StevenHynes 100 Report post Posted March 10, 2009 Hey everyone, so I am completely new to this and I will be getting my first SP within the next week or so as my friend has convinced me to try one (I've always been curious, but I'm kinda shy). Anyways, I was wondering what I should be expecting, such as: 1) What will happen when I call the agency? 2) How much should I expect on average for about an hour? 3) What kind of services do most provide? 4) If I do an incall, would that be where the agency is or where the girl lives, or where? 5) What will happen once I get there? What I mean is do we start talking first, does she take her clothes off right away, etc. 6) If I pay for an hour, do I get her for the full hour? What if I finish early? 7) Do I bring my own condoms? 8. What are the chances that it's a set-up or something in that nature? 9) Would it be a problem if I'm only 21? Or would the she feel uncomfortable? I'm sure most of these questions seem very dumb and silly to you, but I just have absolutely no clue in this area (never really been exposed to this kind of stuff). Any answers would be greatly appreciated! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted March 10, 2009 All these questions can be answered if you read the threads here. The SEARCH button is your friend. Some of the members may reply to you but as you can imagine many people before you have asked these same questions... it's all here if you use the search button and do some reading. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted March 10, 2009 Joke answer Serious answer 1) What will happen when I call the agency? Some one will answer the phone.......... Seriously...they will answer the phone...just tell them you are looking for (name of lady) and ask if she is available at (time)?.....yes..or no...work out a time that works for you 2) How much should I expect on average for about an hour? About 60 minutes....... The rate will be posted or indicated over th phone........it all depends on the lady...service....and options... 3) What kind of services do most provide? Most provide companionship....the finer details are left between consenting adults Most provide companionship....the finer details are left between consenting adults 4) If I do an incall, would that be where the agency is or where the girl lives, or where? back of a car most likely........maybe a back alley if you are lucky. Depends...if you call and indie...could be a hotel or her working address....if you call an agency...it could be a hotel...or thier working location 5) What will happen once I get there? What I mean is do we start talking first, does she take her clothes off right away, etc. Hopefully you will not have time to talk...wink...wink.....I prefer taking thier clothes off..... Sit down...have a chat...maybe a glass of something to drink.....it is a little odd at first...but it goes away and the time is wonderful....then depending on the conversation....if you indicate you are shy or this is your first time....the lady might take the lead...and strip you....go with the flow 6) If I pay for an hour, do I get her for the full hour? What if I finish early? As soon as you are done she will kick your naked ass out the door.......NEXT!!! If you loose it in a few minutes...most ladies will try to help you go again before your time is up.....if you want to leave....then leave...but sitting and talking is great....it can relax you and a post-coital cuddle is great 7) Do I bring my own condoms? If you like........but leave them in the wrapper for her to open....... The ladies are well prepared.....but if you have a favrite type of protection..then bring it along 8. What are the chances that it's a set-up or something in that nature? Well...you called....you set the appointment........you go to a private location....not a public space.......and if some one answers the door in a blue uniform..... If you stick with a well known lady or agency......chances are nill......if you do a Risky Business thing with the paper...you never know 9) Would it be a problem if I'm only 21? Or would the she feel uncomfortable? Are you talking...length...circumference.......metric or imperial? Ask..the lady or agency about age restrictions.......some do...some do not but most of all read the forum...there is alot of information about the ladies and what to expect. 7 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest i***k*** Report post Posted March 10, 2009 WOW you're way to nice ant I would have let him do some searching lol... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted March 10, 2009 That was very nice! Thanks for taking the time to help out the newbie (and also a lighter side of things to entertain the rest of us) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
E.D. man 691 Report post Posted March 10, 2009 I suggest you look in the reccomendation board of your city here on cerb and you can find what you are looking for.:boobies: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whatsup 11893 Report post Posted March 10, 2009 Antlerman for you to reply to a newb was a real benefit to him and others that read your post reply. It is something to be an enquiring greenhorn and the questions he asked were excellent and your lighter side was a added treat for us. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted March 10, 2009 WE were all newbs once and I can understand the anxiety in some of the questions. You do have to do some research and this board is excellent. Pick a lady who is well recommended by Senior Member on this board who appeals to you (a good indicator is you feel a stirring in your pants as you read the experience one of us had with a certain lady) The ladies have seen it all and are very good at guiding you through your first experience. My first sp after I researched her on this board was a recommendation of Cowboy Kenny...Erica Skye....she was a sweety and I was not disappointed. Search, read, decide....GO FOR IT!!:boobies: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
s********m 116 Report post Posted March 11, 2009 Hey what a great place this is all the good advice. Welcome to the board hun and just have fun with it. KISSES SUZIE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted March 11, 2009 Hey Boner, you're nearing 1000 posts buddy! So StevenHynes, I would suggest you bring your own condoms as you don't want to risk getting there and finding out the girl has run out, or she only has the kind you really don't like or are allergic to or something! If you've had sex before (all I mean is, you're not a virgin), then I'm sure within a few minutes of arriving you'll get comfortable and know what to do. Almost every SP I've seen intuitively seems to be able to read me and we always manage to get along, some better than others of course. If you're a virgin, then you might be nervous the whole time and I can't really help you there..that's a whole other topic. Most girls like to see the money upfront, just place it on the table once you're sure you want to stay. That's always the most uncomfortable part for me. Sometimes I'm just all nerves and I just say "Wanna make out?" and the girl will usually laugh and reply "Yes, come over here..." and the rest is well you know....good! :-) Good luck and be sure to report back to us! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166767 Report post Posted March 11, 2009 Good Q&A. I just wanted to chime in and say that if you have a preference in condoms, or if there are some that you don't tolerate, it's fine to say so when you make the appointment. Some women--like me--prefer to provide the condoms themselves. I'd make sure to have what you like, if at all possible. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted March 11, 2009 Yes if you're part of this community the report back is important. It's not just all about you!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted March 11, 2009 As for bringing your own condoms, probably best to ask about that first. Certainly, SPs will use the protection they think is most effective, not necessarily the one you brought and like because it's thin or flavourful or whatever. I'm told that guys occasionally have been known to try to have a free "accidental raw pop" by bringing along intentionally defective condoms cleverly re-sealed in the original package with Crazy Glue. Could be an urban myth. lol But is probably one reason many SPs perfer to use the ones they've bought themselves, unless they are bigger risk-takers than most. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted March 12, 2009 As for bringing your own condoms, probably best to ask about that first. Certainly, SPs will use the protection they think is most effective, not necessarily the one you brought and like because it's thin or flavourful or whatever.... My post might not be exactly relevant to this thread but I would like to add a little something personal to what you said, YoungStud. As a Companion, I believe it is my responsability to have more than enough protection with me (regular and extra large) so my Gentleman doesn't have to worry about anything but the great moments we are going to share together... Second, by always providing my own protection, I know that the "packages" haven't been damaged and kept at the right temperature; Didn't leave them in the car for an extended period of time at -30 or at +30... Some Gentlemen also keep condoms in their wallet/back pocket and that can also damage the "important small packages". Also, I might not be the only one but I have allergic reactions to condoms with spermicide so I prefer to buy my own and make sure I only buy the ones that are lubricated. xox Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
