whatsup 11893 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 Having an Provider on retainer was mentioned on another post. I would like to know more details about this. What are the typical requirements for this type of arrangement? eg. money and time(s) per month. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
p22*** 236 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 It depends on your clients needs. Most of my gentlemen are on retainer. If you decide to go on retainer, I add extra's for this. Example... 2 hour session's twice a month...I offer my PSE package for the price of GFE. I also add a few other trade secrets..lol It really depends though... I prefer retainer so I can build a better and stronger relationship to my clients needs... Hope this helps love... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 It depends on your clients needs. Most of my gentlemen are on retainer. If you decide to go on retainer, I add extra's for this. Example... 2 hour session's twice a month...I offer my PSE package for the price of GFE. I also add a few other trade secrets..lol It really depends though... I prefer retainer so I can build a better and stronger relationship to my clients needs... Hope this helps love... I do the same and for the same reasons...i really like having the bf experience ...you guys have the gfe we can have the bfe...lol. The best part is though YOU go home, no commitment etc...hehe -The mistress...its really kind of sexy... kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
esoterica 624 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 Wow. I never thought of this. Ya learn something new every day. How does it work? Post-dated cheques - ok, I am kidding about the cheques, but how does the financial arrangement work? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 Wow. I never thought of this. Ya learn something new every day. How does it work? Post-dated cheques - ok, I am kidding about the cheques, but how does the financial arrangement work? I can't speak for anyone else but for me i like the payment like rent...lol...first of the month...then we go from there...you can pre book your appointments etc...or always be on the top of the list for any and everyday...all depends on how many appointments your looking for...its so much easier and really to tell the truth its more flattering ...you have your prepaid gf...hehe ..life is so much nice when spending time with someone you care about. kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
esoterica 624 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 I can't speak for anyone else but for me i like the payment like rent...lol...first of the month...then we go from there...you can pre book your appointments etc...or always be on the top of the list for any and everyday...all depends on how many appointments your looking for...its so much easier and really to tell the truth its more flattering ...you have your prepaid gf...hehe ..life is so much nice when spending time with someone you care about.kisses, Emma A Do your clients pay a fixed amount, e.g. $600, and that allows two visits a month whenever? The exact amount isn't relevant - more the idea. This is very thought-provoking! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 Do your clients pay a fixed amount, e.g. $600, and that allows two visits a month whenever? The exact amount isn't relevant - more the idea. This is very thought-provoking! yes they do..but in actuality they get to see me more often for the fixed price... and as you know i think i would be considered more then a gfe...especially for people i already know...wink Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ava Foxx 1747 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 It depends on your clients needs. Most of my gentlemen are on retainer. If you decide to go on retainer, I add extra's for this. Example... 2 hour session's twice a month...I offer my PSE package for the price of GFE. I also add a few other trade secrets..lol It really depends though... I prefer retainer so I can build a better and stronger relationship to my clients needs... Hope this helps love... I've never heard of this but it sounds like a GREAT concept!!! Would you mind if I pick your brain later via PM? Ava xo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 This is very thought-provoking! Incredibly thought provoking. I happen to have the "Memoirs of the Geisha" on the book shelves and was reminded that in some cultures this is normal. In some time periods of western history it was a common occurrence. I must say the idea has an appeal and I can understand how the steady income is useful for the ladies as well. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ava Foxx 1747 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 I do the same and for the same reasons...i really like having the bf experience ...you guys have the gfe we can have the bfe...lol. The best part is though YOU go home, no commitment etc...hehe -The mistress...its really kind of sexy...kisses, Emma A Hello Emma :-D, Would you mind if I PM you later to ask you a few questions? This is a new concept for me but it sounds very exciting and I'd love to have some of your input and advice. Thanks! Ava xo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 Hello Emma :-D, Would you mind if I PM you later to ask you a few questions? This is a new concept for me but it sounds very exciting and I'd love to have some of your input and advice. Thanks! Ava xo Sure Ava you can pick my brain...whats left of it anyway...hehe kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
esoterica 624 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 yes they do..but in actuality they get to see me more often for the fixed price...and as you know i think i would be considered more then a gfe...especially for people i already know...wink Emma darlin', you are not only more than a GFE, you are a FLE (fantastic lover experience). Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whatsup 11893 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 Emma darlin', you are not only more than a GFE, you are a FLE (fantastic lover experience).Posted via Mobile Device Esoterica cool new acronym FLE that you just created. :-D It is not defined yet on urban dictionary http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fle Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
p22*** 236 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 That's why I do it, I see a few men so often its my pleasure to give them extra love and a price break. I enjoy my time with them so I prefer not to rush. Like Emma said its a great role reversal, we get the BFE. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 That's why I do it, I see a few men so often its my pleasure to give them extra love and a price break. I enjoy my time with them so I prefer not to rush. Like Emma said its a great role reversal, we get the BFE. the bfe without the headaches....haha...or as the clients say the gf without the headaches....no bitching and complaining....and we can spoil you... kisses Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
esoterica 624 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 I'd be honoured to have both or either of you as a mistress :) You both tend to the mind as well as the body! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 I'd be honoured to have both or either of you as a mistress :) You both tend to the mind as well as the body! somehow i knew you would say that...Mr nice Ass...lmao Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A***** A***** 510 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 Forgive my ingorance, Is that what you mean by a suggar daddy? as in an sp being on retainer? :-( Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 Forgive my ingorance, Is that what you mean by a suggar daddy? as in an sp being on retainer? :-( being on retainer is like being a lawyer paying for a service in this case a professional gf {a little bit more romantic mind you} ...and a sugar daddie pays for everything...rent,bills,play things,clothes,cars,vacations...etc... so not quite the same thing.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted March 24, 2009 Forgive my ingorance, Is that what you mean by a suggar daddy? as in an sp being on retainer? :-( usually when i travel i have a client that instead of paying me cash he would buy my tickets... another one may pay for my accomodations.. depending on the cost they will be able to see me a few times... others will pay me in advance ex...the beginning of the month...say my client pays me 1000 then depending on where i am he would get to see me at least 4times {normally this would cost 1200}....these clients usually have extra time with me as well... hope this helps some... kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted March 25, 2009 Some us with SD obligations have limited budgets (i.e. can't totally support someone as a mistress) but still fall into the category of best client every month. We also go beyond just $$$ into the realms of practical personal gifts, paying for social activities and doing friendly favours that have no monetary value, but certainly have an emotional content. Just my perspective, of course, but I don't think I'm alone here. ...and a sugar daddie pays for everything...rent,bills,play things,clothes,cars,vacations...etc... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted March 25, 2009 yes they do..but in actuality they get to see me more often for the fixed price...and as you know i think i would be considered more then a gfe...especially for people i already know...wink Yep, way more. M:roll:mm:roll:mm! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A***** A***** 510 Report post Posted March 25, 2009 :-?Thanks for the response Emma, I sure have been out of the loop for a while Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted March 25, 2009 I think you have to be very sure of the sp and have a good connection to do this. I do know of someone who gave an sp a retainer and she reneged on the deal and disappeared with the money no apologies or service provided. Someone like Emma is very reliable and respected on this board. This is the kind of sp to look for IMHO. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted March 25, 2009 Damn, I want some of those clients. Put me on retainer! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
