Is using BP a good way to find escorts?

[websurfer 680]

I find they have alot more affordable escorts vs escorts Canada. Also I think I found one off back page that I like. She said she offers gfe, will this include sex? because I can't afford to spend it if doesn't

[mod 135640]

Oh Boy! I will let our members enlighten you.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Just for starters....you get what you pay for?

[aubreyxxx 20240]

I find they have alot more affordable escorts vs escorts Canada. Also I think I found one off back page that I like. She said she offers gfe, will this include sex? because I can't afford to spend it if doesn't

 

 

I wonder why you are asking the members of Cerb whether or not a poster from -------- is offering sex in her GFE? Do you not think that maybe these questions should be forwarded to the lady on BP

[roamingguy 300292]

My experience, stick to CERB and Escorts Canada.

CERB has recommendations on ladies you might like to see

I've strayed off the reserve LOL so to speak, using other sites (CL etc) a couple times and each and every time those encounters terrible...I now stick exclusively with the ladies from CERB.

My advice from my experience, use CERB and Escorts Canada, avoid BP and other sites. And utilize the recommendations area on CERB when thinking of seeing a certain lady

My two cents

RG

[CristyCurves 169032]

I understand as a hobbyist you may have a budget, as any person does when looking for anything but to compare girls and their rates is unfair and unreasonable. As each of us offers different styles of services and different services. We all have different ways of evaluating our costs . We all have different expenses therefore different rates. It is silly to expect "Jane" to charge what "Jan" charges and so on, silly! Pick a girl if you like her you pay her asking fee, to whine or complain that it may be cheaper here or there will win you no fans or providers!! BP is a fine site I suppose but the difference between here and there is, here you know the pics you are looking at are the ladies , not stolen, you will also be guaranteed to get good service as we all value our reputations here, no fly by nights ! Also when you call a provider please do not ask any of us to lower our rates or mention that you think they are to high that is just rude .

[fortunateone 156618]

I think it's been discussed before, and very recently.

 

bp is like any other ad site. You can't automatically assume all ads are fake, or that all rates are cheap. Any savvy business minded sp is going to use any and all advertising sites that work, and bp is known by far more people and covers far more territory (and countries) than many other sites.

 

It is a paid site, not free, so keep in mind also that the person choosing to advertise there has spent money to do it.

 

Even so, you don't assume the advertising site itself is vetting or checking the sps for your safety, or even being a good match. If rates are the issue, believe me there are sps advertising on this site who have rates in all ranges as well. We don't assume that the lower rate advertisers here are scammers, but we assume that and worse about bp advertisers.

 

Even when many of the advertisers here (or similar sites) use bp to advertise on a regular basis, we are still all lumped together by both clients and sps who are too good for it I guess.

 

And yet everyone seems to know what quality of advertiser is on it, and how risky it must be to use it, even tho no one actually uses it?

 

But check this out: two years (or so ago), all of these kinds of comments and threads discussed CL (erotic services ads). At that time, bp was never mentioned as such a lowbrow advertising site. You'd think if it was a bad site for ads, that it would have always been a bad site for ads. But it wasn't, it's only since there's been no CL that all the advertisers are bad? Doesn't make sense to me.

[roamingguy 300292]

Just to add to what Cristy said, yes you may have a budget, I do, we all do. My budget, well I can afford to have one encounter per month on disposable income. On occasion I may see a lady who I'd like to see for a longer period of time. Or maybe schedule a sleepover with her. Or, well an encounter that costs a higher amount than most encounters, for whatever reason. In those special cases I will save money for a period of time to afford those encounters.

In my case, I'll just forgo my monthly encounters, save the money I would have spent on an encounter that month, till I have enough to pay for a encounter costing a little more than average cost

Whew, hope that makes sense

RG

[kechara 2526]

I find they have alot more affordable escorts vs escorts Canada. Also I think I found one off back page that I like. She said she offers gfe, will this include sex? because I can't afford to spend it if doesn't

 

websurfer I understand worrying about budget and how much to spend. I only really jumped into this last month. I did sit there and think about it for a long time. I was looking at BP and some other places. One thing that I noticed was that there is going to be a basic range for a lot of SPs. If someone was a bunch lower than that range all I know is that warning flags would pop up for me.

 

When I did decide I wanted to start doing this I gave myself a budget for myself per month. I also personally like to meet a women for a 1 hour date. I find this is enough time for both of us to get to know each other and relax. I know when I first meet an SP I am nervous, and even if they are not showing it they are most likely a bit nervous as well. That time gives us a chance to talk and relax a bit.

 

Remember when looking at BP you can also check the recommendation board here and you might find the SP listed. This can give you an idea that others felt the time they had was worth mentioning to others.

 

Look in the ads and check for what they are offering. Read the "help with abreviations" thread here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=1311

 

Also read the " New to this? Things you should know..." section. There is a lot of good information in the threads that are stuck on top. It takes a while to read them but it is well worth the time.

[aubreyxxx 20240]

websurfer I understand worrying about budget and how much to spend. I only really jumped into this last month. I did sit there and think about it for a long time. I was looking at BP and some other places. One thing that I noticed was that there is going to be a basic range for a lot of SPs. If someone was a bunch lower than that range all I know is that warning flags would pop up for me.

 

When I did decide I wanted to start doing this I gave myself a budget for myself per month. I also personally like to meet a women for a 1 hour date. I find this is enough time for both of us to get to know each other and relax. I know when I first meet an SP I am nervous, and even if they are not showing it they are most likely a bit nervous as well. That time gives us a chance to talk and relax a bit.

 

Remember when looking at BP you can also check the recommendation board here and you might find the SP listed. This can give you an idea that others felt the time they had was worth mentioning to others.

 

Look in the ads and check for what they are offering. Read the "help with abreviations" thread here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=1311

 

Also read the " New to this? Things you should know..." section. There is a lot of good information in the threads that are stuck on top. It takes a while to read them but it is well worth the time.

 

I gave out way too much reputation today so it will not allow me to do so anymore hence the quote reply - this is excellent advice!

[Guest Ou**or**n]

BP is an unmoderated advertising forum. You will get a wide spectrum of providers advertising there. Many ladies here also advertise there. Many agencies advertise their ladies there as well. You will also find ladies that are new to the business - the hidden gems so to speak.

 

However along the way you will find bait and switch providers posting fake photos as well as GIrZ tHaT LiKE to PArtY.

 

Nothing wrong with it on its own but take it with a very heavy dose of caveat emptor. If you see a lady you like, see if one of the recommendation or review sites has information about her. You can also post 'anyone have info on' some sites and you'll get answers. You can also rely on your gut - your money, your call.

 

If the lady is advertising in the escort section then yes, she will provide sex. If you have doubts just ask if she is a full service provider (or coitus if your a Sheldon type).

[Capital Hunter 18263]

You may find your answers here too as mentioned it has been discussed recently.

 

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=105338

[mod 135640]

Mentioning ck's diary site here to show he MANY issues found on bp would be good too....

http://cowboysdiary.info (very valuable if your in ottawa but a good example for everyone)

[freddy4escort 260]

I meet really nice girls who are awesome. I always see the same one now as she is awesome!! I believe you shouldn't see a service provider if you can't afford to pay them well. Look what they do for us! I only go when I've saved up well more then they ask for and am treated very well!

 

Fred

[Serena Blake 14066]

this is brought up from time to time. BP is known nationally where as other sites may not be. Some SP's or even Customers may not know of other sites.

 

(referring to http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=105338 CERB vs BP thread I recently partook in)

 

Here for example BP is more known so unfortunately for me I have to post there as well. Why I say this is unfortunate is I deal with alot of bull-crap to weed through for serious inquiries by respectable gentlemen. I have most definitely have found many. But I also get ppl contacting me to go to stags or just to hang out in exchange for booze and drugs which is an unclassy annoyance.

[websurfer 680]

I see, Cerb is the way to go no doubt in my mind now, but one most obvios question is why are the pictures so small? I liked BP because they usually have 2-3 full size pictures.

[mod 135640]

If you CLICK on the photos they increase to full size (except the avatar - profile photos) the album photos and the post photos will open into a large view.

 

For example

Click on it. If it does not get larger then you have turned off javascript in your browser (or have a bug) download www.firefox.org and use it instead of I.E. or Safari (or whatever browser you are using) if your on a mobile device well... your sort of stuck with what your device can do.

[Phaedrus 209521]

Further to what Mod said: if you want pics displayed full size, you can set that up. Go to User Control Panel, choose "Edit Options" in the menu on the left, and then look for "The Image Resizer" (at the bottom of the "Thread Display Options" section). There's a bunch of options in the dropdown menu there; if you select "Keep original size" then that's what you'll get when you see posts. It may mean some page formatting gets a bit screwed up if people post very large images... but it saves having to click on them to see them.

[oldblueeyez 15475]

My worst experience EVER was from BP! But on the other hand, I've seen ladies advertising on BP who I know to be top-notch (thanks to CERB). My advice is to save up your money until you can afford a well-reviewed Cerb lady; it is almost guaranteed to be a great experience and one which will keep your tissue box empty for many nights to come afterward! ;-)

 

BP...never again!

[Dave - WebGuy 597]

From a provider standpoint ... If the ads didn't generate business then there wouldn't be the number of ads being posted. At the same time, it's a fairly inexpensive paid advertising venue.

 

It can be effective for some that want to quickly put up an ad while they are working and remove it after they are done for the day. They can have an ad up for a matter of hours, and removed with little trace of it, as opposed to having it placed for days, weeks or months.

 

I do know of a few providers that use the site to let their clientele know that they are available without the use of email or a website by placing ads to let regulars know to call.

 

With that said, elite or courtesan type services shouldn't be expected from an inexpensive ad that may, or may not, be 100% accurate. A lot of people will still come to sites such as CERB to discuss an ad's legitimacy and accuracy. This is because they want to make an informed decision.

[websurfer 680]

I know I am going off topic but since I started the thread I figured it would be alright.

I have heard of this law where you loose your vehicle if caught with a prostitute and sex more money deal was made but would this law come in to effect say if you when to a sp's incall location and sex for money could be proven? From what I read on this article it seems to be directed towards street walkers.

 

http://www.edmontonpolice.ca/communitypolicing/familyprotection/prostitution/youcruiseyoulose.aspx

[fortunateone 156618]

I know I am going off topic but since I started the thread I figured it would be alright.

I have heard of this law where you loose your vehicle if caught with a prostitute and sex more money deal was made but would this law come in to effect say if you when to a sp's incall location and sex for money could be proven? From what I read on this article it seems to be directed towards street walkers.

 

http://www.edmontonpolice.ca/communitypolicing/familyprotection/prostitution/youcruiseyoulose.aspx

 

 

This is only for SWs afaik. So they target both clients and sps in their efforts.

 

Edmonton prefers to have the sps indoors, so makes it less comfortable for them to work outdoors. They promote city bylaw mp licenses so sps tend to work in mps more so than even independently. If they are indy, they (still no risk to you) can face fines for working without a license (unless they buy an indy license).

[websurfer 680]

This is only for SWs afaik. So they target both clients and sps in their efforts.

 

Edmonton prefers to have the sps indoors, so makes it less comfortable for them to work outdoors. They promote city bylaw mp licenses so sps tend to work in mps more so than even independently. If they are indy, they (still no risk to you) can face fines for working without a license (unless they buy an indy license).

 

so you said you think they target sp's and client's aswell?

[fortunateone 156618]

so you said you think they target sp's and client's aswell?

 

 

For street work and clients seeking street workers yes.

 

For indoors no, because clients don't need a license. :)

[Guest c**io**m7]

When I started hobbying earlier this year, I began with an agency and then began to explore the BP options. I found BP to be a 50/50 chance of good service, real pictures and good times. Now, I stick to Cerb ladies and Cerb agencies.

For what I spend on the company of compassionate and beautiful ladies, I want to make sure that I don't get back in my car wondering why I spent the money.

This is not to say that I don't still peruse the ads from time to time but, when I find an ad that I like, I look for the lady here on Cerb. I look for recos here and reviews on the other board. If I don't find reviews and/or profiles I usually pass.

 

If you are just looking for a cheap lay, keep something in mind, you may get ripped off and, best case scenario, you will get a cheap lay...and, chances are, it won't be great. You aren't going to get a tenderloin steak for the price of a hamburger.