radist 313 Report post Posted September 6, 2012 Hi there, I'm a really newbie here :) Just wonder if anyone can recommend or shoot me a pointer for a couple which provides cuckold fantasy. :) Thanks! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
50strait 350 Report post Posted September 7, 2012 As in you want to be made the cuck? Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
radist 313 Report post Posted September 8, 2012 correct, so I will be made the cuck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted September 8, 2012 Have you tried going to swingers clubs? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted September 8, 2012 (edited) I was just informed she is no longer with her partner. Sorry for suggesting this, I just remembered an ad from way back. Edited September 8, 2012 by Meg O'Ryan Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted September 8, 2012 I seem to recall this lady http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=23184advertising possible encounters with her and her male partner. I thought the OP said that he want's to be made the cuck, i.e. he wants to see somebody else doing his woman? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted September 8, 2012 I thought the OP said that he want's to be made the cuck, i.e. he wants to see somebody else doing his woman? I assumed he was looking at it from the fantasy/roll playing point of view :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted September 8, 2012 I would recommend Carrie Moon for this. She not only has experience doing this but also has access to more than just one male partner. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
radist 313 Report post Posted September 9, 2012 Thanks for the pointers. I haven't tried swinger clubs cuz it's usually tough for singles to find a couple for such a matter :). And definitely I'm looking at it from fantasy point of view :). I will try to touch base with Carrie Moon. Thanks again for suggestions. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
radist 313 Report post Posted September 9, 2012 I just realized that I wasn't very clear on this, I'm single and looking for a SP with her male partner (couple) to do play a fantasy where I will be made the cuck... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted September 9, 2012 I just realized that I wasn't very clear on this, I'm single and looking for a SP with her male partner (couple) to do play a fantasy where I will be made the cuck... Okay, I understand what you're saying but I thought the idea of a cuck fantasy was being made to watch as you lose your partner to someone else? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
radist 313 Report post Posted September 10, 2012 Okay, I understand what you're saying but I thought the idea of a cuck fantasy was being made to watch as you lose your partner to someone else? Well, originally yes, you're absolutely correct. Originally it is all about watching how your partner having sex with a lover... But if you don't have such a partner and still want to try this fantasy? Anyway, maybe there is a different name for such a role play scenario but I definitely saw that this was offered by some SP's in the Internet... :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted September 11, 2012 Well, originally yes, you're absolutely correct. Originally it is all about watching how your partner having sex with a lover... But if you don't have such a partner and still want to try this fantasy? Anyway, maybe there is a different name for such a role play scenario but I definitely saw that this was offered by some SP's in the Internet... :) Yeah, I don't know if there was any real name for it, but they used to just call it "watching someone else having sex". 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ricco 411 Report post Posted September 12, 2012 Yeah, I don't know if there was any real name for it, but they used to just call it "watching someone else having sex". Voyeurism? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
radist 313 Report post Posted September 12, 2012 Oh c'mon guys. It's getting ridiculous. It's not only about watching. If you have no idea about certain thing it doesn't necessarily mean this thing doesn't exist. Do you have something to tell on the topic? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted September 12, 2012 Oh c'mon guys. It's getting ridiculous. It's not only about watching. If you have no idea about certain thing it doesn't necessarily mean this thing doesn't exist. Do you have something to tell on the topic? Sorry, it wasn't meant to ridicule you, but it is about just some basic definitions here. You as a single guy, cannot be made into a cuckold, because you do not have a girl to lose yourself. The only role you can play is to make another guy into a cuckold, at best. For example, years ago, I met a girl who was engaged to someone. She said she was doing this to make some money before her wedding. Her fiance was completely aware, and had left to "go to the store", meaning he left on purpose. I was thinking, "wow, these two are doing this prior to getting married?" It really turned me on even after leaving her place, and though I wasn't aware of it at the time, but that was a cuckold fantasy. Then some other time, I went to a place where I was greeted by the girl's husband. We sat down at the dining table and chatted a bit until his wife was ready. She came down, and he went upstairs to look after the kids, while I did his wife in the living room! Now that was a cuckold fantasy! I was single at the time in both instances, and so my only role could be to make the other ones the cuckold. You mean to tell me that you wouldn't want to meet an SP who has a boyfriend, who uses you to make her boyfriend into a cuckold? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
radist 313 Report post Posted September 12, 2012 ... years ago, I met a girl who was engaged to someone...<snip> I was single at the time in both instances, and so my only role could be to make the other ones the cuckold. You mean to tell me that you wouldn't want to meet an SP who has a boyfriend, who uses you to make her boyfriend into a cuckold? It was a good lecture about old memories, thank you bud. I'll keep that in mind. Actually last thing on my mind was stepping into this terminological discussion. Didn't expect that I need to put detailed and exhaustive description neither. Please read excellent description Meg posted above. This is exactly what I meant by posting here. Hope this helps to make my original post crystal clear. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DarkSoul 261 Report post Posted September 12, 2012 I don't think you can have a cuckold fantasy without having a female partner (a Hotwife) involved who you want to watch having sex with another man (A Bull). Part of a cuckold fantasy is being humiliated and being made to feel inadequate sexually and unable to meet the sexual need of the Hotwife - being forced to watch, forced to wear a chastity device on your cock, wear women lingerie and heels, forced to suck the Bulls's cock, forced to lick the Bull's cum from her pussy when he is done. If you have no female partner, isn't that just straight voyeurism fantasy since you are not emotional involved with the participants? If you are looking to watch couples having sex, go to one of the swingers club on a Friday (Singles Night - Check Event Schedules). - Bashful & Bold (www.bashfulandbold.ca) - The Club Ottawa (www.theclubottawa.ca) Good luck DS 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Bardot 99339 Report post Posted September 13, 2012 Can we please stop telling radist that he is in the wrong, that he has the wrong idea of what he wants and has defined for himself? There is such a thing as role-playing. Just because he has no previous "emotional involvement" with an SP does not mean that they can't role-play a scenario where he is the cuck. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
radist 313 Report post Posted September 13, 2012 ... There is such a thing as role-playing. Just because he has no previous "emotional involvement" with an SP does not mean that they can't role-play a scenario where he is the cuck. Thanks for putting this in a few words. Short and precise, as I like it. Hopefully term "role-playing" is self descriptive enough and we will not to jump into another discussion on what this exactly means, lol. Honestly, I liked this part: I don't think you can have a ... fantasy without having a female partner involved. Isn't it awesome? No offense, but in the BDSM/Fetish/etc thread it looks impressive indeed. :biggrin: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carrie Moon 68826 Report post Posted September 13, 2012 Sorry I'm late to this thread.. but radist is right on the mark with the cuckold scenario. It's a very hot trend in porn viewing and the viewers have absolutely no relationship with the porn actress (I've done a few of these videos myself!). The dominating woman in the scenario creates the cuckold fantasy with her contrasting the bull (the usually much better endowed or at least harder guy) fucking her to the 'wimpy, useless dick man' watching. Typically it's true that the scenario involves a man who can no longer satisfy his wife being forced to watch her fuck strangers but it has certainly evolved to be role-played by many others. I mean I also have been involved in porn that role-plays mother/daughter mother/son. They aren't actually related to me..lol. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
