biggest blunder

[nntsci 11076]

lol

 

Yeah computers automatically save drafts and temporary files and sometimes they are not automatically deleted if you don't save the file.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Okay, I'll say it for the record.. what kind of blunders are we talking about here? Simple mishaps such as forgetting to close that SP website you just viewed? And from the POV of moi, it isn't a good scene when the wife calls the SP asking if her hubby has been to see you. I plead the fifth wifey. LOL. Been there done that. Okay, so I get it. And there are so many creative ways to get cash without your spouse knowing. Save up for your favorite SP in a month when you get cash back from walmart, just don't show her the bil. Keep a $20 here, a $20 there.

 

Just one word of advice...never piss off a woman your girlfriend, your wife or your favorite SP. Good old karma can be so horribly mean. lol.

[LeeRichards 177238]

I left a hotel room after a rendezvous and just pushed the button on the elevator when I heard behind me.... "hey what are you doing here" I turned around and coming out of their hotel room was my brother, sister in law and nephew staying in town for a hockey tournament. A quick white lie as I do have business meetings in hotels on occasion and it turns out they were about 2 doors down.

 

Close enough call for my liking ! but the awesome time I just had made me forget about it quickly :D

[nntsci 11076]

"never piss off a woman your girlfriend, your wife or your favorite SP"

 

And with luck, the 3 of them will meet each other. :-)

[nntsci 11076]

I haven't posted anything on this thread for a long time...

 

I had a narrow escape this week. I was supposed to see a lady this Tuesday but on Sunday changed it to the next week. On the weekend my wife found out about a conference in the city that she wanted to attend and on Tuesday morning she announced that she would be commuting into the city with me in the morning (happy me) and was expecting to see me on the way home in the evening. That would have severely cramped my style and shortened my time with my sp lover; and I'm always a bit worried about my wife detecting residual smells while travelling home with me.

 

Anyway it all turned out for the best but yikes that was a close one. Glad I hadn't booked a hotel for this Tuesday.

[nntsci 11076]

First blunder in a while.

I took my wife to the opera on Saturday. We had arranged to meet my youngest son after the opera and get dinner (around 7:30pm). Usually she does all the text messaging regarding the kids, but she had forgotten her iphone at home, so I had to send the messages to my son to make the arrangements. At the intermission a few minutes before the second half of the opera, I get out my phone, type in the password, a recently added safety feature... So I open the text messages to send my son a message, with my wife right beside me, ready to tell me what to write and to my horror, I realize that I had not deleted the message from an SP from the day before, and clearly visible on the screen is a list of names and part of the most recent message and there in the middle of screen is

 

Nov 4 kiss kiss

 

So here I am with my wife uncomfortably close to me, looking over my should to tell me what to write to my son and my SP's message of "kiss" is clearly visible. I quickly found and selected my son's name form the list of messages, and wrote out a message to him to meet up a 7:30. I'm not sure if she didn't notice, or perhaps didn't have her glasses on... but yikes that was a close one.

Yes I know of broke yet another cardinal rule by forgetting to delete old messages.

[Kilt Boy 29353]

I'm not sure if this is a blunder, or the exact opposite of that.

 

I was having a civil conversation with a young woman whose time I regularly occupy. She is petite, and beautiful and I'm actually helping her out with a lot of things in her new career. She says I'm a lot of help.

 

Today, I was watching her critically because of something she had said and agreed that yes, she had put on some weight.

 

:icon_eek:

 

I know. I'm a monster.

 

I suggested a few things she might do to take care of it, but that if she wanted to continue in this line of work that she had better look at this 'problem' sooner rather than later. She sees it as a problem, which is why I even brought it up. I told her that looks are a part of her work, and that if she wants to keep making money she needs to look more to her "bottom line".

 

She thanked me and called me a good friend for being honest.

I guess I'll see tomorrow when I show up to see her again.

[Guest *Ste***cque**]

Sometimes honest feedback is appreciated by a woman ...sometimes. So, how did your next visit go with her, Kilt Boy?

 

I received a text from a woman who said she can't wait to see me again *kisses* and gave her room #. My wife was next to me and said who was that? I smiled and showed the text, telling her some guy out there is wondering why this girl never replied. I said she probably mistyped a number and it went to me by accident. I then asked my wife if she'd be OK if I took off for an hour or two? She laughed.

 

It was an innocent mistake but hiding the text from her would probably have made matters much worse. Sometimes you just have to be ready to go with it.

[Aficionado 993]

Great recovery!!!! Kudos.

[Kilt Boy 29353]

Sometimes honest feedback is appreciated by a woman ...sometimes. So, how did your next visit go with her, Kilt Boy?

 

Well, I'm still alive. We've become workout guilt partners.

 

"Did you do your exercises today?"

"No. I promise I will!"

 

I find guilt to be a great motivator.

[nntsci 11076]

Sometimes honest feedback is appreciated by a woman ...sometimes. So, how did your next visit go with her, Kilt Boy?

 

I received a text from a woman who said she can't wait to see me again *kisses* and gave her room #. My wife was next to me and said who was that? I smiled and showed the text, telling her some guy out there is wondering why this girl never replied. I said she probably mistyped a number and it went to me by accident. I then asked my wife if she'd be OK if I took off for an hour or two? She laughed.

 

It was an innocent mistake but hiding the text from her would probably have made matters much worse. Sometimes you just have to be ready to go with it.

 

Brilliant solution.

I wouldn't be able to do that with the text "kiss kiss" that I had on my phone because the number was stored in the directory with label indicating that the number is in my directory... therefore not some random wrong number... but my wife rarely uses her reading glasses (doesn't want to admit she needs them) so odds are she wasn't able to see it anyway.

But I'll keep that in mind for the future.

[Guest v**do****g]

My biggest blunder was trusting the wrong provider that I eventually had a falling out with who later decided to give up all my personal information to other people.

 

Definitely a learning lesson that I did not see coming.

[nntsci 11076]

Committed a faux-pas last week: my date forgot to tell me that his hotel needed a key for the elevator so I was trying to reach him by text so he could pick me up and I made a mistake in the regional code...

I have no clue where area code 802 is but someone got a text from me asking ''you need to come get me in the lobby''...loll

I had a similar thing on messenger. I replied to the wrong person... and thought I was sending my best friend a message, but actually sent it to a woman that I had a flirtatious relationship with... and the message was about her... but thank god I didn't say anything too revealing. Since then every time I send a message I double check to make sure that doesn't happen... cause next time could be serious.

[nntsci 11076]

Ok... brand new blunder... Last night I was surfing the web and was looking at images of escorts at TorontoPassions. I forgot to shut down my computer down last night and forgot that I had been looking at the ad last night. Anyway, this evening, my wife was fussing around getting information for her trip to Florida that starts in about 6 hours (a week with no wife, yippee). I was checking out a hotel I've booked for later this week for some wife's-away-shenanigans and I heard my wife rushing through the kitchen towards my home office to get me to print out something for her. I quickly minimized my hotel web page, and up pop across the entire screen were pictures of this beautiful half naked woman (Addison) from the TorontoPassions web site. Heart attack... I minimized that... Up popped LYLA.... second heart attack... and I quickly minimized that too... I glanced around and to my relief she was reading something as she was walking through the door. Memo to self.... clear web pages.

 

Added info: By the way if you are ever in this situation... minimizing the web site page is typically faster then closing it if you have more then one tab open.

[Guest jrose]

Ok... brand new blunder... Last night I was surfing the web and was looking at images of escorts at TorontoPassions. I forgot to shut down my computer down last night and forgot that I had been looking at the ad last night. Anyway, this evening, my wife was fussing around getting information for her trip to Florida that starts in about 6 hours (a week with no wife, yippee). I was checking out a hotel I've booked for later this week for some wife's-away-shenanigans and I heard my wife rushing through the kitchen towards my home office to get me to print out something for her. I quickly minimized my hotel web page, and up pop across the entire screen were pictures of this beautiful half naked woman (Addison) from the TorontoPassions web site. Heart attack... I minimized that... Up popped LYLA.... second heart attack... and I quickly minimized that too... I glanced around and to my relief she was reading something as she was walking through the door. Memo to self.... clear web pages.

 

Added info: By the way if you are ever in this situation... minimizing the web site page is typically faster then closing it if you have more then one tab open.

If you are using a Windows PC and only need to "hide" not "close" the windows key + D on your keyboard is a life saver! That or mouse to lower right hand corner and click on most windows PC's hides everything!

 

Of course a SO might wonder why things went away so quick, but if you follow up with some quick ALT + F4 to close things out...

[Kilt Boy 29353]

I almost just destroyed a carefully tended relationship with a beautiful and intelligent woman by listening to information I heard from people I don't know as well and making some very wrong, stupid, and insulting assumptions.

 

Then repeating these horrible thoughts to her, questioning her personal integrity and making her feel like a total piece of crap.

 

I proved beyond a doubt that I'm a shitty friend and there is no way to redeem myself from what I've said. Oh, I could try to rationalize it and force her to forgive me. I'm not going that route. I've apologized and we've talked about it (and will likely talk about it some more), but I don't want her to forgive me.

 

I was a terrible person and said some really ugly things and there is really no coming back from that. We can repair the rift in what we had, but I don't expect forgiveness, even though I am honestly contrite. Some things you just can't come back from.

 

She is willing to keep me as a 'friend'. Time will tell if we can get over this together. It would be easy to just tell me to fuck off and be done with me.

 

Wish us luck.

[Kilt Boy 29353]

Be careful what you say. Some people may take your casual statements as promises.

 

I told an ATF early one week that I'd be in on Friday and I planned to be spending money on girls then. I came in on Friday, but was continually surrounded by other girls all day. On my way out, my ATF braced me for a conversation about me not keeping my promises. Apparently, I should have left the 3 girls who were paying attention to me (quite personal attention, I must add) to seek her out.

 

I disagree, but it has taught me to be very specific with my language now.

[Phaedrus 209521]

I told an ATF early one week that I'd be in on Friday and I planned to be spending money on girls then. I came in on Friday, but was continually surrounded by other girls all day. On my way out, my ATF braced me for a conversation about me not keeping my promises. Apparently, I should have left the 3 girls who were paying attention to me (quite personal attention, I must add) to seek her out.

 

I disagree, but it has taught me to be very specific with my language now.

 

I must admit, I find that rather odd. She, presumably, has other patrons; does she nevertheless expect you to see only her?

 

I've never had any pushback from anyone on not seeing them for a while, or for seeing other people; most people in this industry seem to understand that making your clients feel like crap is a good way to lose them entirely.

[Kilt Boy 29353]

I've never had any pushback from anyone on not seeing them for a while, or for seeing other people; most people in this industry seem to understand that making your clients feel like crap is a good way to lose them entirely.

Interesting side note, she did force me to examine a few of my motivations for my behaviour, which in turn has led to a decision to focus more on my primary relationship ... so, yeah. #backfire

[nntsci 11076]

That's funny, I've never experience a lady who was possessive. Though recently I was chatting with a lady who've I've been seeing for 5 years who is very pro marriage... she is my relationship counsellors... she'd actually make a great marriage counsellor, lol... anyway, I was saying something to her about my wife and she said to me in a very gentle manner while putting a condom on me, that perhaps we should stop talking about my wife for a while. LOL.

[nntsci 11076]

A bit more than a week ago while my wife was out of the city for a week (yippee) I asked a young lady service provider if she would like to spend a night in Niagara on the Lake, see a play, wine and dine, and generally have a lot of fun... She said yes and it was fantastic (for both of us). So I picked her up in Mississauga and took the 403 towards Niagara. I was driving in the HOV lane (which only requires 2 people for high occupancy. I'm not sure how but somewhere between the excitement of spending a night with her, or perhaps it was trying to help her figure out how to use my car's sound system, I missed the turn off where the 403 exits, and ended up on the 407 heading to Hamilton. Its rather sneaky the way they designed it so that going straight exits a free highway and enters a toll highway. The road is not the issue because it ends up connecting with the 403 again just before the Burlington Bridge, but the 407 is a toll road and they take a picture of your car and send you a bill. The cost is trivial (probably $15 for that stretch of road) but the bill will go to my home mail. I've been very careful to make sure no bills related to my hobby EVER are mailed to my home, but this bill is a potential problem. On the positive side my wife almost never collects the mail, but my eldest son sometimes does and leaves it on the table. So I now have to hope I'm the one that gets the bill, and quietly pays it; or if my son gets the mail, she doesn't open it. Alternatively I have to come up with a good reason why I was on the highway heading to Niagara that week.

[WhereIRoam 21825]

You really only have a few options here. Don't say a thing and hope you collect the mail or say something now so it won't seem as if you are making something up if she ends up opening that particular mail item. I would think that her opening such mail and you only saying something about it then would look...maybe a little more suspicious. No one knows a better excuse to come up with for this than you do I'm afraid.

 

Best of luck with this.

 

WIR

[nntsci 11076]

A bit more than a week ago while my wife was out of the city for a week (yippee) I asked a young lady service provider if she would like to spend a night in Niagara on the Lake, see a play, wine and dine, and generally have a lot of fun... She said yes and it was fantastic (for both of us). So I picked her up in Mississauga and took the 403 towards Niagara. I was driving in the HOV lane (which only requires 2 people for high occupancy. I'm not sure how but somewhere between the excitement of spending a night with her, or perhaps it was trying to help her figure out how to use my car's sound system, I missed the turn off where the 403 exits, and ended up on the 407 heading to Hamilton. Its rather sneaky the way they designed it so that going straight exits a free highway and enters a toll highway. The road is not the issue because it ends up connecting with the 403 again just before the Burlington Bridge, but the 407 is a toll road and they take a picture of your car and send you a bill. The cost is trivial (probably $15 for that stretch of road) but the bill will go to my home mail. I've been very careful to make sure no bills related to my hobby EVER are mailed to my home, but this bill is a potential problem. On the positive side my wife almost never collects the mail, but my eldest son sometimes does and leaves it on the table. So I now have to hope I'm the one that gets the bill, and quietly pays it; or if my son gets the mail, she doesn't open it. Alternatively I have to come up with a good reason why I was on the highway heading to Niagara that week.

Tragedy averted... I collected the mail today, got the 407 bill, paid it and quickly ripped it up. My wife does know there is a bill for the 407 (I drove her to the airport), but she will never see the little detail of the extra $9 (plus tax) it cost to travel down the 407 towards Hamilton and then to Niagara for an overnight stay will a lovely lady... not her.

[WhereIRoam 21825]

Tragedy averted... I collected the mail today, got the 407 bill, paid it and quickly ripped it up. My wife does know there is a bill for the 407 (I drove her to the airport), but she will never see the little detail of the extra $9 (plus tax) it cost to travel down the 407 towards Hamilton and then to Niagara for an overnight stay will a lovely lady... not her.

Success. Well done and tragedy averted.

 

Happy hobbying...

WIR

[Guest J**ck*9]

Accidentally sending a text to your wife which meant for your regular sp then getting the wife to ask you ... "Who is so and so?" ...... Oops! .... Luckily the text message was generic enough that I was able to explain it away ... Gulp!