Do SP's/MA's prefer older clients?

[northerntantra 4671]

There's a thread going on in "Courtesan / Escort Discussion for Winnipeg" about whether older SP's have "a better skillset" as a result of their greater experience.

 

I'd like to turn the question around and ask our SP's and MA's how they feel about younger clients versus older ones. Whether they find any general differences in attitude, skill, etc.

 

I've often wondered how a younger provider, say someone in their twenties, really feels about an encounter with a man in, say, his fifties.

 

And do older SP's relish the thought of being with a young, fit buck? Or are personality and skillful hands more important factors?

[DukeSSk 3430]

Great question, I'm anxious to hear the answers regarding what the ladies think about younger men. I remember reading in one discussion (I think it was SPs turnoffs or something similar), most ladies didn't appreciate younger men acting like an arrogant frat boy, which is perfectly understandable.

 

I've seen advertisements with age restrictions, which is fine. I'd say that I'm younger than the average here and I make an effort to be upfront about my age in my initial contact with the ladies. At the same time, I try to portray myself as mature and trustworthy, which is slightly challenging in a written format; I put some thought in my PMs and emails, and so far it has been well received.

[roamingguy 300292]

I'd guess first and foremost, the type of clients a lady prefers are gentlemen. A younger man who is a gentleman would be preferred over someone older who is a jerk.

That's this guy's guess

RG

[billybob 20128]

I think it's all about respect, it applies to all aspects of life, if you are respectful to people they will reciprocate. Sometimes it takes a few years to learn this, when you're young you feel invincible but as you get a little older you realize you're not.

 

Maybe it's harder if you're young, attractive and have a nice physique to realize there is more in life than having that, I never had that problem :)

[Guest S****r]

......they are so easily "WOW"ed by us older women. Really! My experience is that they leave in awe of how good good sex really is! I often ask them why they are going to an older woman instead of on a date with a hot 21 year old and they always say the same thing--the young girls might be hot but don't know what to do and leave all the work up to them, and ultimately become boring. (Not speaking about 21 year old SPs here, but your average 21 year old girl on a date.) They like for me to take control, and to ravish them. Sometimes it seems they can hardly breathe! This is a great boost to the ego of an older woman, and reeeaally turns me on even more, which in turn.....leads me to turn THEM on even more and......sigh.......it's all soooo good!

 

and sex with an older guy.....mmmmmmm........that's all good, too! I think it is probably only the older guys who ever make me squirt. Hmmmm....I'll have to keep track of that now and see! lol

 

On the other hand, you may remember.....I really looooooove sex, in all its glory!

 

Does that answer the question?

:icon_biggrin:

 

:-)

[nntsci 11076]

Sorry to continue highjacking this thread, but my first really really great SP experience was with a lady who was in her 40s. She advertized herself as 35, but she had 2 adult kids... the math for age didn't quite work out. But she was hot enough for 30, and really skilled. But I've also had really really great experiences with girls who were from 19 to 25. And perhaps my best date ever was with a 25 year old who has only been at her bedroom career for about 8 months.

 

Its all been good.

 

I'm nearing 50 and the girls have been wonderful to me. I'm a gentleman and they seem to enjoy spending the time with me as much as I enjoy their company.

[northerntantra 4671]

... I'm nearing 50 and the girls have been wonderful to me. I'm a gentleman and they seem to enjoy spending the time with me as much as I enjoy their company.

 

That's been my experience too. But it'll be interesting to hear what our ladies have to say on this I think. Summer is obviously happy with both younger and older men, for different reasons. It's a bit of a tough question for them, since no one will want to offend their potential (or actual) clients by saying they favour one age group over another.

 

Still, I think we might get some interesting insights into what turns our ladies on. We can't really do anything about our age, but there's plenty we can do about our looks, attitude, demeanor, grooming, dress, etc.

 

So let's hear it ladies ... what can the young guys do to enhance your experience with them? What can the older guys do? Think about the clients who you love to see. What's their magic for you?

[nntsci 11076]

Note I actually asked a similar question about preferred clients a few months ago.

 

I think this link will go to the thread, it answers some of your questions.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=85298

 

Now, I bow out and hope that the girls chime in with their thoughts.

[northerntantra 4671]

Note I actually asked a similar question about preferred clients a few months ago.

 

I think this link will go to the thread, it answers some of your questions.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=85298

 

Now, I bow out and hope that the girls chime in with their thoughts.

 

Thanks for bringing that to me attention. I may have read parts of it, but I'll go back through it from beginning to end. There's probably quite an overlap, so maybe we don't need to continue this thread.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

That's been my experience too. But it'll be interesting to hear what our ladies have to say on this I think. Summer is obviously happy with both younger and older men, for different reasons. It's a bit of a tough question for them, since no one will want to offend their potential (or actual) clients by saying they favour one age group over another.

 

Still, I think we might get some interesting insights into what turns our ladies on. We can't really do anything about our age, but there's plenty we can do about our looks, attitude, demeanor, grooming, dress, etc.

 

So let's hear it ladies ... what can the young guys do to enhance your experience with them? What can the older guys do? Think about the clients who you love to see. What's their magic for you?

 

The magic has no age. For me it's all in the attitude. Of course grooming etc....is important but personality turns me on. I am bubbly and full of energy, go with the flow. If you have no flow and are mechanical, I will respond in kind. As I write this I realize that I can't find the words to describe how the magic actually happens. For me, age is inconsequential as I have had wonderful experiences with 20yr olds right up to 75yr olds. A connection of some kind makes it wonderful and I am so sorry that I am unable to articulate my exact meaning.

[cometman 35115]

The magic has no age. For me it's all in the attitude. Of course grooming etc....is important but personality turns me on. I am bubbly and full of energy, go with the flow. If you have no flow and are mechanical, I will respond in kind. As I write this I realize that I can't find the words to describe how the magic actually happens. For me, age is inconsequential as I have had wonderful experiences with 20yr olds right up to 75yr olds. A connection of some kind makes it wonderful and I am so sorry that I am unable to articulate my exact meaning.

Au contraire, Meg......you articulated it perfectly. It doesn't matter if you're the giver or the givee, "it's" either there, or it isn't. I cannot remember who the lady is, but in her ads, she states that she has that "je ne sais quois". That's what we all look for.

[EmilyRushton 253363]

My personal preference is for a gentleman 35+, as I feel that I have better chemistry with someone my age or older. To me, my encounters are about the whole element of the date and all aspects of it (including before and after we meet) and mental chemistry is a huge key in our date being unforgettable.

 

That being said, the occasional younger gentleman has slipped through my radar, but with the glowing references and wonderful email exchanges I would have been a fool to pass up on such great company.

 

To me, if you are polite, follow instructions and not playing secret agent games I think we will have a great time, but if you are abrupt, rude and disrespectful we will not be visiting.

[Guest]

I like clients who treat me with respect. I have had young clients who have been more knoledgeable than lets say the 35plus clients and more respectful too. As long as I'm treated like a lady, I'm happy. This is a custermer service business no matter what way you look at it. So in this business you get all shapes and sizes of people along with a mix of personalities. It is just human nature to connect with some people better than others. It is just the nature of the beast. I don't find that I connect better with a certain age. I just connect to certain people more no matter what age they are.

[northerntantra 4671]

My personal preference is for a gentleman 35+, as I feel that I have better chemistry with someone my age or older.

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To me, if you are polite, follow instructions and not playing secret agent games I think we will have a great time, but if you are abrupt, rude and disrespectful we will not be visiting.

 

No one should have to put up with someone who is abrupt, rude or disrespectful. People like that should be cast off the island!

 

The replies so far seem to indicate that chemistry, manners and attitude are key factors for the ladies to have an enjoyable encounter. Doesn't surprise me really. And nntsci's earlier thread on this subject suggests the same thing, now that he's brought it to my attention and I've had time to read through it.

 

Emily, I do have to ask though ... what did you mean by "secret agent games"???

 

P.S. Glad you like the 35+ crowd ... it keeps me in the running :icon_biggrin:

[Guest Ve**Di**ySe**et]

There's a thread going on in "Courtesan / Escort Discussion for Winnipeg" about whether older SP's have "a better skillset" as a result of their greater experience.

 

I'd like to turn the question around and ask our SP's and MA's how they feel about younger clients versus older ones. Whether they find any general differences in attitude, skill, etc.

 

I've often wondered how a younger provider, say someone in their twenties, really feels about an encounter with a man in, say, his fifties.

 

And do older SP's relish the thought of being with a young, fit buck? Or are personality and skillful hands more important factors?

Myself, and I'm 40, I prefer SP's between 20 and 32. I'm into the party scene, so it works for me...