JennDDD 1588 Report post Posted September 8, 2012 When women are upset, we want revenge and as pissed as she is at her husband she blames me - even though it was him who contacted me and not the other way around. In her eyes I am the home wrecker and as mad as she is at him she is taking the excess out at me. This has gone on for ages whether or not an SP was involved in one's infidelity. People inherently blame the one who cheats than some "outside force" that made them. It's ridiculous to say the least. If my husband cheated i'd be upset, but i'd blame HIM. (especially since I am not meeting with an sp until he is comfortable). i saw my mom go crazy blaming the "other woman', ridiculous, no third party is responsible to honour their commitments, to each their own but blaming someone else, especially as nice as Emily just rubs me the wrong way! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
