dunkinsailor 1220 Report post Posted September 25, 2012 Been meaning to post this for a while. A lot of sp ads (especially on BP and other ad sites) include the phrase "open minded" - some "VERY open minded". Is there a general consensus in the industry on what this means, or what it entails? Or is it a bit like saying "don't be afraid of asking for kinky stuff or fetish desires"? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gia Wren Marlowe 67985 Report post Posted September 25, 2012 I think that depends on the type of ad and the context in which the phrase is used. I have the term "open-minded" on my website and in some of my ads. In these instances I'm using it to describe my personality. So in my case it means that I am open-minded in the discussions and conversations I have with others (the common usage of the term). In cases where the focus of the ad is a bit more down and dirty, it probably means that she doesn't want to get into listing all her services, but she hopes you won't be too shy to ask about what you want. So I think your interpretation is pretty fair in many cases. Hopefully if there is a more specific way the term is used then another gentleman or lady will enlighten us, both. But I've found that there is almost no industry-standard language other than the very obvious acronyms. Most of the rest is up for interpretation. 7 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ou**or**n Report post Posted September 25, 2012 In the context of BP I find it is a way for non-GFE girls to be vague about the nature of their services. To me it is a way of implying that a broader range of services are available than in fact are. However with more professional ladies like Georgia Sweet above it means something completely different so to me you need to consider the source of the ad, the reputation of the provider and their experience. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
galaxyace 242 Report post Posted September 25, 2012 When I see that term in an ad, it honestly does not mean that much to me. It has about as much impact on my decisions as seeing a "SALE" sign in a storefront (which has been there for months) Actions in person speak louder than words in an advertisement Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dread pirate roberts 4036 Report post Posted September 25, 2012 For what it's worth, I recall seeing in the FAQ of some SPs website (sorry, I've forgotten who) something to the effect of: Q: Are you open-minded? A: If you mean by that "do you do Greek", no. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted September 25, 2012 If to you, open minded means additional services then check with the provider who has caught your eye. For me "open minded" can mean any number of things... 1. You want me to drip honey all over your body, slash a feather pillow and coat you in down then remove them with a pair of tweezers? Sure I can but you're cleaning up the mess! 2. You want to slip into something more comfortable like a pair of my Pradas? Not unless you wear the same size as me and come with a gift certificate for new shoes! 3. You want to hang upside down by your ankles while I play ringtoss with your erection with donuts then have me eat them off you? Sure, you bring the donuts. 4. You want to play naughty librarian and rip my clothes off? Absolutely but advance notice is required so I can get disposable clothes. 5. You want to shave my head and play V for Vendetta? Ummm, that requires serious advance notice and a very hefty envelope. And maybe a gift certificate to a wig shop. 6. You want to have your bottom powdered and diapered then fed a bottle while getting rocked and serenaded "Sleep little baby" while masturbating you thru leak proof plastic diaper guards? That can be arranged. Open minded simply means that we are not judgemental and whims with fancy to you are really nothing to blush about for us so go ahead and ask... cat 10 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spence_ca 722 Report post Posted September 25, 2012 Saying I was looking for an "open-minded" sp was how I met Cat...never been the same since. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted October 18, 2012 Whenever a prospective client asks me if I'm "open minded", I always ask them to tell me what's really on their mind. More often than not, I have found their interpretation to mean: - Do you do Greek - Can I cum on your face - Do you cater to (a particular fetish) Bottom line is, for some reason it slightly irks me when someone asks me that. It's like asking me if I like ice-cream. Yes, I do, but I may prefer pralines and cream over vanilla and actually abhor licorce flavoured. Yes, I'm open minded, but cut to the chase and tell me exactly what "you" mean by that. We need to be on the same page for the encounter to work. Does the fact I love cum shots make me open minded? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
