conquistador 18487 Report post Posted August 24, 2012 I understand what you're saying, it takes a while for them to warm up. But I've begun bringing a battery along with me these days, so I can get them warmed up faster, right from the first song. :boobies: ;) lol, can save money or see more girls that way, good plan lol ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted August 24, 2012 lol, can save money or see more girls that way, good plan lol ;) That is exactly what the plan is actually. It gives me the option of seeing more girls. I've even honestly told some of the girls that I don't normally go for more than 2 songs as that way I can spread the wealth around further. They may frown a bit at the beginning, but they later understand it completely as it makes it more fair for everyone. They understand that there are nights when some girls are getting no action, and they wish that some guys would spread the wealth around more rather than monopolizing one girl or two. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nth_dimension 460 Report post Posted August 25, 2012 I usually go to Taboo/Pigs once every 2 weeks, sometimes weekly. I try to stick to less than 160 or so per visit, but have found that as I get older (in the hobby at least), I often leave without buying any dances at all. When I do buy dances, it is always with only one dancer and usually for 4-6 songs. I've become picky and figure hat if you're going to spend the cash, you might as well make it worthwhile by concentrating the money on a dancer who you find attractive and fun. It also just feels weird to talk, and then get all intimate in the CR, then say goodbye and switch to another girl. Maybe the dancers don't mind, but it would break the spirit of the moment for me :) Typical visit is sit down, have 2-3 beers, scope the scene, talk to a few, probably say no to a lot, and then finally hook up with one that clicks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BarrhavenWoody 10776 Report post Posted August 25, 2012 I don't go much anymore. Thanks heavens cuz I'd be even more broke than I am now! When I went regularly I would usually take a new girl for 2-5 songs. For my favs, I would usually have 10, 20, 30 or more songs at a time. It was a lot of fun at the time, but when I think of how much I spent over the years, I could have paid off my mortgage! sigh..oh well... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bluethunder01 1111 Report post Posted August 27, 2012 5-7 for me. I could never do 10 or 25 as I'd get bored after awhile regardless of who I'm with. The most dances in one night for me was 12 a couple of times at Pigale. 4 dances from 3 women. I recall the second time being in 2005 and the lovely Roxy Del Foxxx being the 3rd woman in the group. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tallOttawaMan 779 Report post Posted August 28, 2012 I don't go very often anymore, but when I do, I typically have a total spending cap of $100 or less (inlcuding cover and drinks). I figure if I am spending more than that, I would be better off using it towards a MA or SP. As for how I spend it within the club, if I get lucky and find the perfect dancer right away (combination of nice, natural breasts and easy going), I will spend it all on her. However, if after one or two dances I get the feeling that she isn't what I am looking for, I will quickly abort and try someone else. Sometimes I will run out of money before I find what I am looking for, or will find her, but can't get as many dances from her as I would like. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
johnson_j 110 Report post Posted August 28, 2012 I usually get 2-4 depending on how the girls are and if i'm having a good time ofcourse. The money i bring usually has to be managed well between, cover, drinks, tips and ofcourse dances. I too only go to strip clubs every now and then these days, don't get me wrong i love them because i get to drink and be surrounded by naked beautiful ladies. However i usually end up leaving even more hornier than i was before i came in and get the strong urge to call an SP. So sometimes it ends up being quite an expensive night. I'm always torn between strip clubs and SP's, both have their pro's and cons Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ni**t*****t Report post Posted August 28, 2012 It really depends on the chemistry for me. I normally do 2 or 3 and take it from there. I also do not see many girls in one visit. I identify two or three. If I get the right one, I can take her for a long time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted August 29, 2012 I don't go very often anymore, but when I do, I typically have a total spending cap of $100 or less (inlcuding cover and drinks). I figure if I am spending more than that, I would be better off using it towards a MA or SP. As for how I spend it within the club, if I get lucky and find the perfect dancer right away (combination of nice, natural breasts and easy going), I will spend it all on her. However, if after one or two dances I get the feeling that she isn't what I am looking for, I will quickly abort and try someone else. Sometimes I will run out of money before I find what I am looking for, or will find her, but can't get as many dances from her as I would like. Actually that's about right for me as well. I try to stay within a $100 limit, tips, drinks, and dances. That usually works out to 2 dances per girl. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
inti-mate 3454 Report post Posted August 29, 2012 Depends on the girl. New girls- Typically like to try a new girl if she is nice looking and go 1-2 songs and you get an idea of where they are going. If good, go longer for sure. Some do nothing and then at the end of the song do a little touching to get you onto the next song. Smart for her... but you catch on. Those I like - try to stay under 10 songs if its going well. $100- $140 should really get you someplace. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fixer1963 386 Report post Posted August 31, 2012 In most clubs 10 dances will cost you $200. Then I start to ask myself if this is the smartest way to spend my money... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **n****er Report post Posted August 31, 2012 In most clubs 10 dances will cost you $200. Then I start to ask myself if this is the smartest way to spend my money... This is what I have been starting to realize. The money is starting to add up and I leave more frustrated than when I first entered. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
daredevil8888 407 Report post Posted September 7, 2012 I know the feeling but, like one of my favorite dancers told me,"Ladies go shopping for shoes, men go shopping for pussy". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kechara 2526 Report post Posted September 15, 2012 I usually go for 8 to 10 dances with one lady and budget for that before I go in. There is one dancer I usually go and see at NuDen. If she is not there then I check out the others trying to find one I actually feel like having dance for me. I guess I have my own type I am looking for ..:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted September 15, 2012 I usually go for 8 to 10 dances with one lady and budget for that before I go in. There is one dancer I usually go and see at NuDen. If she is not there then I check out the others trying to find one I actually feel like having dance for me. I guess I have my own type I am looking for ..:) That's like upto $200 per girl. Have you considered asking her to give you an escort session to you instead? You're paying as much as an escort would charge. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kechara 2526 Report post Posted September 15, 2012 That's like upto $200 per girl. Have you considered asking her to give you an escort session to you instead? You're paying as much as an escort would charge. I had considered that, however when we have been talking she does not do that. Instead I decided on my own to head towards finding a escort who I like to spend time with. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted September 16, 2012 I had considered that, however when we have been talking she does not do that. Instead I decided on my own to head towards finding a escort who I like to spend time with. I'd say you're better off not spending so much time with this dancer, and instead spend it on the escort afterwards. You're not going to get anywhere further with this dancer. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tallguy007 4172 Report post Posted September 24, 2012 I don't do the strip clubs much anymore. I used to do 10+ in a night, usually picking a favorite for the night fairly early on. Since I just stick to the basic services, I often left there a bit... frustrated. Which pretty much explains what I'm doing here, I guess. ;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mustard11 242 Report post Posted October 2, 2012 I live in ultraconservative Alberta, therefore I only go to strip clubs when I'm in Ottawa for business, and that's only 1-2 times per year. But when I go to the clubs I like to go crazy! I will spend $1000-$1300 per day. (my average trip is 5 days) The dollar amount does include everything: cover, dances, food and drinks for myself, dancers and sometimes other customers I meet. I don't look for "hook-ups" with the girls, so SPs don't interest me. I'm just looking for a fun party atmosphere and to squeeze a few boobs! I usually will take a new girl for at least 3 songs, and a favorite girl for 5-10 songs, but it's not unusual to take a favorite girl into the CR multiple times in a night. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slyjohn 929 Report post Posted October 3, 2012 I always have 2 per lady but depending on the 'bond' between us.. I will have 5. I will repeat with the same lady as well if the attraction is there and the conversation is nice! ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted October 4, 2012 Yes it has been said by many, it depends on the lady. When She is totally exceptional in beauty and personality and warms (hugging and kissing) I go for 5 songs first time and 3 songs subsequents visits (yes I will repeat for sure). When well above average again in beauty and personality and warms I go for 3 songs and I stay with 3 songs for repeats and for average I stay for 2 songs and repeats will be 2 songs too. Sometimes when the lady who comes to me and is nice even if I don't have much of attraction to her, I still take her to CR and have one dance (in fact rewarding her for coming to me also the fact that I know regardless of looks we all have to pay bills and they (again regardless of looks) have to pay hefty bar fees. So in summary one to five songs is my answer to thread question depending on factors above. Now all above said that is of course if I still have greens in my wallet, If an exceptional or well above average lady comes to me late in the game when I have already taken many ladies to CR for the night already then I will have to take her for less songs than stated above. In a typical day in a good club with attractive ladies I take between 5 to 10 ladies to CR as i LOVE VARIETY (the reason I sometimes choose going to SCs over seeing escorts as well as summer family guests) so you can see why I have to limit the songs to 5 and 3 even for those I am really attracted to. I don't go to ATM adter I empty my wallet. That too is my policy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hector17 9215 Report post Posted October 4, 2012 I am not a drinker, so dont feel I have a place in a SC, and it seems that I am saving a lot ...I think if alcohol was involved I'd be likely to spend a lot. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted October 5, 2012 I am not a drinker, so dont feel I have a place in a SC, and it seems that I am saving a lot ...I think if alcohol was involved I'd be likely to spend a lot. I'd spend a lot whether or not alcohol is involved. That's why I try to stick to my rule of no more than 2 dances/girl. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Athos 108589 Report post Posted October 5, 2012 I'd spend a lot whether or not alcohol is involved. That's why I try to stick to my rule of no more than 2 dances/girl. i rarely drink a lot at strip clubs. Maybe 2 beers over a whole evening ... but as Whiteman says, it doesn't stop me from spending too much money! I have no will power whatsoever Porthos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted October 5, 2012 I am not a drinker, so dont feel I have a place in a SC, and it seems that I am saving a lot ...I think if alcohol was involved I'd be likely to spend a lot. Why on earth not? We go to SCs for the boobies, not the beers. Sure, I'll have a beer or two when I'm there... but trust me, the beer isn't what gets me to walk through the door, and if there wasn't any beer it wouldn't stop me going. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites