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Tried to TOFTT. Called & she answered, made arrangements to meet for the next day. Sophia said to call 45 min before appointment for address. Called several times, but no response. No call/text after to apologize or reschedule. I really hate that BS.

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I've gotten to the point where if I make an appointment with someone and they give me the old call an hour before for the addtess I say no thanks the chances of them answering seem to be below 50% in my recent experience

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This lady may be new at this and might not have all her ducks in a row quite yet....give another chance...time will tell:( I hope she may have had just a snag....as we all know EC does create an expense for her, so one would have to think that she does take her job in a professional manner?? If you give any lady one chance...then again it does not work, then perhaps the stars just did not align?? Move on to a reputable, reviewed SP.

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I've gotten to the point where if I make an appointment with someone and they give me the old call an hour before for the addtess I say no thanks the chances of them answering seem to be below 50% in my recent experience

 

I always get my clients (if it is there first time meeting with me) to call after they arrive at the location I've asked them to go to before I give them my actual address. Only after knowing that they are at the first location will I give them directions to my in call location. I never just give my address out to a client without them calling minutes prior to our scheduled encounter.

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I've gotten to the point where if I make an appointment with someone and they give me the old call an hour before for the addtess I say no thanks the chances of them answering seem to be below 50% in my recent experience

 

 

My experience has been quite the opposite. I always confirm that I am "good to go" the morning of the appointment. I do this even with the ladies I see more than once.

 

In addition, following her instructions is always a good thing, as more than likely there is a good reason for it that may not be apparent.

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My experience has been quite the opposite. I always confirm that I am "good to go" the morning of the appointment. I do this even with the ladies I see more than once.

 

In addition, following her instructions is always a good thing, as more than likely there is a good reason for it that may not be apparent.

 

Ahh yes thank you another poster from Ottawa with such wonderful advice. Why is it only people from Ottawa that do this?? My point was my experience in Winnipeg lately has been that the ladies don't regard this as an appointment that they have to keep its like they use it as a fall back if they aren't busy. I have no problem understanding the purpose of it and I used to be willing to follow all instructions but as I said my experience has been that 50% of the time I get stood up. That includes driving to the designated location and calling from there. So now I politely decline and try someone else if we can't work something out.

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Ahh yes thank you another poster from Ottawa with such wonderful advice. Why is it only people from Ottawa that do this?? My point was my experience in Winnipeg lately has been that the ladies don't regard this as an appointment that they have to keep its like they use it as a fall back if they aren't busy. I have no problem understanding the purpose of it and I used to be willing to follow all instructions but as I said my experience has been that 50% of the time I get stood up. That includes driving to the designated location and calling from there. So now I politely decline and try someone else if we can't work something out.

 

Wow, it's a shame the ladies don't keep their appointments - but I feel the opposite in my situation lol.

I take my career as an SP quite seriously and I keep very organized and professional when booking and confirming my appointments. I find that the men that book with me (not all men) but a lot of the times they confirm at each confirmation right up to the 30 minute confirmation. And than when they are supposed to call at the location where I give them directions on how to get into my location there is no call, no excuse just nothing. I find this extremely disrespectful and rude. I make sure when I book you in that your appointment time is yours, and sometimes I turn down other potential appointments because I assure you that when you confirm with me your time is safe. So not only did I lose out on this person as an appt, but the other potential person who called and I turned them down because I had that other person who did not show up.

 

I don't know why people find it so hard to send a quick pm, text or call to say they cant make it. Sure it sucks but at least we know and than are able to potentially fill that slot or in your situation find another SP.

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Or the fella's that book 3 girls within an hour for different appt's within a half hour of each.

They must think we don't ever talk to one another. Just not long ago had one that booked with me & two of my other provider friend's to call & cancel his appointment 3 mins before arriving at location. (I do give address but not unit #). I talk regularly to these other two & compare #'s. He proceeded to be very rude towards me when he text to cancel & I told him we were on to him & his # was going to be put up for all the girl's to see. He got very rude saying he didn't need any of us bottom of the barrel escorts & that I was to old to fuck. Wow told him to go back to the playground & play nicely. This is another reason I upped the age of gentlemen that I will see & why I don't take texts seriously.

It's unfortunate that you feel that 50% don't answer to confirm. I like having someone call an hour prior to confirm, puts me in the right frame of mind to ensure the gentleman is going to have a good time. I have made a commitment & I begin to get ready for our encounter & it puts me at ease so it makes it possible to put the client at ease. I feel rushed with the short notice one's & can become overwhelmed unless of course it's a prior client & well I just know we are going to have fun.

I have been guilty of doing that on a few occasions of not answering confirmation call's. But I will admit that is when I first became a provider & with being new we all know how much the phone rings & how call's are always there, & some may have the attitude or maybe after hanging up wishing they hadn't committed to seeing you as they may not feel like it or just think the phone will ring later & they'll get another call to make up for that one later in the day.

It takes years & quit a bit of bullshit from some fella's that no show or don't follow a booking process that works good for a certain provider to tolerate & eventually you learn that you can refuse a client or be picky. Of course providing that you are professional & treat this line of work as you would any other business, & maintain providing a good service. It's definitely a learning process with this type of work & each provider has different ways that work best for them.

Was your bad 50% new girl's just learning & thinking the phone was going to ring constant everyday for the remainder of their time in this profession, or were they reputable provider's that it is out of character for them to do this?

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Yes I always confirm a few hours before the apt., thats the problem with these young girls no bussiness sense because there relatively new and every pooner in wpg calls them so i guess they think there always going to busy so its ok to treat us like shit

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I dont really think it's fair to classify that its young girls with no business sense.

 

Im guessing that your end on doing the research on your selected SP has something to do with it as well.

If you would've looked up her reviews and PM'd the men who wrote them Im assuming this may not have been an issue

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Ahh yes thank you another poster from Ottawa with such wonderful advice. Why is it only people from Ottawa that do this?? My point was my experience in Winnipeg lately has been that the ladies don't regard this as an appointment that they have to keep its like they use it as a fall back if they aren't busy. I have no problem understanding the purpose of it and I used to be willing to follow all instructions but as I said my experience has been that 50% of the time I get stood up. That includes driving to the designated location and calling from there. So now I politely decline and try someone else if we can't work something out.

 

Fascinating!! Here you have members from across the country trying to help and give advice and what not and you blatantly are not too kind when someone is trying to help and show kindness to you and I quote "Ahh yes thank you another poster from Ottawa with such wonderful advice. Why is it only people from Ottawa that do this?? My point was my experience in Winnipeg". This is not just a Winnipeg issue, gents and ladies deal with this issue daily and that is why your fellow gents and ladies are replying and communicating with you, main word here Community and that is what most of us see CERB as.

From what I'm reading and your tone, possibly due to frustration but only you know that. May be it's not the ladies you are booking and possibly you. We never like to look at the most obvious reason staring right back at us in the mirror or do some self reflection, especially is we are upset and want to blame everyone but ourselves. If it is the ladies, do as much research as humanly possible. This type of business practices are disgusting and shameful.

Not following a ladies instructions that she has put in place for her safety is a major NO NO. Or move to another age bracket if you think age/younger ladies are the issue. These are things to consider or say whatever to. I don't lose sleep over trying to be helpful and kind.

 

Best of luck and shunning the community is just not the CERB way, we are all here to help!!

 

All my best,

Lexy

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As many of our lovely providers pointed out here, booking is a noticeable skill which I mainly founded in experienced escorts or when enncounters are managed by agencies. Usually, I try to book in advance, and I ask for directions in order to plan my trip ( for example a lady who I saw on the last weeks has her incalls 40 mins away from my place). Usually, I am satisfied if the lady gives me an aproximately adress or the name of the hotel; I never send or call 5 minutes before. I just ask for the app or house number when I am really close for the adress. I do that just on time because I know that the Sp probably are finishing with the another client, and personally I hate when I am throuw out before my app finishing.

Anyways, for me an oustanding professional is a Sp who cares for her costumers, and, even if she is picky or selective, she make sure to respond your call or messages just saying if she is available or not. I had few bad experiences with young ladies whom booking appoinments and then dissapear without any explanation or by ignoring your calling and messages. Is´t that difficult to send an excuse? We will understand it for sure.

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I realize that this problem of no-showscuts both ways, but I have to side more with rexx on this one. He was just relating his own recent experience; he and others attributed it to the recent influx of very young and inexperienced SPs in Winnipeg. It has nothing to do with Ottawa, and rexx wasn't looking for advice from Ottawa or even Winnipeg for that matter. Besides, the "advice" that was offered was basically SPs saying defensively that they themselves are reliable. It didn't refute rexx's allegations.

 

I just ask for the app or house number when I am really close for the adress. I do that just on time because I know that the Sp probably are finishing with the another client, and personally I hate when I am throuw out before my app finishing.
That's a different issue, but a valid one nevertheless. However, I'm shocked that you seem OK with the idea of seeing an escort who booked back-to-back appointments without leaving at least a half-hour in between for freshening up thououghly. I'm not naive enough to think that's never happened to me, but if I ever got wind of it, I would report it on the boards and would never see that lady again.
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I was just wondering if there was any info available on Sophia. However, her ad has been pulled, no info provided, and the point is moot (or not depending on your use of the word "moot"). Anyway, I've moved on and I'm doing fine.... thanks for asking.

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Fascinating!! Here you have members from across the country trying to help and give advice and what not and you blatantly are not too kind when someone is trying to help and show kindness to you and I quote "Ahh yes thank you another poster from Ottawa with such wonderful advice. Why is it only people from Ottawa that do this?? My point was my experience in Winnipeg". This is not just a Winnipeg issue, gents and ladies deal with this issue daily and that is why your fellow gents and ladies are replying and communicating with you, main word here Community and that is what most of us see CERB as.

From what I'm reading and your tone, possibly due to frustration but only you know that. May be it's not the ladies you are booking and possibly you. We never like to look at the most obvious reason staring right back at us in the mirror or do some self reflection, especially is we are upset and want to blame everyone but ourselves. If it is the ladies, do as much research as humanly possible. This type of business practices are disgusting and shameful.

Not following a ladies instructions that she has put in place for her safety is a major NO NO. Or move to another age bracket if you think age/younger ladies are the issue. These are things to consider or say whatever to. I don't lose sleep over trying to be helpful and kind.

 

Best of luck and shunning the community is just not the CERB way, we are all here to help!!

 

All my best,

Lexy

 

Sorry to take it off topic again but there is a real tendency among Ottawa posters to make condescending comments in the Winnipeg section where they like to talk down to you about "not doing your research" or "I've never had that problem" they really just seem to be looking for praise or something that is honestly how I feel about it and I know I'm not alone. I really don't see these as helpful or communicative and I don't know where you get the idea that I didn't follow a lady's instructions thats how I got to this point and it had nothing to do with young or not or well reviewed or not things just seem to be different in Winnipeg.

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Sorry to take it off topic again but there is a real tendency among Ottawa posters to make condescending comments in the Winnipeg section where they like to talk down to you about "not doing your research" or "I've never had that problem" they really just seem to be looking for praise or something that is honestly how I feel about it and I know I'm not alone. I really don't see these as helpful or communicative and I don't know where you get the idea that I didn't follow a lady's instructions thats how I got to this point and it had nothing to do with young or not or well reviewed or not things just seem to be different in Winnipeg.

 

Rexx,

I can and do understand where you are coming from regarding condescending remarks but it does happen all over the board and sometimes people don't realize they are coming off that way but I do make that statement with great caution...I can see where such comments are not helpful at all. Some gents like to brag up their "territory" but trust me, being stood up by providers can and does happen in every province.

Being stood up with no call, email, text or what have you is disgraceful and by 50% that totally sucks the big one and it's not like you didn't have to take the time to prepare, schedule and all those good things, providers deal with so much crap so much that it is the norm and part of being a provider and you just learn to deal, screen and adapt.

I'm just baffled at the lack of professionalism that you are receiving, I totally don't understand it. I can see if they are fly-by-night providers but if they are suppose to be "reputable providers" well that's a whole different ball game.

I can feel the frustration in your post and I feel for you because no one deserves this type of treatment and being stood up if you are a complete gentleman and upstanding client.

I wasn't being a defensive lady, I was trying to help you figure out what is going on and how to deal and fix it. I'm 100% guilty of posting something in the heat of the moment about the crap providers go through and was like OYE!! after taking a breather and coming back to what I've written in those posts:icon_eek:.

I hear such great things about the ladies in your area and the ladies who visit so like I said I'm quite baffled and there must be something that can be done. May be some of the local or touring ladies can weigh in on this, I have no idea what it is like to work in your area.

I was really only trying to help and give some advice and it so backfired but I'm a tough little cookie and it's not the first and I can guarantee not the last.

I got the idea that you don't follow ladies instructions by your statement below in bold, especially "try someone else if we can't work something out" but there are some providers that will let the client decide on their safety and booking process, just for the appointment. Everyone is entitled to their own business practices and I am not saying you are not a safe or sane client. I don't know you, it's just a general statement:

 

Originally Posted by rexx viewpost.gif

Ahh yes thank you another poster from Ottawa with such wonderful advice. Why is it only people from Ottawa that do this?? My point was my experience in Winnipeg lately has been that the ladies don't regard this as an appointment that they have to keep its like they use it as a fall back if they aren't busy. I have no problem understanding the purpose of it and I used to be willing to follow all instructions but as I said my experience has been that 50% of the time I get stood up. That includes driving to the designated location and calling from there. So now I politely decline and try someone else if we can't work something out.

 

I really hope you find a good 1-3 real special and professional ladies and put this crap behind you. I'm not saying it will be easy, it sure as hell won't by the looks/sounds of things but it is attainable. Try to stay positive and keep your head up Rexx:icon_smile:.

 

All the best and some Big Scotian Hugs,

Lexy

 

Back to Sophia???

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IThat's a different issue, but a valid one nevertheless. However, I'm shocked that you seem OK with the idea of seeing an escort who booked back-to-back appointments without leaving at least a half-hour in between for freshening up thououghly. I'm not naive enough to think that's never happened to me, but if I ever got wind of it, I would report it on the boards and would never see that lady again.

 

Horndog66,

 

Popular ladies do that in a regular basis. It's probably that they clean themselves with sanitizer or liquid soap. Some of those Sps use baby's wipe as well. For that reason, I open my eyes with Sps whom offer BBBJ, DFK, and other "extras":bj2: :66189-iconsex-teaba, etc. Nothing personal guys, but is not fun to lick :Cunning:indirectly some res idue of the last costumer.

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Horndog66,

 

Popular ladies do that in a regular basis. It's probably that they clean themselves with sanitizer or liquid soap. Some of those Sps use baby's wipe as well. For that reason, I open my eyes with Sps whom offer BBBJ, DFK, and other "extras":bj2: :66189-iconsex-teaba, etc. Nothing personal guys, but is not fun to lick :Cunning:indirectly some res idue of the last costumer.

First of all, I'll say that I've only seen a couple CERB ladies, one in particular, and their hygiene is smacking clean. Of the other ladies I've seen, the same couldn't be said for some. When I started hobbying, I had the fantasy that every lady bathed before every encounter:not true.

 

On my first visit to one young lady, after a nice cbj and other covered fun, I happily went south and munched out. When we were done, she asked me if I wanted to clean up, and thinking that she meant a quick shower I agreed. She handed me a baby wipe, quickly used one on herself and escorted me to the door. I met the next dude on the stairs. She was fun and I saw her a lot, but never DATY again.

 

With another sp that I visited once , while we were in bed she answered the phone and set up an appt. 15 minutes after me.The panties and dress went back on and me on my way after a shag. A lady that "busy" doesn't have time to clean herself in any manner.

 

I guess the morals of the story for me are:CERB is the best possible method for researching for sp's and, be damned careful wher you put your tongue on the first date! WTF was this thread about anyway?lol

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