To the guys: How do you feel about mature ladies?

[a******s.m*****e 187]

When I started out in this business about ten years ago I thought I was too old for it. But here I am ten years later, doing the same job (erotic massage) loving it and having no problems attracting customers.

 

Honestly, in the beginning I thought I will only attract people who can't afford to see the "really pretty" young girls, but as time went by I realized that men are not always attracted to perfect young beauties. Many customers tell me they prefer older ladies. Many of them are very young; they could be my sons, but, interestingly, I don't feel bad about seeing them. Their enthusiasm is so genuine that it puts me at ease.

 

I have young customers who have been coming to see me for years. They say they are not interested in girls their age.

 

Some of my customers have childhood fantasies about a sexy aunt, teacher or neighbour and tell me I remind them of those ladies.

 

I was wondering how does the average guy think about this? I am sure these men, especially the young ones, don't share their thoughts with their peers. It is taboo to find an older woman sexy, but everybody understands the enthusiasm for sexy young girls.

I am wondering, are these customers of mine exceptions or is it true that a large percentage of men are attracted to women a lot older than them?

 

The poll is anonymous, so you can be honest ;)

[Guest i***k***]

Personally age doesn't matter to me... I'm more interested in the connection, level of experience and pure sexiness! :)

[d*mm*y 887]

Personally age doesn't matter to me... I'm more interested in the connection, level of experience and pure sexiness! :)

 

Ya I am in agreement with this one, I have seen 20 year old's that ooze that sex appeal and I have 60 year old's do it too. The connections is only for a limited time and for entertainment so why poss a limit like age on it? I am already pushing so many limits that I would never find anyone that wanted to see me if I had that as a criteria too!!!

[buggernot 588]

Naivete is cute, but wisdom is sexy. And I'll take a pretty face over a spinner body. Everyone has their personal preferences, but my guess would be that many serious hobbiests like variety. Smoking hot model-like 20 yr old one day, confident and sultry MILF the next.

 

I'm not sure older ladies are so taboo anymore though. I never heard the terms MILF and cougar being thrown around much 10 yrs ago, now it's pretty commonplace. I really think that the internet has drastically changed a lot of sexual attitudes, definitely has for me.

[Loki318 1631]

It is the Chemistry and the attitude ..

 

Loki318

[YoungStud 468]

Yes, that's right. Mood, chemistry, attitude, looks - approximately 20 to 50 works for me, depending on all those things.

[Guest f***2f***]

Age is not a factor......it's all about the attitude and frankly what the lady puts into it for the most part.....smoking body is nice but doesn't mean a hill of beans if you don't know how to use it...no matter what the age!!:boobies:

[a******s.m*****e 187]

I'm not sure older ladies are so taboo anymore though. I never heard the terms MILF and cougar being thrown around much 10 yrs ago, now it's pretty commonplace. I really think that the internet has drastically changed a lot of sexual attitudes, definitely has for me.

 

True, but one of my young customers said if he told his friends he likes older women they would think he is weird :)

[a******s.m*****e 187]

Thanks everybody for the input :)

 

I guess I just wanted to know what the average guy's opinion is on this.

[PistolPete 61421]

Love all ladies.... the age bracket would be at probably the age of 60, (I tend to believe there might of been a previous thread on this subject as I remembering answering this question).

 

Anyways, I've been with a lady age of 58. The the age of 58 she had a smokin body, and was very gorgeous (yes I was COUGAR hunting okay)...it wasn't a issue..besides she taught me a few tricks when I first started years ago. She still baby sits me once and a while:mrgreen::twisted:

[Kubrickfan 12836]

I agree with my learned colleagues above ... physical attractiveness is important as well as a desire to actually enjoy the time together ... much less to do with age, as some of my better experiences are with older ladies.

[spud271 47779]

I usually go for younger women, but every once in a while I like to see someone around my age. I never regret it! ;)

[a******s.m*****e 187]

Love all ladies.... the age bracket would be at probably the age of 60, (I tend to believe there might of been a previous thread on this subject as I remembering answering this question).

 

Sorry, I missed that :(

[E.D. man 691]

I hope to find an sp closer to my age.

But the most mature sp I found on this site is 26.

Both of the older sp's I ve been with in their 40's lied about their age.

I found it disappointing, they lied about their age one said she was 36 and the other 40.

What I look for in an sp is mutual respect and exceptional conversational skills.

I have found that this has nothing to do with age.:-D

[PistolPete 61421]

Never say your sorry, unless you need to apologize for something you had done that requires "Sorry"..in this circumstance there is no need to say sorry!;-)

 

Sorry, I missed that :(

[Emma Alexandra 123367]

I hope to find an sp closer to my age.

But the most mature sp I found on this site is 26.

Both of the older sp's I ve been with in their 40's lied about their age.

I found it disappointing, they lied about their age one said she was 36 and the other 40.

What I look for in an sp is mutual respect and exceptional conversational skills.

I have found that this has nothing to do with age.:-D

 

 

we always lie about our age...if someone asks me i tell them the truth...i'm 43 and proud of my age..!!! Even some young chcikies lie and say their younger and in some weird cases say their older...lol

kisses,

Emma A

[antlerman 17064]

Emma....you are not 43!!!

 

You are 30/13....pronounced.....thirty-thirteen:lol:

[Emma Alexandra 123367]

Emma....you are not 43!!!

 

You are 30/13....pronounced.....thirty-thirteen:lol:

 

sounds better your way...lmao...when i was very young i used to count to ten ..then when i reached 11 it was 11teen,12teen,13teenteen,14teenteen and so on...maybe its a Cape Breton thing...rotflmao

[d*mm*y 887]

we always lie about our age...if someone asks me i tell them the truth...i'm 43 and proud of my age..!!! Even some young chcikies lie and say their younger and in some weird cases say their older...lol

kisses,

Emma A

 

This boggles my mind, as some of you may know I am into years and months and days for my own curiosity about the correlation between astrology and the Chinese zodiac (yaya it's not real research but it fun pretending). Any way I am amazed at how many SP's lie for the sake of lying, who the hell cares if you are really 25 and say you are 22?? or another pointless one is the I say I am 28 but I am really 32?? I do understand that sometimes it is due to neglected advertising and that addor website was done when you were 28, but really how much effort is it to keep it up to date? The pictues are recent!

 

There as amny guys looking for a 32 year old as there are looking for a 28 year old etc...the best age to use the real age, because then you will get the guys looking for someone that age.... and the guys that don't care about the number will appreciate your honesty.

 

Emma you are one of the best SP's out there for an honest approach, you are who you are take it orr leave it and because of that you have a faithful following. I wish more ladies could learn from your example.

[slycanuck 100]

well i know from my experience as limited as it is older ladies are sexy and alot of my friends brag or have bragged about bedding sexy older ladies. i think that everyone has their own sexiness whether its the confidence they exude or their experience they have to the ones with the smokin hot bods :) so to all the older ladies out there hope you all keep it cumming ;)

[a******s.m*****e 187]

Thanks everybody for the input :)

 

If we can go by the poll, looks like most guys are not looking exclusively for young girls/women. This is good news ;)

 

I am just wondering how far does this interest go?

 

Let's say there was a Playboy-like magazine about women over 40+ or 50+, with "normal" older women, no excessive Photoshop, not much botox or plastic surgery. With other words, normal, nice looking older women naked. Can you imagine buying that magazine and masturbate to the pictures?

 

Or, let's assume there was an escort board for women over 50, would you go there looking for actual dates, or would you just look at it as entertainment, but would never consider seeing them?

 

I can't see any such magazine or escort board, and the online porn about older women is more like a freak-show, at least the ones I came across.

 

And the million dollar question: :)

 

If there is so much interest in older ladies, why is the whole escort and porn industry geared toward flawless, pretty young women?

 

(I apologize if any of these questions are too personal and puts you on the spot, feel free not to answer them:))

[Guest i***k***]

Thanks everybody for the input :)

 

If we can go by the poll, looks like most guys are not looking exclusively for young girls/women. This is good news ;)

 

I am just wondering how far does this interest go?

 

Let's say there was a Playboy-like magazine about women over 40+ or 50+, with "normal" older women, no excessive Photoshop, not much botox or plastic surgery. With other words, normal, nice looking older women naked. Can you imagine buying that magazine and masturbate to the pictures?

 

Or, let's assume there was an escort board for women over 50, would you go there looking for actual dates, or would you just look at it as entertainment, but would never consider seeing them?

 

I can't see any such magazine or escort board, and the online porn about older women is more like a freak-show, at least the ones I came across.

 

And the million dollar question: :)

 

If there is so much interest in older ladies, why is the whole escort and porn industry geared toward flawless, pretty young women?

 

(I apologize if any of these questions are too personal and puts you on the spot, feel free not to answer them:))

 

I think the poll clearly shows that gentlemen here like a variety of women. As for a cross section of men in general, yes it's not hard to believe there is a larger interest in younger women or extremely attractive mature women in great shape.

 

At the end of the day plain is plain no matter how old plain may be.

[Guest f***2f***]

Well of course young eye candy is very pleasant but I think what most of us are saying is that once you get beyond the visual we all want to have our nuts fucked off.....whether you're 18 or 48 you have to deliver the sexy goods!!:mrgreen:

[the lurker 160]

I personally think Ina said it. Variety is key. I find younger women are much different then ummmm more mature ladies :D

 

It's all about how you're feeling. Some younger women do ooze sex appeal, but can be fast and furious and out the door. While most ahhh established ladies can redefine crazy.

 

I have preferred the older woman my whole life. The woman that took me the first time did just that. Literally had issues walking for 2 days. Then again a 25 year old ripped 4 shots on goal from my body in less than 2 hours not that long ago.

 

So in the end it is all about the connection. After all it's all about the time we spend no?

 

Great question though.

[SamanthaEvans 166766]

When I came out of retirement, I thought it might be a long-shot. I've had ongoing private arrangements with several men, none of whom consider themselves to be paying a prostitute for her time. They think of themselves as friends who help ensure that I'll be available to spend time with them. It works. I had no idea whether I would find clients easily.

 

But when I began seeking clients more actively, I was pleasantly surprised about the response. I'm not perfect-looking. I'm a smaller-type BBW, very curvy, and I've had three children. I would never volunteer for the hypothetical Playboy feature! I'm not ashamed of how I look, at all. I am who and what I am, and I'm comfortable with it. And I know I'm much better in bed now than I was 20 years ago--no question about it!

 

It's obvious that there are many, many men who actively seek women like me. Most of my clients are in their late 50s and 60s; I have two regulars who are in their 70s. One of them teases me that I'll be even better when I'm older. 8-) Those who've talked about it have told me that they like to look at the gloriously lovely young women, but they don't feel quite right having sex with them--they start thinking about their own daughters and that makes them very uncomfortable.