What made you take the plunge?

[Ariane Valmont 332]

This is a thread for both ladies and gentlemen. I would be curious to know what made you decide to get involved in the sex trade...

 

I will do the honour and tell you my little story. As you might be aware of by now, French is my first language so please bare with me if my English is sometimes silly!

 

I had always been pretty wild with my boyfriends but until I was about 30 years old, I had very few one night stands. I had been single for a while and started to ask myself why I would choose a sexless life simply because I was afraid of other people's judgments. Yes, you guessed, it, I come from a home where promiscuous women are frown upon.

 

So I started to have multiple partners (that I chose carefully) and explore different form of erotism: light BDSM, threesomes, swingers clubs, exhibitionnism, voyeurism, small orgies, same sex partners, etc!

 

Becoming more and more open-minded and curious to push some of my bounderies, I came upon internet ads (I was actually looking to adopt a kitten!! :-P) from escorts and ladies looking for a sugardaddy. It turned me on imagining me being one of those ladies. There was something kinky and forbidden about this world, a world completely unknown to me then.

 

To make a long story short, I posted 2-3 ads and choked each time. I was getting arroused exchanging emails with those men and I fantasized about going through with it but I was at the same time very afraid of the consequences it could have on me.

 

Then, one night that I was feeling particularly adventurous, I posted one more ad explaining honestly what the situation was (i.e. that I was simply looking to fulfill a fantasy of services against money contribution). One of the replies I received was very interesting and I told myself: ok, this is now or never!

 

I went through with it even though I was still pretty scared. The excitment was exceeding the fear! :)

 

Needless to say that my experience was very positive. After that, I didn't immediatly became an escort because I still had to stuggle with some preconceived notions imposed on me by society. Being a good and decent person is very important to me and I wanted to make sure I would not compromise my integrity. I thought long and hard about it before finally realizing that I didn't see anything morally wrong with escorting (as long as it is done respectfully to yourself and others) and decided to start offering my services.

 

I have never regretted my choice since!

[Apex2006 1071]

I wanted to try a few different thing and never could convince ex-wife or ex-girl friends to do some of the things I wanted to do. I had a few Fuck freinds that did not want to try anything new either so I turned to this industry just to be different and try new things.

 

I have a list of things I want to do before I can no longer get it up!

 

It's a long list!

 

Apex

[Ariane Valmont 332]

 

I have a list of things I want to do before I can no longer get it up!

 

It's a long list!

 

Apex

 

hehe... I know what you mean! :)

 

Of course, I don't have a "get it up" deadline but while I am still relatively young, I also have a list of things I absolutely want to do.

 

Sexually, I think we should try (almost) everything at least once!

[ekimout 188]

I had just moved to Montreal to start a new job. All work, no play, no significant other but with disposable income. I was always intrigued by escorts, and the excitement of having great sex without the strings. The ability to meet different types of women, all sizes, shapes, experience, young, older, it was all very very intriguing.

 

I always enjoyed going to the strip clubs and in Montreal they were a little more interesting. I would make frequent trips back to Ottawa for work and would pass by a club called Eclipse (Rigaud). It was supposed to be the best stop along the way from Montreal to Ottawa. Upon leaving work late one Thursday night I decided to stop for a beer and check it out. WOW!!! What a place, the women were all gorgeous and everything was on the menu. It became a regular stop to gas up...and get my oil changed.

 

While surfing the internet I came across a couple of sites, some escort announcements and FS club reviews, and began exploring the notion of going through with it. I discovered there was an incall location just down the street from my apartment, two blocks down. The website had pictures of the women and their schedule. It was calling me, I could feel it. It must have taken me a couple of weeks to pick one and finally take a chance. It was awesome! She was a sweetheart and I was hooked.

 

The experience, the thrill, the discovery and excitement are a great rush. I love all different types of women and this hobby allows me to explore.

[PistolPete 61421]

TO THE SHORT STROKES OF IT....your question...I LOVE SEX..I LOVE WOMEN..and I'm happy because the women make me feel happy, and I'm sure I make them feel the same:wink: SEX IS GREAT IS NOT:?::?::?:

[PistolPete 61421]

I should of added it sure as hell beats going to the bars and doing the bar scene.

[esoterica 624]

I had just separated and I wanted sexual intimacy without an emotional commitment. I had visited MPs while my marriage was 'non-sexual' so the idea was not so remote to me.

 

I discovered a world of sexy, lovely ladies who could be raunchy and mischievous as well. I have had some amazing conversations, had some mind-shattering orgasms, learned a lot about sensuality, and met some people who I'm pleased to call 'friend'. I have met some weird ones too but it was worth it.

 

The adventure continues...

[archie2008 100]

All women and so is sex , monogomy is so unnatural....

 

Archie .

[rick_falcon 911]

An eternal single that, as a human being, still has some needs.

Beats out a girlfriend as you know she is with you for a short time and then, it's off to each business.

 

But through the process, it's also a wonderful opportunity to meet amazing women.

[Love2Cum 100]

Myself and my SO have different interests sexually. I love her but needed some more sexual relief. It's probably saved my relationship as I can occasionally visit with an SP to fulfill fantasies or just relive some sexual tension which removes that as a tension point in my relationship.

[caveman 147]

I'm still reasonably new to the hobby (less than a year)...I started off last summer by visiting a MP, and then quickly decided to spend time with some SPs. My motivation was pretty basic--it had been a while since I'd spent any intimate time with anyone other than Righty... :-) The biggest hurdle for me was discreetly figuring out how to start. Thank god for the internet and CERB!

[YoungStud 468]

That's a very cool and well-told story, Arlene. I've had a lot of sex with a lot of women, but only those who have been honest and smart have really touched me.

 

I've been doing this for more than 25 years (started young - lol). Mostly because I'm a very sexually promiscuous kind of guy. And if you want to have NSA sex with a bunch of women - 5 to 6 a week in the 80's some weeks - this was the easiest way to handle the "overflow" as it were. Lol.

 

Psychologically, you could ask questions about commitment and long-term intimacy. But I've done those as well, though probably, in retrospective, never long enough in most, if not all, cases. And always along with a lot of other things. Lol

[AttilaTheHun 356]

This is a thread for both ladies and gentlemen. I would be curious to know what made you decide to get involved in the sex trade...

 

Hi all! This is my first post on this board, however I am not a newbie to the industry.

 

Arianne, I'm not sure if you are addressing women and men who work the Sex trade or those who use them. I am an addicted user and here is my story. I am hobbiest who was practising before I even knew there was name for it. I started calling on SP's about 18 years ago and have been on and off overthe years mainly because I was dealing with agencies who would very often "bait and switch". I once had a 58 year knock at my hotel door (I was in my thirties at the time). Needless to say she was over 6' tall, very professional and was a bombshell. We had a great time together but not what I expected. I asked why she was in the business, and she responded "I love the sex, I don't really need the money". I had many extra marital affairs over the years and it always ended up being messy and complicated which is why I went back to using SP's. I found that if you do your homework, search out what you want, you can find many gems out there. The excitement of finding that diamond in the rough that you click with and have great hot steamy sweaty sex is the best reward. I usually only deal with Independant SP's because I get a chance to speak them before I meet them. I can get a pretty good picture of what I'm getting into by our conversations. I'm in my 50's and I my intention is to have as much fun as I can.

 

The Hun

[kih 458]

Ariane,

 

Great discussion. The same reasons prevail today why I ventured into the hobby years ago ..... desire, curiosity, intrigued. Lastly, I am addicted to sex!

[Guest B***ke Ba****]

I do because I need a hug ever now and then! Rusty

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[Labrador 248]

It is easier than having a relationship with all of it demands and not knowing what is going to happen!;-)

[Guest C****** K***e]

I won't lie, for me it was very first about the money. I did think really carefully about it before starting, though. I decided I was comfortable with taking the plunge, and it turns out I really like it. Possibly like some others here (but definitely not all!), I am not a very emotional type, and have no desire to have an SO, so this is a good way for me to have my physical needs fulfilled, and I like the feeling of being wanted.

[spud271 47779]

For myself it was the logical next step really. I love women and love sex, by the time I turned 19 I had been with more women than I could count, so I figured it was time to take a bit of an adventure and visit an escort for the first time. Have never looked back since and in general have met many wonderful women over the years, many who I've become good friends with. Have also made friends with some hobbyiest as well. Need to have someone to talk to this about, can't bring this up in conversation by the water cooler at work! It has personally been a sexual adventure in this hobby that I intend to travel for many years to come.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

For me there are two reasons:

 

1 - I like a variety. If I have a blonde today, then tomorrow I may wish a brunette. I like to be with a different girl every day. I used to get a huge variety in the strip bars for many years but there is so much you can do in those places and it wasn't intimate enough for me (I still had to take them as GF), so I decided to switch to escorts 18 months ago.

 

2 - I like very young females. Now may be 10 years ago it was fairly easy to pick up a 19 year old from a dance bar and have her as GF for a few weeks or months, but now for the reason of age factor it has become increasing difficult and will become impossible in another 10 years :cry:.

[Seymour 3970]

One word - opportunity.

[spud271 47779]

I don't agrre with the issue of picking up 19 year olds at all. I'm 38 and go out all the time. I pick up 19 to 24 years olds all the time. It's all about attitude, plus the English accent helps out a bit! Even back home when I go to clubs and parties I pick up 19 year olds without a problem. I'm not the best looking or in the best shape anymore, yet it's not an issue. It's all about attitude. ;)

 

For me there are two reasons:

 

1 - I like a variety. If I have a blonde today, then tomorrow I may wish a brunette. I like to be with a different girl every day. I used to get a huge variety in the strip bars for many years but there is so much you can do in those places and it wasn't intimate enough for me (I still had to take them as GF), so I decided to switch to escorts 18 months ago.

 

2 - I like very young females. Now may be 10 years ago it was fairly easy to pick up a 19 year old from a dance bar and have her as GF for a few weeks or months, but now for the reason of age factor it has become increasing difficult and will become impossible in another 10 years :cry:.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I don't agrre with the issue of picking up 19 year olds at all. I'm 38 and go out all the time. I pick up 19 to 24 years olds all the time. It's all about attitude, plus the English accent helps out a bit! Even back home when I go to clubs and parties I pick up 19 year olds without a problem. I'm not the best looking or in the best shape anymore, yet it's not an issue. It's all about attitude. ;)

 

I said it has become increasing difficult compare to 10 years ago when I was 30 years old (which I said was fairly easy). And I also said that I anticipate that it would be impossible when I would be 50 in 10 years time. I don't see many 50 year olds dancing and kissing 19 year olds in the dance bars. Do you!. That is the age me and you will be in 10 years time or so.

 

BTW, I have the best attitude towards females, especially young and pretty ones. I respect them and adore them at the same time. I treat them like a princess (to me every pretty young girl with a friendly attitude is a princess).

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

love of sex and money....

why am i still doing...love of sex and money...lmao

and all the bf's i want...hehe

[Guest i***k***]

I wanted to try something new, meet some new ladies and experience lots of hot fantasies. :shock:

[E.D. man 691]

My 1st relationship was with a very mentally abusive woman who was trained in the arts of head games.

I was horny one day after striking out at a bar.

So I called and met a nice girl from an agency.

She actually looked like the 1st girl I had a crush on.

But she was ok.

But went through a couple to see what would happen. I was very depressed after my 1st gf.

Then after when my 1st gf tried to come back in my life I met Barbie in 1992.

The most beautiful person I have met today from inside out to outside in!!!

We actually ended up dating for awhile.

And even though I don't get to see her anymore. i thank her for being the only would I have made love to and made love back. EUPHOTIA!!! She made life worth living!!!

To this day I still love her from afar and dream about.

I don't have to look for her I see her in the malls once in awhile no contact.

As she is now married with 2 kids and a good husband.;-):lol:

But I have found 2 young ladies that I am comfortable with on cerb and quest.