Accusync 120 Report post Posted July 18, 2012 I'm wondering... Is there any providers that give freebies or a discount on birthdays? Maybe a 10th one is free card? I already get a free breakfast, lunch and diner for free from restaurants... and so many free desserts it's crazy but I think it would be great to get a special something when it's your birthday. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 The only way I could imagine a lady doing this is if perhaps if you were a regular client who came to see her consistently at so many intervals for at least a year or more. I don't think it's polite to see someone a few times and then expect something for free just because it's your birthday (or any other type of anniversary). But even then, it would be up to her. I think it would be extremely rude to ask a lady for a freebie of any kind. 12 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 I'm sure there would be many providers who would be happy to give you a free kick in the balls if you asked them for birthday freebies! 13 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Boomer 33202 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 Look, if you expect that sort of treatment you earn it. That means you've seen her on a regular basis and developed a real good personal relationship. And you've probably been making that extra bit of effort with a nice gift , say flowers, chocolates or a nice bottle of wine now and then. You have to realize that she's like most women, they can be very giving when they are treated generously and with respect. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WildTiger 1296 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 I agree that you shouldn't be hoping or expecting freebies from an SP for your birthday. On the other hand, last year I gave myself a birthday present by visiting one of my favorite SPs. While catching up a bit on the phone, I mentioned that she was going to be my birthday present to myself. To my great surprise she greeted me with a birthday hat and a special tray of fruits to enjoy (before and during... :icon_smile:). The fact that it wasn't expected and she surprised me with this thoughtful gesture is what made it special. After that I made it a point to book some time with her near her birthday, bring a special gift, and make it the session all about her. Fun had by all as it should be. Moral of the story, always be a gentleman and hope for no more than a professional, passionate experience. Anything more will be a wonderful surprise and bonus. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 Maybe I'm wrong here but I find the question a little off putting. It's almost akin to a potential client trying to negotiate down a lady's rate. The lady's rates are the lady's rates. If a birthday discount is sought, it would be in the lady's best interest to see someone else on your birthday, someone who will pay in full. Also, if you expect a discount on your birthday, what sort of present/money are you going to give the lady on her birthday, and without the expectation of an encounter RG 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest O****B*W_L**n Report post Posted July 19, 2012 LMAO! enough said :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aubreyxxx 20240 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 I'm wondering... Is there any providers that give freebies or a discount on birthdays? Maybe a 10th one is free card? I already get a free breakfast, lunch and diner for free from restaurants... and so many free desserts it's crazy but I think it would be great to get a special something when it's your birthday. First off we are not an all you can eat buffet and the fact that you are comparing your Buy 10 get one free option or eat free on your birthday to a human being is disrespectful. By all means go see your selected SP for ten sessions but you made your question sound as if you are looking specifically for a free session. How about this idea - on your birthday you and your preferred SP ( after you pay her her requested donation) go out for your free dinner and than you two enjoy a wonderful birthday dessert back at your hotel that I am sure you will still have to pay for the night because about the only place I know of that give free anything or discounts on your birthday are restaurants. sorry to sound rude on this reply but your question seemed absolutely selfish. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Athos 108589 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 I agree with those who've said this is just rate-negotiation. It's my birthday is one of a long list of reasons some guys expect a discount. Right up there with I lost my job, my wife left me and I'm depressed, someone died and i need to be cheered up, i'm going to die and my last wish is to have sex with you, and my dog ate my homework!!! I frequently make a visit to a favourite lady a birthday present to myself. But, if anything, I book longer and as Aubrey suggests, might build in some additional social time. I certainly don't ask for, or expect any discount. If I tell the lady it's my birthday, she might try to make it extra special (although I only do this with regulars and they are regulars because it's always extra-special). You wouldn't go shopping and ask for a discount because it's your birthday. Sure, some restaurants offer a free desert, or a half price entree, but sometimes they actually request to see your drivers license. Would you be prepared to show your lady of choice some ID to prove it's your birthday??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 The biggest problem with the birthday discount expectation, is it often comes on the very first visit. Keep in mind that seeing sps/mps is a way clients treat themselves, and doing this is something many people do on special occasions. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sandimoon 72517 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 I'm wondering... Is there any providers that give freebies or a discount on birthdays? Maybe a 10th one is free card? I already get a free breakfast, lunch and diner for free from restaurants... and so many free desserts it's crazy but I think it would be great to get a special something when it's your birthday. My ball season is over.... ....I have a helmet I can part with. Sandi 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MightyPen 67414 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 I'm wondering... Is there any providers that give freebies or a discount on birthdays? Would you pay double her rate if it's her birthday? Didn't think so. ;) 10 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 Do you work for free on your boss's birthday? I mean, heck he is paying you every other day.... The free meal thing? Think about it. That restaurant probably has 50 other paying guests sitting and eating at the same time as you are... and will have 50 more before and after you arrive. If that restaurant had one table, with one chair and one chef who was also the waiter, the busboy, the cashier, the maitre' d, and the dishwasher - well then you would have a fair comparison. If that was the case, it would be unlikely that you would be eating for free... 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 The biggest problem with the birthday discount expectation, is it often comes on the very first visit. Keep in mind that seeing sps/mps is a way clients treat themselves, and doing this is something many people do on special occasions. I know for me having an encounter with ladies is my once a month escape and treat for myself, to get away from the stresses of life, even for a few hours. Should it be for my birthday, I wouldn't want a a lady for a present for myself, but I would like to arrange an encounter with a lady to share my birthday with And no, no discounts expected...in fact the lady would be the recipient of a gift and tip, plus full donation RG 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slambo jambo 144 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 Agreed with everyone... How is the SP going to know it's actually your b-day? Do you expect the SP to turn into a bouncer checking ID's at the door just to be sure it was legitimately your b-day... I don't think so. You might have better luck using that line at your local bar. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Accusync 120 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 Wow... didn't expect this kind of results. I was just wondering if some do offer it and I know there is nothing for free anyways. Take for example at my work, I deal with stone and brick, if it's your birthday and you come in on that day and show proper ID, the age that you are turning is the discount you will have. But there also the small print (maximum 50% off with a minimum order off $500 and must be deliver at the address of your ID) But the thing is, it's not advertise... you need to ask! So that is why I ask the question. 2 years ago when I was in San Diego on my Birthday I paid myself a nice treat and just mention at the end it was my birthday... I got a look like why didn't you tell me! and then she went somewhere in her condo but brought back a goody bag. I'm sorry if I offended people with my question... but I learn trout my life... if you don't ask, you will never know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted July 19, 2012 Wow... didn't expect this kind of results. I was just wondering if some do offer it and I know there is nothing for free anyways. Take for example at my work, I deal with stone and brick, if it's your birthday and you come in on that day and show proper ID, the age that you are turning is the discount you will have. But there also the small print (maximum 50% off with a minimum order off $500 and must be deliver at the address of your ID) But the thing is, it's not advertise... you need to ask! So that is why I ask the question. 2 years ago when I was in San Diego on my Birthday I paid myself a nice treat and just mention at the end it was my birthday... I got a look like why didn't you tell me! and then she went somewhere in her condo but brought back a goody bag. I'm sorry if I offended people with my question... but I learn trout my life... if you don't ask, you will never know. I think it is hard or unnecessary for escorts to give a discount for birthdays. I think the goody bag idea is great. It is a little something escorts can pick up, it doesn't have to be expensive and it is something we can set aside. I would much rather have goody bags set aside. Once you start giving discounts for this reason or that reason, word gets around. It is not good for ladies to negotiate their prices for whatever reason. A client told me it was his bday in advance and I made him a special penis bday cake, lol. I ate more of the cake but hey it was the thought that counted. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carrie Moon 68826 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 I buy myself the absolute best presents for myself on my bday.. but then again I love to shop! What I've found is clients often buy themselves a visit with an sp on their birthday. I've even had some younger fellas have their friends chip in as a group to get them a visit which I think is awesome! I love being a birthday gift.. Think of it that way and you'll have a great birthday. Asking for a freebie or a discount is ridiculous.. but you've already been told that :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
enigma 145 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 I've even had some younger fellas have their friends chip in as a group to get them a visit which I think is awesome! I need to find some new friends! :icon_lol: 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeeRichards 177238 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 I'm wondering... Is there any providers that give freebies or a discount on birthdays? Maybe a 10th one is free card? I already get a free breakfast, lunch and diner for free from restaurants... and so many free desserts it's crazy but I think it would be great to get a special something when it's your birthday. Make sure after all of those free meals and deserts that you brush your teeth and floss ! You don't want to have onion breath and cake stuck in your teeth when you ask for a freebie or an SP to punch your card there !! Or....you can treat yourself on your birthday for those something special's :) Personally I would love one of these lovely ladies to help me celebrate my birthday....not pay for it ! But that is just me I guess. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted July 19, 2012 Personally I would love one of these lovely ladies to help me celebrate my birthday....not pay for it ! But that is just me I guess. Exactly Lee...they aren't the birthday present, they are someone you would like to share your birthday with RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shaved 3174 Report post Posted July 23, 2012 On my birthday I booked myself a 3some with 2 lovely ladies I'd been with on several occasions. They knew it was my BD, what i did not know was before I got there they had bought some pasteries for my BD. We had a great time together and while we were lying around naked one of the ladies went to the kitchen and surprise and came back with my BD gift pasteries all full of cream. So we spread the cream you know where and began licking the cream of one another. It was GREAT. Then we ate the rest didn't have far to go to get milk just joking. I thought that was GREAT that these ladies thought to do this for me. And no I didn't ask for a discount. I had a FAB time. Oh! my BD is coming up again next weekend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
herelookin 3510 Report post Posted July 24, 2012 Wow... I must be an extremely lucky guy, I've had a few Birthday treats although they have been with ladies (two different MAs) that I have seen a few times before. The usual fantastic service but at a much reduced rate. And no don't ask who (seems to be a rarity and I'm not messing it up, LOL)... but they're out there once a connection is made... well for me they were. As an aside though... with either of the ladies I never asked and only under protest did I agree. And as for a "benefit's card" I've known three (again MAs) that used to offer 5th and 10th visits discounts. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amelia Fox 9064 Report post Posted July 25, 2012 Haha! I cannot believe you asked that lol.. In my case I would be completely offended if you asked me for a freebie due to it being your birthday if I did not know you. If that was the case all my clients would have birthdays on regular basis lol.. Im sure as someone already noted that if you were a regular then maybe a slight decrease in price but free?? Nah,not something I would do. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrgreen760 37785 Report post Posted July 25, 2012 On my birthday one year I saw my regular at the time and I brought my own cake..a Jeanne's no less. (Peggers will know what I'm talking about). And bottle of desert wine. Seemed appropriate to do so. Peace MG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites