Questions/subjects to avoid initiating with an SP

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

Don't forget..."are you FREE for dinner",I had that asked to day..the guy actually said " I don't want to pay you but i'll take you out for a nice dinner..." I'm not a dating service.

The next one he asked and we all hate this:

"Why do you charge _ _ _ and the others girls I see charge less. "

 

Guess who didn't get to see me...lol

 

[Madison_Sparks 3740]

Cat's list is just perfect!!!

 

I had to walk away laughing and gripping my sides when I read the "stand on your head" one XD

 

I think it's safe to say (for both the ladies n gents) that if you would feel awkward answering the question your self that you should add it to your own red flag list of faux pas.

 

The information (personal or opinions) that is offered in an encounter should simply be that, offered. I always do my best not to ask questions, but instead steer conversations along as though I have just meet someone randomly that is stimulating. (Which for the most part is kinda what is going on right)

 

As for the "shopping around" questions.....

If u want to be sure the girl isn't giving someone else a cut just ask her if she is independent. Simple, factual, and polite :)

As for the "feeding a habit" concern.......

Take the time to read reviews, ask other members, and msg the lady or call her and feel her out a bit. Most ladies that consider themselves "elite" "professional" "VIP" and so on from my experience are very clean both inside and out. (This means their personalities as well, just say'n)

 

And just to add to Cat's already amazing list

 

"I'm young and good looking, I have no problem getting laid, can I get a discount?"

 

This one blows me away every time. I know we all like a good laugh but come on now :P

 

<3

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[LeeRichards 177238]

Cat's list is just perfect!!!

 

I had to walk away laughing and gripping my sides when I read the "stand on your head" one XD

 

I think it's safe to say (for both the ladies n gents) that if you would feel awkward answering the question your self that you should add it to your own red flag list of faux pas.

 

The information (personal or opinions) that is offered in an encounter should simply be that, offered. I always do my best not to ask questions, but instead steer conversations along as though I have just meet someone randomly that is stimulating. (Which for the most part is kinda what is going on right)

 

As for the "shopping around" questions.....

If u want to be sure the girl isn't giving someone else a cut just ask her if she is independent. Simple, factual, and polite :)

As for the "feeding a habit" concern.......

Take the time to read reviews, ask other members, and msg the lady or call her and feel her out a bit. Most ladies that consider themselves "elite" "professional" "VIP" and so on from my experience are very clean both inside and out. (This means their personalities as well, just say'n)

 

And just to add to Cat's already amazing list

 

"I'm young and good looking, I have no problem getting laid, can I get a discount?"

 

This one blows me away every time. I know we all like a good laugh but come on now :P

 

<3

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Funny Madison.....go get laid then big guy. That will cost you 180 drinks and several trips to a bar, a box of condoms if successful and if oops I don't have or need a condom then perhaps an STD or a "baby on board" !

 

Well if that doesn't work.....how about....."I am middle aged and don't look in the mirror anymore....I can't remember when I got laid last....can I get a seniors hobbyist discount?" ;)

[roamingguy 300292]

 

"I'm young and good looking, I have no problem getting laid, can I get a discount?"

 

This one blows me away every time. I know we all like a good laugh but come on now :P

 

<3

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I'm young and good looking, that's not the line

George Costanza has the line and it seems to work

There's a Seinfeld episode for just about every eventuality in life

RG :-)

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

"I'm young and good looking, I have no problem getting laid, can I get a discount?"

 

This one blows me away every time. I know we all like a good laugh but come on now :P

 

This question gets me every time LOL

 

Along the same lines...

We seem to have great chemistry, do you think we could be friends with benefits instead?

 

Maybe we should start a thread on the best 'pick up lines' asking for discounts and/or freebies? ;) lol

[roamingguy 300292]

This question gets me every time LOL

 

Along the same lines...

We seem to have great chemistry, do you think we could be friends with benefits instead?

 

Maybe we should start a thread on the best 'pick up lines' asking for discounts and/or freebies? ;) lol

 

I'm Gabriella's husband and I don't get any discount.

Nor do I expect one, from her or any lady

I probably wouldn't be able to contribute the best pick up lines, I find being myself, open honest and upfront, works best, including verification information plus reference

By the way, Gabriella and I really aren't married, those comments are just joking around

RG

[Athos 108589]

I just try to ensure the conversation is respectful and genuine. I really enjoy the conversations I have with the fabulous women I see. They are bright, engaging and intelligent women, and generally we have no trouble carrying on a conversation. Think of it like a first date with someone you like and want to impress. You wouldn't pry on a first date, and stay away from more sensitive personal issues. On later dates, sometimes these things get discussed, but they should be at the lady's initiative.

[Madison_Sparks 3740]

I just try to ensure the conversation is respectful and genuine. I really enjoy the conversations I have with the fabulous women I see. They are bright, engaging and intelligent women, and generally we have no trouble carrying on a conversation. Think of it like a first date with someone you like and want to impress. You wouldn't pry on a first date, and stay away from more sensitive personal issues. On later dates, sometimes these things get discussed, but they should be at the lady's initiative.

 

I really wish I knew how to give rep points on mobile for this comment. So beautifuly put and no laptop insight :(

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[mrgreen760 37785]

In my personal life as well as this one I do believe that most, not all, but most folks do like and want to talk about themselves. If you're friendly, open and interested people will tell you the most intimate and personal things without ever even asking a personal question. Some times the most innocuous question takes you into very interesting territory. Of course not everyone is like this but my experience have clearly shown me lots are....

 

Peace

MG

[LuxeMulvari 65764]

Cat's list is bang on

[piano8950 32577]

 

What's the most guys you've seen in one day?

 

 

This question has been mentioned as a big no no for very obvious reasons. All the more surprising when an MA I visited indirectly told me without me asking or going near that subject (it was oddly related to something completely different to what we were talking about). It didn't creep me out or leave me with any negative reaction, it just surprised me, at the time, I remembered thinking it wasn't something spoken about usually.

[Aspen Wilde 31370]

If you ask what to call me I will ask that you call me Romeo. Nay. I will insist!

[Phaedrus 209521]

Cat's list is bang on

 

The problem is that I'm now trying to think of something outrageous enough to top the stuff in Cat's list.

 

Will anyone give me a discount if I show up wearing just hip-waders and a pink afro wig? It's really sexy, just wait until you see it... and I don't want to actually do anything, just sit on your doorstep and wave at the neighbors. Is that OK?

[fortunateone 156618]

Referring back to Vanguard's post where he actually asked about substance abuse and pimps, the key here if first contact or first visit, is refrain from questions that only have one answer, true or not true.

 

If someone is indy, or they work in a hidden brothel and don't want you to know others will be there at the same time, or they do indeed have a pimp, the answer to the question is NO. True or not, no one is going to say yes, they have a pimp.

 

If someone is using drugs, they will say no they don't if asked. One thing callers rarely ask me is if I drink excessively. To me a drunk is probably just as likely to make poor judgment calls, or flake out on appts, or any number of things. A drug addict might be a highly functioning one. Who knows. In any case, if asked the answer will be no, they don't do drugs, or get high or whatever.

 

Don't ask "Are you clean?". I am not sure what that is supposed to even mean, and in any case, no matter who you talk to and what they do or do not have, the answer will always be "Yes".

 

And if you call me, you will hear me ask you "Are you?" , and if your answer is 'yes', you'd best be prepared to tell me when you got tested, the test results, and be ready to bring them with you, because if you do start seeing sps, you need to be tested before you see your first one.

 

:)

[LuxeMulvari 65764]

interesting thread...

[Jhena Grey 25615]

Talking (gossiping) about other SP's.

[Athos 108589]

Talking (gossiping) about other SP's.

 

It's not just clients who do that! I've been asked (not recently) who else in a city I've seen and received a gossipy run down on each.

 

Just to be clear ... This was probably 10 years ago, and certainly not a CERB lady. I only saw her the once as I wasn't sure she wouldn't gossip about clients either!

[esoterica 624]

8. Can I stand you on your head while you give me a bj?

 

Well... There's this SP in Waterloo called {ummm I better delete her name}... It's not an act that you request from her but it is something that she is very proud of springing on a client, so to speak.

[Guest s******ecan****]

Its a matter of guys being switched on and forgetting about the normal rules of small talk. Some of those questions posted earlier were rude, but a lot of them are normal small talk that we have been conditioned to fall into when we meet new people. The problem is that those normal rules of small talk have to be suspended because of the nature of your encounter with an SP.

 

To my knowledge I have never asked a question on that list but I've had to bite my tongue more than once when reflex almost had me asking 1 or 2 of the more innocuous yet still off limit questions.

 

It goes both ways though. I've had many SP's ask me whether I'm married, have kids, what business I work in etc. Not subjects I'm really interested in talking about either.

[Superfish 866]

17. I brought rolled change for part of my donation, is that a problem? (paid $250 in rolled pennies and dimes

 

That one is my favourite. Was it all stuffed into a bag with a dollar sign on it?

[roamingguy 300292]

Conversation also depends on context for example. If the question is prying, very inappropriate. But and especially when I first embarked on this lifestyle, some SP's asked me if I was married, had a girlfriend etc, why I was seeing escorts, and so on. It wasn't questions of a prying nature, it was the lady trying to help make conversation with a man she doesn't know. But I could get the vibe on why the questions were asked and felt comfortable answering.

There are ladies I've seen on a regular basis and they actually know for example, where I work and I've been asked questions about my work. (btw to me my work is boring, been doing it 28 years, but I can see how it would be interesting from a civilians point of view so I answer. And no, not saying where I work here), other personal matters etc. It's not rude when asked, it's conversation with a lady I have gotten to know, and there is much more trust and openness between us. And the trust is reciprocated, ladies have talked about things which would be in the realm of private and personal, but felt safe enough to talk.

And it's actually kinda nice. Having met some ladies I have repeated with, and we feel comfortable enough talking about more than the weather. It certainly isn't a conversation that would happen on a very first encounter. But now, that we both feel that safe and comfortable with each other, and having conversations of much more personal nature, to me at least, that is a large part of making encounters intimate...and that is even before going to the bedroom

But it is something that evolves over time, don't expect it on a first encounter. But if you are lucky enough to develop that sort of connection with a lady (or lady with a gentleman) cherish it, it is something special, and makes all the more encounters you have with the lady just that much more magical

Hope that rambling makes sense

RG

[Andee 220524]

I'm a pretty tolerant person when it comes to questions because I really do believe some guys just don't know any better, so I usually choose to change the topic or reply with some witty answer.

 

Having said that, the questions that bug me the most are:

 

1. How many guys did you see today/this week?

 

2. How much money do you pull in, in a day?

 

3. Would you give me a discount because I plan on becoming a regular (We've never met yet and I have not even agreed to an appointment yet).

 

4. Can I just slip it in for a minute. I'm clean.

 

5. I have a case of beer and some doobies. If you're not busy, do you want to come by and just chill?

 

I think Cat's list was pretty all-encompassing.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Do you think your incall partner would like to come and play with us? First of all, most times she is not there and sure no problem but only if you're willing to pay her for her time.

 

Busy today?

 

Can I be your first appt of the day? Why? Is there a lineup outside? lol

 

Do you have any STDs?

[sandimoon 72517]

After all the details are ironed out,

I have gotten this charming question:

" Oh, by the way, my friend is with me.

Since I never use the whole hour,

when I'm done, can he take a turn?"

My response:

" Well sure....just remember to bring your 2 for 1 coupons".

Morons!

Sandi

[DwayneR 2105]

1. Whats your "real" name?

2. How many men have you been with today?

3. So, have you been busy?

4. Is your real hair color/breast size/nails/tan real?

5. How did you get into the business?

6. Do you have a boyfriend/SO/partner?

7. Why don't you go Indie?

8. Can I stand you on your head while you give me a bj?

9. Why do you have to put the condom on now?

10. Can I have a tour of your place?

11. Who is that in the picture?

12. Are the sheets clean?

13. Did you shower?

14. Tell me the difference between the 1hr and 2hr option besides time, I might want to readjust our session.

15. Is that what you are wearing?

16. I thought you would be _________ (taller, shorter, skinnier, fatter, younger, older)

17. I brought rolled change for part of my donation, is that a problem? (paid $250 in rolled pennies and dimes)

18. Do you own this place?

19. You should take yoga.

20. Have you ever considered having your breasts done?

21. Do you have a bong?

22. Can you drive me home afterwards?

23. I have a friend in the car, is it ok if he waits in your livingroom?

24. How many children do you have?

25. Do you REALLY enjoy it or are you an awesome actress?

26. Can we "just hang out" cause I think we have a real connection.

27. What are the perks if I become a good regular?

28. Can I leave my shoes and socks on for the whole visit?

29. Whats the weirdest request you've ever had?

30. Has anyone ever hurt you during an appointment?

31. Does your family know what you do?

 

And my all time favorite!

 

32. Your such a smart woman, why don't you get a real job?

 

These are all questions I have been asked personally and they range from mildly annoying to WTF is he thinking!

 

cat

 

LOL number 8 , 17 and 28 ...almost fell out of my chair.

Sorry Cat, not funny to happen to you, but it is really funny to read.