Escorts not wanting to get reviewed

[dreamer8 510]

I don't personaly know the SP's that have made this request but if your like me and you came here for a review or two and someone says "no not me" doesn't that leave you a little suspicious? Wouldn't these ladies be better off standing up to any critics, rather than hiding from them?

 

Dreamer

[mod 135640]

In the past when the ladies would get "slammed" when they defended themselves against a bad review (It use to be so bad many of the ladies who were online back then will not post on any boards)

 

... over the years this has smoothed itself out some (At least on some boards) and the "trolls" that like to cause a lot of crap have pretty much moved on as the site owners just delete them when they post so they get no real enjoyment out of it anymore.

 

These days if you get a bad review usually someone who has had a good experience with the lady lets others know (Comes to her defense) unless the review is a typical bad experience then others will agree.

 

Keep in mind that the boards are anonymous so sometimes the BAD REVIEWS are posted by other ladies who may be trying to damage another ladies rep or a irate customer who did not "Click" with the lady (Your experience may be very different) on the other hand if you see a really GREAT review it could easily be a agency or a lady trying to promote themselves by placing fake reviews (Also known as "Shilling" - I think this comes from the "Shill Bidding" term for when you bid on your own item to give it more value and not the currency)

 

Some of the ladies get constantly BAD reviews and they do spend lots of time going to all the review boards and demanding to have the posts removed. Some have even sued board owners if the threads are not removed.

 

So to answer your question...

If you see someone on the "DO NOT REVIEW LIST" then it would be a pretty safe bet that they did not like a post they found here about themselves. Common sense says if the lady promotes herself online (Ads, website, etc...) why would she ask to remove reviews (Free advertising) if they were positive reviews?

 

If your really curious why not email the person on the DO NOT REVIEW list (or better yet - call them) and ask them directly why they do not wish to be reviewed? Bet you get some really far out excuses!!

[asialyn 100]

There are many reasons why a lady would not want to be reviewed. However, if a she was a "rip off", I am sure it would be published despite her wishes.

 

Some reasons why a provider may not wish to be reviewed.

- To escape bad reviews

- Good reviews create high expectations which may not be available to everybody, YMMV.

- Some reviewers are over explicit with session details. ie location, private conversations, etc....

- To avoid the type of clientele who are board hounds

- To create the illusion she is a low volume provider

- To remain a mystery thus creating intrigue of some sort

- Or just simply put, reviews and or reviewers can put off a lady. So to continue to enjoy her job she may request this "NRP"

- She just enjoys her privacy.

 

I suppose for some, these are pretty bad EXCUSES!

[mod 135640]

If a lady asks to not be reviewed we will remove all posts about her and put her on the do not review list. She is then asked to not participate on this site in any way (Including posting in the schedule and availability area).

 

I am sure some of the other sites just ignore these requests from the ladies and keep the bad postings but we respect the requests!

 

At least the with bad reviews some people may say "Hell, that would not bother me about her I think I will give her a call and see for myself" and it may let the lady know where she is loosing repeat business.

 

I do agree with you on...

 

- Good reviews create high expectations which may not be available to everybody, YMMV.

- Some reviewers are over explicit with session details. ie location, private conversations, etc....

 

... but why would they just ask to have the specific comments removed if that were the case? (So far no one has used either of these as a valid reason here and I think I would consider this request with this reason as it does sound legit)

 

With the "DO NOT REVIEW LIST" it's a pretty good sign to take caution when booking a appointment with them. Experience will always be a little different so you may enjoy spending time with someone who someone else did not enjoy spending time with.

 

In my experience however "to escape bad reviews" is the main reason why the ladies request this and such other excuses are just cover up stories.

 

If the lady is already advertising online, lets face it... most of the other reasons are really BS and just lame excuses!

 

No one is being fooled by that. If the lady wanted privacy she would not post her photos on the internet.

[dreamer8 510]

Thanks MOD

 

You answered my question loud and clear ;)

 

~Dreamer

[JoyfulC 132299]

I'm not sure what good reviews do anyway. Recently, a couple of (probably well-meaning) guys posted some good, but extremely explicit, reviews of me here. Suddenly, I started receiving all sorts of e-mails and phone calls from unsophisticated guys insisting that I verify whether what the reviews said was true. They asked compromising questions and many asked for invites to my private site, as well.

 

That's just not how I do things, and so it didn't really result in anything more than a waste of my time and theirs, too.

 

I would prefer that my clients leave what goes on behind closed doors in private -- after all, I thought mutual confidentiality was part of the bargain -- but if some don't wish to respect that, I'm not going to get all upset and demand that site moderators remove reviews, etc. I'm just not going to be impressed.

 

..c..

Keep the mystique!

[mod 135640]

I guess some people just don't get it. For the guys who are struggling with this ... I will let you all in on a little secret ... The ladies that have been in the business for a while are smart enough to not tell you things over the phone about sexual conduct and services offered. If you ask them specific questions they will most likely deny them if they are of sexual nature.

 

Even though prostitution is legal in Canada phone solicitation (and possibly email and even online ads) are all considered "Grey area"! Cell phones and public pay phones can be considered "Public" (this is the Grey area) and it is illegal to solicit sexual services in public. To my knowledge no one in Canada has ever been convicted because of this but in strict cities they could use it as grounds for more investigations.... and if the lady offers in calls (Also illegal in Canada) then they could use the combination of the phone solicitation and the incall location to charge the service provider without actually having sex with the SP.

 

So bottom line.... The ladies must be discrete!! ... and the ones that have been in the business for a while know this best!

 

The reviews should not be so explicit that you could put the lady in a bad situation even if you mean well.

 

If you wish to let people know you had a wonderful time without being explicit then a post like "I really enjoyed my time with XXXXX and I will repeat, her photos and info are accurate and she really went all out to make our time enjoyable" is not really a "Review" but it lets others know she is legit and has happy customers! I call this a recommendation and here on CERB we prefer recommendations more then reviews... that is why our logo says "Canadian Escort Recommendation Board" (Often mistaken for REVIEW board but we do wish to run things differently here then the other review boards)

 

If you put any more detail in your post you could be putting the lady who you just enjoyed your time with in a bad situation as she might not offer the same services to someone she does not feel as comfortable with. (The menu does change based on the customers and comfort level - in many cases)

 

Also if she does not like to be reviewed (Even good reviews) then you should respect her wishes as well.

 

So the next time you are thinking of calling a SP and asking if Anal or BBBJ or CIM is available over the phone cause you read it in a review... expect the escort to say no! ... or ... no sexual services are available ... or ... I do not discuss explicit things over the phone ... or ... they may just hang up on you!! It's not worth the risk in saying YES! My suggestion would be to make an appointment (Not at a incall as this would also restrict what the girl can say as well as if she discusses sexual availability at a incall location she could be charges with the common bawdy house law) so if you meet them at a hotel or other private place you can simply ask in person ... once behind closed doors (In Private) and not at a common bawdy house they can say whatever they want legally and answer all your questions!!! Or bite the bullet and just visit them and once the fun starts you can ask as much as you would like and see where it goes.

 

Don't expect anything (especially if you read it in a review).

 

Hope this helps... should I make this post a STICKY so everyone GET'S IT!

[mod 135640]

I revised by thread above as I had some bad info (Forgot to mention incalls as being a illegal place to discuss sexual services) it's not revised with better info.

 

My Disclaimer: I am not a lawyer or legal council, this is one persons personal interpretation of the law here in Canada and it's based on many discussions with people in the industry over the last 10 years. If you are seeking legal advise you should speak to a legal professional and not take the word of some person moderating a escort discussion forum! :)