DeeperConnection 19567 Report post Posted September 5, 2012 Just because a lady is popular doesn't mean she books back to back! Some, like myself actually leave an hour and half between bookings. I do this to shower, clean and replace bedding, switch laundry, check messages, return a few that actually left a name and number to call them back at\with, lol. And to walk my dog, go to store, read the newspaper etc. So many guys text or call asking are you available now? I'm assuming this is possibly due to increased no shows. For what it"s worth I had a record breaking amount of no show, no cancellation appointments in past two and half weeks, including one I specifically woke up extra early to get ready for. I turned away multiple other requests for these times that someone could have enjoyed. When this happens, I still wait wondering what is happening. My assumptions are that due to many guys doing this simply to aquire an location or without understanding or appreciating that this is very rude and that our time is equally as important that some of the less organized providers may attempt to damage control these situations by taking the next spur of moment call, without considering it will run into a pre booked appointment she has made. I take the full loss of the appointment as it usually takes that long to get over the funk and wonder caused by a no show. Are you possibly calling these providers from a different number than booking from, and is it possibly a blocked number? Are you only calling once. assuming she has ditched the appointment or maybe showing up early? When your calling to confirm appointment and get location perhaps she is just saying goodbye to another visitor and her cell is on silent. When theres no answer, i would recommend sending quick text stating that you are tryn to confirm appointment. As depending on how many calls she is getting, she could get confused. Believe it or not there are a few individuals who like to send text pretending they are an appointment such as "are you ready for me now" or "hey just confirming, location?" Its very frustrating not to mention creepy, and one could see how a provider could get confused. Additional Comments: My advice would be not to avoid individual confirming an hour before sp"s, but maybe seeing if the service provider you are booking is taking your name and possibly getting a pen etc. I won"t deny I've made a few mistakes myself, especially if I attempt to sched. someone while out running errands, however most were redeemable as the hour before confirmation is also helpful in these memory lapse moments learning experiences. If the provider you are booking isn't jotting down the appointment, chances are she may forget I suppose. Last but not least, if you are negotiating her rate or restrictions after making an appointment, or pressing for location early due to previous frustrations with other sp"s wasting your time etc. chances are the girl has decided that the appointment is off. It is frustrating no matter the cause, and one can only assume, have you asked them what happened later on? that's all I got, hope something was helpful. Additional Comments: I still dont understand the reasoning of avoiding service providers who ask for a confirmation call by one hour before the appointment? I anything you would at least know before driving all the way to location if she has blown off the appointment. My guess would be that the ladies you are booking arent invested in providing you with good service and perhaps if this is true in at least a percentage of the 50%, you probably were better off not to have the encounter maybe? count your blessings your not on the other side of the fence luv. Just trying to cheer you up, not being cheeky xoxoxo 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aubreyxxx 20240 Report post Posted September 6, 2012 ALthough I understand your requirements in assuming that we have seen clients before and will see clients after you, please don't think that ladies will not properly clean up after each client. I am disgusted to hear that first of all an SP would answer the phone during an encounter with a client, that is a big no no for me, and second of all to schedule back to back appt's is not something I would ever do, personally. Not that I feel I have to explain myself but personally for me and most other reputable SP's that I am aware of only see a select few amount of clients a day and never will they do back to back appt's for a few different reasons. 1st I want to make sure whether your the first client I see of the day or the 3rd I want you to feel that no matter what you are getting my 100% and I don't want to be tired or cranky or sore or anything and if you arrange back to back appt's you tend to get all of those things I just mentioned, I don't offer every client a shower after he is done, but I always inform them that they are able to have one either when they arrive or when they leave or both as I post that on my website. I also post on there that I guarantee when they arrive that they can most definitely expect that I will be freshly showered and have prepared for our encounter and expect the same from them. But I find it very one sided when guys expect things from me like bbbj and who am I to know where you have last been? We all need to take responsibility for our own health and safety and no matter if it's the first date as you posted or the 30th with your SP DATY with whoever you choose should be done knowing the risks that you are taking adn just because she took a shower doesn't wash away everything, same goes with you :P Anyways just saying :P First of all, I'll say that I've only seen a couple CERB ladies, one in particular, and their hygiene is smacking clean. Of the other ladies I've seen, the same couldn't be said for some. When I started hobbying, I had the fantasy that every lady bathed before every encounter:not true. On my first visit to one young lady, after a nice cbj and other covered fun, I happily went south and munched out. When we were done, she asked me if I wanted to clean up, and thinking that she meant a quick shower I agreed. She handed me a baby wipe, quickly used one on herself and escorted me to the door. I met the next dude on the stairs. She was fun and I saw her a lot, but never DATY again. With another sp that I visited once , while we were in bed she answered the phone and set up an appt. 15 minutes after me.The panties and dress went back on and me on my way after a shag. A lady that "busy" doesn't have time to clean herself in any manner. I guess the morals of the story for me are:CERB is the best possible method for researching for sp's and, be damned careful wher you put your tongue on the first date! WTF was this thread about anyway?lol 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites