Social and Intimate Encounter

[The General 11309]

I was wondering whether ladies would be open to the idea of meeting in a social setting to get acquainted and maybe have a beer/drink and a dance or two or three, if it is a dance establishment, and then heading back to the ladies' place for a intimate closure.

 

This would be like a chance meeting, some clear chemistry, ending in a impromptu romp. Only, it would be all pre-planned.

 

And would the ladies charge a social fee for the upfront part as opposed to their regular fee and then their normal SP fee for the encounter?

 

I think this would be fun, a little on the edge and something that would almost feel like a real date, but fantasy only.

[Guest S****r]

...a group setting? or one on one? The problem with walking into a public social setting where the only women there are known to be escorts, without knowing which gentlemen will be there, is....what if she walks into the room and discovers a co-worker, boss, neighbour, etc in the room, who also sees her and now knows that she is an escort. It's very risky. I took a chance and attended the Ottawa social last month, and that was my biggest fear. Fortunately, it didn't come true, but....I'm not sure I ever dare do it again. Not sure how it could be done differently to avoid that. Maybe make it open to escorts and their friends? Then the escort could say that no, she is not an escort herself, she is only there with a friend who is an escort?

 

Anyway....perhaps you can elaborate a bit more on what you were thinking. Perhaps I am way off base.

 

Thanks,

[The General 11309]

I was definitely thinking one on one, just some public place, and you meet like friends, have a drink or two, a few dances, and then head off together. I know some ladies offer social time, which I presume must have some public element to it, so just providing a description of the type of situation it would actually be.

[Boomer 33202]

I think if you do a little bit of looking through some of the ladies web sites you will find a number that offer a dinner and dessert option. So if you find someone that interests you you could use those examples as a template to negotiate a date.

[Andee 220524]

Are you referring to ladies you have already met, or someone new? You may find that some ladies might be reluctant to meet for the first time in a public place and I urge you not to take offence to this. Also, be prepared to pay a social fee for this part of the encounter since that is officially when the time between you starts.

 

I think the biggest concern in this case is that both parties behave accordingly in public. Someone who is not going to drink too much, get too touchy feely, etc.. As someone who knows you as a friend, I can vouch that you are above board, a total gentleman and that you can provide references for same.

 

Have fun!

[Guest]

I agree with Angela. I know for myself I like to have at least one private meeting with a clients first. Once I know that the client is a gentleman I would be more than happy to meet him out somewhere for a drink ect. I'm sure that there would be many escorts willing to meet you first, this is just how I do things. For myself to be out in public with a client there has to be a certain level of trust. To know that I will be treated like a lady and that my privacy will be respected too. I have meet clients in their private residence had an intimate encounter and then went out after getting acquainted. I know it's kind of backwards but it was a lot of fun for what it's worth.

[Guest *ig*a**]

I think it would be a nice way to build chemestry but if your attached and not single it could be a nightmare if you are seen by someone you know.

[Carrie Moon 68826]

I have done this.. and it is fun. A nice change from the indoor meeting only.

In my case it's a social fee/hr for a few hrs and then dinner/dancing/karaoke/drinks..(heck bowling can be fun as well!) .. and then regular fee indoors.

[Cleo Catra 178382]

I have done this.. and it is fun. A nice change from the indoor meeting only.

In my case it's a social fee/hr for a few hrs and then dinner/dancing/karaoke/drinks..(heck bowling can be fun as well!) .. and then regular fee indoors.

 

I've also done this, and same as Carrie - lots of fun! ANd social fee for the outdoors time, regular indoors. I'm always flattered when a gentleman wants to take me out in public :)

[Guest happytimes]

I will admit to being a generous cheapskate. I respect the ladies and understand the rates that they charge. They make more in 1 hour than some people make in 1 day. I pay it gladly again and again because of the intense pleasure I get out of the experience. I have met some fantastic ladies that have shown me the time of my life. I would never insult them by negotiating their rates. It would be alot of fun to spend some social time with them. Meeting at a bar for drinks and dancing beforehand would be an exciting turnon. The lady could flirt and whispering in my ear about our upcoming encounter. This would definitely add to the adventure, however I would only consider doing this if the rate was reasonable. I wish more SP would offer this. Jazy sometimes has ads in the SP (full service) forum inviting hobbyists to see her dance at the Silver Dollar; a good time to get to know her before a "date". That sounds like fun.

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[sonoma 431]

I did this about a month a go i was out of town for busines and i was emailing back and forth with a local sp

 

I invited her to come meet me at my hotel bar for a couple glasses and she said yes

 

We had a 2-3 glasses of wine talk laugh flirt and had alot of fun then headed to my room for an amazing 2 hours of adult fun

 

Meeting her at the bar before heading up to the room made the difference a great rendez vous and an amazing one i would definatly do it again if i get the chance