antlerman 17064 Report post Posted March 18, 2009 now I finnally got into the chat room..........not because I did not want to...but I did not really have a chance to...... but now that I am there it is fun...and interesting......... What sort of irks me.......yes IRKS....bugs...annoy.....bother....find troublesum......are the amount of people who go to chat...and are not even around in the forums..........Chat-Lurkers I will call them As I am in the chat room...I like to see who I am there with...so I run the Caht-Lurker's names through CERB as we chat......many of the names are low posters or even zero posting lurkers..... It just seems strange that they present themselves in chat.....sometimes get info and hog conversations...but have no input to the forums with thier experiances............ Like I said it kind of irks me........... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted March 18, 2009 now I finnally got into the chat room..........not because I did not want to...but I did not really have a chance to...... but now that I am there it is fun...and interesting......... What sort of irks me.......yes IRKS....bugs...annoy.....bother....find troublesum......are the amount of people who go to chat...and are not even around in the forums..........Chat-Lurkers I will call them As I am in the chat room...I like to see who I am there with...so I run the Caht-Lurker's names through CERB as we chat......many of the names are low posters or even zero posting lurkers..... It just seems strange that they present themselves in chat.....sometimes get info and hog conversations...but have no input to the forums with thier experiances............ Like I said it kind of irks me........... Some people are more responsive in live chat than in online forums, the chat gives people who adapt better to real time a chance to get involved. Now the the lurkers who drop in to get easy info and then split, that is another story, but we have to be nice! Nothing wrong poking a little fun at the same time, they are for our mutual amusement! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S**r***e Report post Posted March 19, 2009 I'm not sure why this irks you but... meh...to each their own. I know for myself, being a relative newbie here, my first interactions were in the chat room. I believe I am a very active chat user. My chat room experiences and developing of rapport with a couple of the ladies ultimately lead to my first visit with a provider from this site. I had read recommendations and looked at profiles but not every persons taste is the same. Having talked to people in chat and because I developed this rapport, when I went to see my first provider, I was more at ease as I felt we had already developed a bit of a connection. Also, seeing some of them on cam helped beyond the recommendations and pictures in my choice to visit them. (example: Prettypaige; I had read her reviews an she sounded awesome. Checked her profile but no pictures other than her avatar. I am a very visual creature. From her avatar pic I wasn't sure she was for me. I had the pleasure of talking to her and seeing her on cam last night and all I can say is WOW!! She is definately for me. I also found out that she does a boot camp thing and is a personal trainer. So, from just one night in chat, she will probably get "business" from me in 2 areas). I haven't posted any recommendations yet. The few providers I have had the pleasure visiting already have plenty and I don't think I have anymore to share that hasn't already been said. I'm sure someday I will get to do it. It also took me a little time before my first post as I was feeling out the site. I am getting the hang of it and I am jumping in here and there. After I had my first couple of posts, the ball just started rolling. Eventually, someday I too may have a high post count but as the saying goes " Rome wasn't built in a day". Anyway, I'm sure some people are lurkers. Some might just be waiting to get the ball rolling and they felt that the chat room was the best place to start like myself. All in all, just give some of us some time and we will be part of the "elite" group eventually. (well, hopefully) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 1-its not just the guys that don't post much that go into chat its the ladies as well2-its all in good fun3-its the dudes that pop in and out that are a pain in the butt....{we know what their looking for}wink4-the people that abuse it ....such as some ladies showing way to much etc5-the guys that encourage the ladies but all in all most of the time its fun...you can really get to know people from what they say and do....i like it..kisses,Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 4-the people that abuse it ....such as some ladies showing way to much etc5-the guys that encourage the ladies Emma, The ladies who are "Showing too much" are not abusing the cam system. They are marketing themselves that way. The ladies are allowed to "Show" whatever they want to in chat (as long as it's legal of course). This business is about sex, sex appeal, fantasy, and much more... these ladies are marketing themselves and doing very well. We know it's not everyone's cup of tea but I assure you that 99% of the guys in the chat room are watching those ladies cam streams and many of them are thinking "I must visit this girl" (and often do - sometimes immediately). It's your choice how you use the chat room. The chat room is also a great social interaction tool for our community... a number of ladies have gone into the chat and just had nice conversations (Some with and some without a cam) and they are doing very well also with obtaining bookings and marketing themselves in the chat room as well. Now, with that said we do not allow the guys to encourage the ladies to get naked or do anything x-rated on cam. This would just be annoying! If someone says "Show me your breasts" (or anything to that nature) they are suppose to get a warning from the moderators (If one is in the room at that time - it's not possible to have a moderator in the room at all times obviously thankfully we have some great moderators here!) The lady or other members can also report the guys to me and also the chat room has a VOTE TO KICK option as well so the other chat members can boot someone for being a idiot. I have logged into the room many times to find a lady (or two) teasing the guys with some flashing, some naughty motions, etc.. and those same girls are making bookings from doing this. That to me is good marketing!! The other ladies who do not do this still enjoy chat and also make bookings (Not nearly as many direct bookings from the chat room - but it is still good marketing). Bottom line, it is not abuse when the ladies get naked. Abuse would be spamming the chat or harassing someone (or fighting, etc..). The reason we do not allow genital nudity in photos on the site is not because any of us would be offended, it is because google and other search engines would give this site a "ADULT X RATING" meaning it would be removed from the search engines until someone searched for it using a adult keyword like "Sex Escort Ottawa" this makes marketing the site MUCH harder as most people would not search for a site like this using the word sex they would simply put "Escort Ottawa". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rickoshadows 937 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 The reason we do not allow genital nudity in photos on the site is not because any of us would be offended, it is because google and other search engines would give this site a "ADULT X RATING" meaning it would be removed from the search engines until someone searched for it using a adult keyword like "Sex Escort Ottawa" this makes marketing the site MUCH harder as most people would not search for a site like this using the word sex they would simply put "Escort Ottawa". Thx Mod, for the google tip :lol: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Scarlett 25073 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 Thank you Mod! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 Good trick on your personal website is to password protect your "Naughty" photos and leave the password in plain view. This was the google bot does not gain access to the password protected area and will not index the naughty photos in google's "Image" library. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hunter08 182 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 1-its not just the guys that don't post much that go into chat its the ladies as well2-its all in good fun3-its the dudes that pop in and out that are a pain in the butt....{we know what their looking for}wink4-the people that abuse it ....such as some ladies showing way to much etc5-the guys that encourage the ladies but all in all most of the time its fun...you can really get to know people from what they say and do....i like it..kisses,Emma A most of them are in the chat for a free cam show and that is not happening to much anymore which is a good thing lot of people don't come to chat no more because of the cam shows Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 ....................................................I haven't posted any recommendations yet. The few providers I have had the pleasure visiting already have plenty and I don't think I have anymore to share that hasn't already been said. it never hurts to put something there saying..."Yes I agree with the reviews on her so far...great with me"............it gets your voice out there and can help give you some credentials for future questions. I'm sure someday I will get to do it. It also took me a little time before my first post as I was feeling out the site. I am getting the hang of it and I am jumping in here and there. After I had my first couple of posts, the ball just started rolling. Eventually, someday I too may have a high post count but as the saying goes " Rome wasn't built in a day". Anyway, I'm sure some people are lurkers. Some might just be waiting to get the ball rolling and they felt that the chat room was the best place to start like myself. All in all, just give some of us some time and we will be part of the "elite" group eventually. (well, hopefully) Great attitude...that is my whole point......we like to share here..... 1-its not just the guys that don't post much that go into chat its the ladies as well2-its all in good fun3-its the dudes that pop in and out that are a pain in the butt....{we know what their looking for}wink4-the people that abuse it ....such as some ladies showing way to much etc5-the guys that encourage the ladies but all in all most of the time its fun...you can really get to know people from what they say and do....i like it..kisses,Emma A 6r9......you are so right in what you said.........and Emma......you as always have great points..... I just want the Chat-Lurkers to give back a little what they are getting out of all this.......... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 Personally, I preferred chat before all the girls starting using it to give free cam shows. When actual conversation occurred. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 I have not been on chat long enough to see that for myself....but I can see your point.......very well......it would be a shame to loose that aspect of chat into pure marketing cam shows..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RubJunky 1954 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 Well not being a chat geek, I did freaquent yahoo chat, those rooms are insane 90% bullshit and 10% real people. Cerb chat is a little different because most people who do enter are cerbites and I'm assuming most have met each other and so on. But when I enter the room and I see 3-4 guys I don't shy away, I say hi how is everyone..... then silence. Guess if you don't have a pussy your not really worth hitting a few keystrokes.... rub Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
p22*** 236 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 I went on chat last night for the first time, I had a great time. I was on over 2 hours, LOL. I didn't give a show but I certainly teased, I stood up, turned around and gave a little shaky shaky, LOL. I decided to tease because half the men on there I have seen and know me quite well. I feel as adults we should use good judgement and be flexable in our judgement. As a Bi-women I have no issue's standing up and doing a little dance for say "Emma' on camera. ( just using her name) However that being said if there's three other ladies in the room, hmmm maybe doing so would not be in the best interest of other views, LOL. I think as long as every one is comfortable and having a good time, I really don't care if I see a nipple or crank ( butt crack ). That being said even I would not want to see your in most labia, LOL.... Kisses and Cracks, Paige The last night booty flasher..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brandi 231 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 Personally, I preferred chat before all the girls starting using it to give free cam shows. When actual conversation occurred. I agree. I miss the old chat and the good group we had. I like a conversation with substance that goes further then a man sending me a message telling me he has 9 inches throbbing. I thought we had 2 rooms? one for text and one for cams? I never seen the text room yet. ok that isn't true i saw it once but no one was in there except one person. Every now and then I like to go on cam too just so people can see who I am so i do agree cams have value but the conversations seem to for the most part gone to the birds. I don't think we can really get mad at the ladies who do use the cams as mod permits it. I just realize when that is going on not much conversation will happen and I come back another time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 ...................... Guess if you don't have a pussy your not really worth hitting a few keystrokes.... rub hahahahaha......yah...most women would say we think with our lower head........hahahahaha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 Bottom line, it is not abuse when the ladies get naked. Abuse would be spamming the chat or harassing someone (or fighting, etc..). The reason we do not allow genital nudity in photos on the site is not because any of us would be offended, it is because google and other search engines would give this site a "ADULT X RATING" meaning it would be removed from the search engines until someone searched for it using a adult keyword like "Sex Escort Ottawa" this makes marketing the site MUCH harder as most people would not search for a site like this using the word sex they would simply put "Escort Ottawa". __________________ i totally understand the marketing side of the cam shows but i though that the ladies were not allowed to show anything nude except their breasts...sorry for the confusion...lol... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
p22*** 236 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 To add there was over 25 people in chat last night, I didn't get one request for anything. Except to see my Lululemon shorts. All the boys, Inauki, CK, Loneskater, Malcolm, Manny, too name a few, where gentlemen who joked and made it a great night. Because of how amazing and polite they where, I am coming back to chat for sure.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest i***k*** Report post Posted March 19, 2009 To add there was over 25 people in chat last night, I didn't get one request for anything. Except to see my Lululemon shorts. All the boys, Inauki, CK, Loneskater, Malcolm, Manny, too name a few, where gentlemen who joked and made it a great night. Because of how amazing and polite they where, I am coming back to chat for sure.... You didn't get my name right... /cry :) Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 To add there was over 25 people in chat last night, I didn't get one request for anything. Except to see my Lululemon shorts. All the boys, Inauki, CK, Loneskater, Malcolm, Manny, too name a few, where gentlemen who joked and made it a great night. Because of how amazing and polite they where, I am coming back to chat for sure.... Yes i love going in there and talking to the guys....their so fun.. they are all a bunch of jokesters....{hint}tell hunter08 i'm going to get his butt...lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 Guess if you don't have a pussy your not really worth hitting a few keystrokes.... rub depends i guess. me and sixernine were tearing up the place today and we have witnesses :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
p22*** 236 Report post Posted March 19, 2009 Inaluki- your spelling confused me, please forgive a girl... LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted March 20, 2009 Everyone has the ability to create rooms. If someone comes into chat and starts to get naked or flirty on cam we all know that the naked or flirty girl's cam will take over the main room discussion. Those same discussions still take place in chat (but they take place when the naughty girls are not in the room as guys are just being social and chatting away when nothing else entertaining it taking place in the room - and that is great) When a lady comes on cam (Not even a naked or flirty lady) All of a sudden people will perk up and the guys who sit and wait will all of a sudden start to chat - often private messages (but that is fine as long as they are showing respect). It's human nature! If we take away the cam element from the room the room would be less busy. We all know that, sure some of you would like to beleive otherwise or try to convince yourself otherwise but we really all know the truth. It is very easy to make a new room and invite your conversation into the new room, the guys who wish to go to the new room and still watch the lady on cam can either switch back and forth or open the cam video and still view it while chatting in room number 2 (or 3 or 4) etc... The chat is VERY flexible for this type of thing. Please remember... 1) It is a marketing tool for the site 2) It is a marketing tool for the ladies (All the ladies) 3) It is a social tool for our members 4) and so much more... as it is what you all make it. Sometimes TEXT can be VERY enticing and sexy but we all know a picture is worth 1000 words... A cam show is work 10'000! If the chat room did not have the cam stream and mic ability it would not be as busy (we all know that) so we have to take the good with the bad and work around things you may not personally enjoy. It is silly to get mad if some girl is showing her "privates" on cam. Just close her cam window and you don't have to look at her if you do not like to see that and open a new room and call it "No CAM room Text only" or whatever you want to call it. (Very simple) A SP getting mad cause another SP is getting naked is silly - it's a adult site, nudity, sex and sex appeal, fantasy etc... is what it's all about. A intelligent conversation is nice (until the naked lady comes in than all attention will be on her - just a fact of life any no one here seams to want to admit this so I will) If you do not want to get naked don't (No one will pressure you to do this - if they do they will be asked to leave the site). If you get upset when another lady comes into the room and gets naughty or flirty on cam chances are your mad cause she will take over the chat and get most of the attention. Sure some guys will say "No, that does not interest me" to you but chances are that guy had her cam stream open and is watching too! The guys in the room will talk to anyone in most cases .... some do sit quit and will only talk to the ladies (That is fine too everyone is here for different reasons I guess) but a naked woman, or a sexy flirty lady on cam makes it very difficult to pay attention to anything else. Those same guys who say "I don't care for the cam shows" are the first ones to have that cam window open to check out the ladies when they turn the cams on. The chat should accommodate everyone. So use it the way you want to use it and others with similar interests as you have will also use it that way. It is an extension to this site. You don't all chat in the same forum we have LOTS of forums with many different conversations going on at any time. You all participate in each forum you have interest in. Use chat the same way... some aspects will not appeal to everyone buy you all have complete control over these things. Before the chat server was upgraded we had a room for NON-CAM-CHAT and a room for CAM-CHAT and oddly enough no one really ever used the NON-CAM-CHAT room. So I will add it again if you wish (The default room will still be the cam chat room however) and for those who do not care to see the guys texting to the cam show girls can easily move your conversation to the second room) 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted March 20, 2009 Chat is fun but it can take a lot of time. I like the cams but for some reason my mac cam doesn't want to work in there now. Would have loved the paige show...damn I missed it. See you all at chat Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
p22*** 236 Report post Posted March 20, 2009 It took me almost 40 minutes to figure it out, LOL. Next time igotaboner... Banks explained it to me, much thanks to him. I like cam's and microphone's because I suck at computer's and typing. It is fun, flirty and keeps my interest peaked. I have ADHD, so I tend to lose focus and drift off. LOL I also had the pleasure that night to see Mystique, who I now know is funny, smart and crazy hot. I think she is way hotter in person then in picture's. Which I know is hard to believe because her pictures are smoking hot. I agree with what MOD said, as long as people are respectful to the ladies doing shows. We are adult entertainer's, we should entertain, and I now know I love to do so. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
