Other women as clients on cerb

[JennDDD 1588]

Hi,

 

Just wondering if there are other female clients or future clients here on CERB. I am not sure if it is unusual to have a non service providing woman on CERB but i get soliciting emails from men here on CERB. They are fine when I tell them I'm on the clientele end, except the one guy who asked to share an SP.

 

Anyway, just wondering, if there are others, or if I'm just really pervy for a woman.

 

Thanks!

[Guest]

Yes, your a perv but there is nothing wrong with that, lol. I think we are all pervs here. Big hug.

[backrubman 64800]

I have to say that most ladies here are SPs (or MA/MP) but we do know that many ladies advertise for and have female clients. I suspect most of them find the ladies though an agency or a site like EC or heaven forbid the newspaper ads.

 

Of course you'll find many of the same ladies on EC and other places as you will find here. I think this is a wonderful place for a client to come as you have so much more than just an ad to go on, not only can you read her recommendations, review her profile but you can with a couple clicks chase down every post she has ever posted and get a much better idea of who she is (in a "her still anonymous" way) and how reliable she is and her views on the world.

 

So it's a great place for a client to come, much better than the alternatives IMO.

 

Now as for the gender of that client, well, the "other" ladies looking to met a lady would do well to come here also and maybe some do and we don't know about it because they dare not post so you seem one step ahead of them.

 

In any event, you couldn't be more welcome here, even if you are the minority and there aren't many female clients here (just yet).

[Andee 220524]

I am aware of a couple of non-SP female hobbyiests on the board, but I have only seen one other one actually post.

 

No matter what your gender, you are welcome here.

 

My take on the guy who wants to share an SP with you is its because he wants either free sex with you and/or for you to help him share the costs of the other SP.

 

As long as you assert yourself, I think you'll find we have a pretty friendly and respectful community here.

[Athos 108589]

Absolutely, totally welcome, and a trail-blazer as well!

[JennDDD 1588]

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My take on the guy who wants to share an SP with you is its because he wants either free sex with you and/or for you to help him share the costs of the other SP.

 

As long as you assert yourself' date=' I think you'll find we have a pretty friendly and respectful community here.[/quote]

 

Thanks :). If I wanted free sex with a man I'll make love to my husband, I'm def. here for women! :)

[whatsup 11893]

Thanks :). If I wanted free sex with a man I'll make love to my husband, I'm def. here for women! :)

 

Being on this board for a very long time. I doubt that anyone is looking for free sex. It is pay as you play. At best a possible pay as you play together arrangement. Nothing comes for free.

[JennDDD 1588]

I don't know, I have had three people solicit me even after I tell them I am not an SP. Even after I told them I was only looking for women and that I don't sleep with men who aren't my husband.

 

But most yes are here for pay to play (I kind of like that saying) but I bet some of the men even try to negotiate with the SP's rates even though they say not to. There are people always looking for "cheaper" which is sad because most women I have viewed through CERB (their sites anyway, haven't made the leap yet) seem to be exceptionally classy and quite educated and lovely women whom I would say deserve every penny they get. Also each time I have been solicited by a man through PM it is a new account user, so maybe they don't know the ins and outs, as I too am still learning.

 

Cheers.

[backrubman 64800]

I don't know, I have had three people solicit me even after I tell them I am not an SP. Even after I told them I was only looking for women and that I don't sleep with men who aren't my husband.

 

Just block the idiots! In your control panel you have an "Ignore List" once you ignore them you won't see or hear any more from them. Yes, there are jerks everywhere, even here I'm afraid. Just don't let them get to you, you don't deserve that and shouldn't be bothered by this nonsense.

[JennDDD 1588]

No worries, not bothered, certainly not flattered and let me tell you they so would not get their monies worth with me! :)

[sandimoon 72517]

Anyway, just wondering, if there are others, or if I'm just really pervy for a woman.

Of course you are, but so are the rest of us.

Welcome to Pervy Woman Central, a.k.a. Cerb.ca

Enter, stay a while, some of us live here.

Seriously though....

 

Hi,

Just wondering if there are other female clients or future clients here on CERB. I am not sure if it is unusual to have a non service providing woman on CERB but i get soliciting emails from men here on CERB. They are fine when I tell them I'm on the clientele end, except the one guy who asked to share an SP.Thanks!

You may not be the Cerb status quo, Jenn,

but you are a most wonderful addition.

As Porthos stated, a trail blazer. Kudos!

Now I prefer Outties as opposed to Innies, no offence, that's just me, lol.

However, there are many SPs here who love to see ladies or couples as clients.

You are already doing everything right. In this section, asking questions, receptive to feedback,

honestly expressing concerns.

A wonderful start.

A couple of ideas on how you might reduce this, by no means a criticism,

just observations from an SP viewpoint.

On your profile, it says I am a w4w.

Maybe you could put in along the lines of

Bi-Lady Hobbyist or Female Client, something like that.

You could tweak your board handle, too.

At first glance, theDDD part seems like advertising your cup size since a few SPs do exactly that.

Of course it could also mean you are a fan of

Diners, Drive-Ins & Dives,

but men won't assume that! LOL.

As for the guy asking to share an SP, (seriously dude?) I share

Angela's opinion, as it comes from first hand experience.

 

Being on this board for a very long time. I doubt that anyone is looking for free sex.

Lol, wanna bet?

If you followed one of us just one day in our lives,

rest assured, you would see things very differently!

You are a respectful guy, sadly not all are.

You would be stunned at the amount of men who come to an escort board,

looking to hire on as our photographer,

driver, security, incall, be our boyfriend,

all of which is code for " it'll be free then right? "

And of course the one used so often I weep for the future is

" I'm really hot, do I still have to pay? "

No exaggeration.

but I bet some of the men even try to negotiate with the SP's rates even though they say not to.

Jenn, you have no idea.

At one time or another we have all heard variations of:

" can I try you out first;

what do you mean I have to pay you both;

if you're already here can my friend take a turn too;

I don't want sex, just a BJ;

do you have student discounts;

my rent's due, can you cut me a deal;

I'm on a budget/pension/unemployment;

I know your ad says 250, but I'm over my ATM

limit & can only get 80....cool? "

And I swear, every one is a real request.

Welcome to our world!

There are people always looking for "cheaper" which is sad because most women I have viewed through CERB (their sites anyway, haven't made the leap yet) seem to be exceptionally classy and quite educated and lovely women whom I would say deserve every penny they get. Also each time I have been solicited by a man through PM it is a new account user, so maybe they don't know the ins and outs, as I too am still learning.

Cheers.

Unfortunately this behaviour is not limited to junior members & as for this:

 

I have had three people solicit me even after I tell them I am not an SP. Even after I told them I was only looking for women and that I don't sleep with men who aren't my husband.

there is simply no excuse for not taking no for an answer.

Sorry you had to deal with that.

 

Jenn, you are new, yet clearly appreciate proper etiquette.

With your considerate, respectful & open attitude,

your connections with SPs, when you choose them, will surely be wonderful.

I also envision your Cerb tenure to be a long & positive one.

You offer the truly singular perspective ( and already have )

of being a woman & married & a client all at the same time.

I sense your presence, opinions & contributions will serve

as very illuminating & educational for all of us.

In fact I am looking forward to it.

Sincerely, Jenn, welcome & have fun!

Sandi

[Phaedrus 209521]

Shorter sandimoon: douchebags exist, and there's nothing you can do about it :)

 

The real problem here is that a non-trivial segment of the online population has issues with basic reading comprehension and common courtesy. All I can suggest is to just use the block button, as backrubman said earlier - I'd be surprised if the people giving you hassle are the ones who actually contribute to the site, so you probably won't be missing anything by doing so.

[JennDDD 1588]

Thanks, very sweet and helpful! I will update my profile this weekend to be more clear, thanks, I appreciate that advice! :

 

Cheers.

 

Of course you are, but so are the rest of us.

Welcome to Pervy Woman Central, a.k.a. Cerb.ca

Enter, stay a while, some of us live here.

Seriously though....

 

 

You may not be the Cerb status quo, Jenn,

but you are a most wonderful addition.

As Porthos stated, a trail blazer. Kudos!

Now I prefer Outties as opposed to Innies, no offence, that's just me, lol.

However, there are many SPs here who love to see ladies or couples as clients.

You are already doing everything right. In this section, asking questions, receptive to feedback,

honestly expressing concerns.

A wonderful start.

A couple of ideas on how you might reduce this, by no means a criticism,

just observations from an SP viewpoint.

On your profile, it says I am a w4w.

Maybe you could put in along the lines of

Bi-Lady Hobbyist or Female Client, something like that.

You could tweak your board handle, too.

At first glance, theDDD part seems like advertising your cup size since a few SPs do exactly that.

Of course it could also mean you are a fan of

Diners, Drive-Ins & Dives,

but men won't assume that! LOL.

As for the guy asking to share an SP, (seriously dude?) I share

Angela's opinion, as it comes from first hand experience.

 

 

Lol, wanna bet?

If you followed one of us just one day in our lives,

rest assured, you would see things very differently!

You are a respectful guy, sadly not all are.

You would be stunned at the amount of men who come to an escort board,

looking to hire on as our photographer,

driver, security, incall, be our boyfriend,

all of which is code for " it'll be free then right? "

And of course the one used so often I weep for the future is

" I'm really hot, do I still have to pay? "

No exaggeration.

 

Jenn, you have no idea.

At one time or another we have all heard variations of:

" can I try you out first;

what do you mean I have to pay you both;

if you're already here can my friend take a turn too;

I don't want sex, just a BJ;

do you have student discounts;

my rent's due, can you cut me a deal;

I'm on a budget/pension/unemployment;

I know your ad says 250, but I'm over my ATM

limit & can only get 80....cool? "

And I swear, every one is a real request.

Welcome to our world!

 

Unfortunately this behaviour is not limited to junior members & as for this:

 

 

there is simply no excuse for not taking no for an answer.

Sorry you had to deal with that.

 

Jenn, you are new, yet clearly appreciate proper etiquette.

With your considerate, respectful & open attitude,

your connections with SPs, when you choose them, will surely be wonderful.

I also envision your Cerb tenure to be a long & positive one.

You offer the truly singular perspective ( and already have )

of being a woman & married & a client all at the same time.

I sense your presence, opinions & contributions will serve

as very illuminating & educational for all of us.

In fact I am looking forward to it.

Sincerely, Jenn, welcome & have fun!

Sandi

 

Additional Comments:

At first glance, theDDD part seems like advertising your cup size since a few SPs do exactly that.

Of course it could also mean you are a fan of

 

Um, how do I change my Cerb handle? I've tried but not too tech savvy, thanks!

[Phaedrus 209521]

Um, how do I change my Cerb handle? I've tried but not too tech savvy, thanks!

 

PM to Mod, I think. Although I've never done it myself, so I don't actually know :)

[Smithwick 7122]

PM to Mod, I think. Although I've never done it myself, so I don't actually know :)

 

I can confirm this. I did it a while back

[Sappho 1247]

I am a woman who is only interested in other women, and have seen an SP before. I haven't encountered what Jenn has. Any guy who has taken the time to pm me has been quite respectful and a pleasure to chat with. As someone has already mentioned: if they are being inapproperiate then just block them.

[BownChickaBown 4829]

If one must be honest (as I dare say I am not alone),

- I am just a woman trapped in a mans body :P

 

Long may your big jib draw JennDDD!!

[aubreyxxx 20240]

I myself have always been a fan of the same gender. Something about a woman the softness, sensual touch I LOVE IT ALL. Being an SP myself I am now maybe even considering looking for an SP to enjoy alittle sensual fun :) GOODNESS GRACIOUS ladies are lovely xoxoxo

[renegade 11027]

the triple d in your moniker is a magnet for newby,s chuckle chuckle ! welcome and enjoy all that cerb has to offer !!

[Cyndall_Kent 6880]

I am a (super new) SP, but I would not be opposed to being on the other end. All the more power to you! Cheers!