at the time (after 20 minutes) did you want to extend? At 300/hr or more). There is an agency here that only advertises for guys looking for party sps, for example.