Showering at an apointment

[Kracker0091 387]

Quick question about this. I have no problem with hygiene, I would always shower before a meeting. If the SP were to ask someone to shower before the get go, and I were with her for the hour. When would the hour start? Would it be when I walked in the door, or when the shower was finished.

 

Thanks guys.

[Guest]

I like to get in the shower with the client. I always love to show clients how much fun showers can be, wink, wink. If I am in the shower playing with soap and slipping and sliding it is on the clock. I think the shower is part of the fun, kind of like foreplay.

 

I do not know how other escorts do this I think that maybe this would be a question you would ask the individual escort. Just as there is a variety of escorts there is a variety of ways escorts run their business.

 

Nothing like some nice clean fun.

[Malika Fantasy 144625]

It really depend.

 

Obviously if I am having a multi-hours appointment, then I don't think no one will really realize the difference of 4-5 minutes...

 

When it's one hour booking, if my client take less than 5 minutes I do not count it during the hour time...but some take literally 10 minutes and want to shower after and take another 10 minutes, then I am sorry, but you are paying for my time...not the sexual act. If you decide to spend 20 minutes in the shower then I am sorry but c'est la vie

 

Thought I rarely encounter people like this...so normally it's not counted on their time...or I join them in it:)

[Areez 11906]

I love shower time with the sexy ladies :)

of course its within the appointed time :b very very well worth it! --splish splash--

[Dave - WebGuy 597]

Some will count it towards their time, others won't. Looking at the big picture, you'll have a lot more enjoyment if you're "freshly showered". The 5-8 minutes can mean all the difference in the world what she'd like to do with you.

 

When I get into a situation like that I usually bring my own bodywash and bathball so that I am not only to their liking, but don't have the same scent as the other clients they've seen by doing something different.

[Andee 220524]

If I have to ask a guy to take a shower, then the time starts when he walks in the door. If the guy asks me to take a shower, then the time starts when he's done unless he takes more than 10 minutes.

 

Just wanted to add, this has never been an issue, expect for the dude who spent 20 minutes in the shower and then I discovered later stole my electric toothbrush and spit in my mouthwash bottle.

[Cleo Catra 178382]

If the gentleman tells me he just showered, I trust him, and do not require him to take another shower (unless of course, there is visible signs that he wasn't telling the truth, but luckily I've never encountered this).

 

But, if he is not freshly showered when he arrives, I do request he take one. And this does count in the appointment time, but as Malika said, unless he's taking 20 minutes in there I've never had it be an issue.

 

Unless she's a mad clockwatcher, or the man is taking ages in the shower, I can't see a few minutes rinsing off causing the timing to be skewed.

[Boomer 33202]

I think it's pretty straight forward, and personally I enjoy the chance to get acquainted in the shower. You've booked an hour, and you have no way of knowing what else she has planned for the rest of her day, so although it's in their best interests to let you have a shower you shouldn't expect her to give you a whole lot of extra time to freshen up. I know for myself a date isn't full bore for an hour so give or take five to ten minutes shouldn't be a problem, split the difference, and if you're counting the minutes, you probably aren't in the right mood, or it was such a good date you should be giving her tip.

[Reddog2402 2221]

Personally, I find it puts both of us more at ease if I shower on arrival. On a repeat visit, I can definitely see the potential for this turning into a fun start to the session!

 

Basically, I see it as a simple courtesy on arrival, and a wise way to clean up afterwards before rejoining the real world.

[loopie 15358]

So far in my experiences with SPs, I have always been able to shower immediately before leaving to go meet her. So I've never showered at an SP's incall.

 

I have a question about exiting the shower: What is the best/standard way to do this?

Should I put my clothes back on? Or come out with the towel tied around my waist? Or come out full naked?

[Hector17 9215]

I book my encounters in the early afternoon (2 pm), and start those days with an am workout at the gym, where I shower, shave and put on a little cologne that I know the ladies like (they have said so)

I must say that is around 10 30 or so...

 

so what is the expiry time on a shower?

 

I dont work in a strenuous, physical job so getting dirty is not happening.

If I was asked to take a shower, I'd have no problem with that, and if being joined was offerred, I'd like that too, but in my experiences it is not something that comes up that much, as it seems to in others' experiences.

 

Of course, it is inside the appointment time, but also in my experience it has been that I have never been rushed out....so not an issue

in fact there have been many occasions where I have been reminded that I wont turn into a pumpkin if I'm not gone in 60 minutes, and to relax a bit, chat, have some wine, fruit etc... it's very nice!

A tip of the hat to the ladies on that.

[NotchJohnson 214123]

So far in my experiences with SPs, I have always been able to shower immediately before leaving to go meet her. So I've never showered at an SP's incall.

 

I have a question about exiting the shower: What is the best/standard way to do this?

Should I put my clothes back on? Or come out with the towel tied around my waist? Or come out full naked?

That was a question I always asked myself, towel/no towel, clothes back on/ naked. I have seen ladies that love to remove the towel themselves and find out what I'm hiding under it.

 

This is a thread by itself. See the thread called "Dress code".

[Frank7 3939]

With the girl i see, it's definivitely counted in the appointment. But it's part of her service, she's always there with me and we spend maybe 15-20 minutes there together.(before and after)

 

That shower is probably 50% of why i enjoy so much our time together. =D

[castle 38816]

I have a question about exiting the shower: What is the best/standard way to do this?

Should I put my clothes back on? Or come out with the towel tied around my waist? Or come out full naked?

 

Damn! When showering at an incall I've always walked out in my birthday suit! I mean....we were getting to that anyway right? I didn't realize there was an etiquette!! Have I been unknowingly committing a major SP/Client faux pas all these years?? :p

 

Quick question about this. I have no problem with hygiene, I would always shower before a meeting. If the SP were to ask someone to shower before the get go, and I were with her for the hour. When would the hour start? Would it be when I walked in the door, or when the shower was finished.

 

Thanks guys.

 

This is one reason why I prefer outcalls. When the lady shows up I'm usually fresh out of the shower....and its obvious. Hair still wet, still smelling good, etc. Its never happened but of course if the lady were to ask me to shower again I would without hesitation....especially if she's joining ;)

 

On the instances where I have showered at incalls I don't usually spend more than 5 mins in there. And I always assume it's part of the agreed upon time. Sometimes it is, sometimes its not...but its always best to be on the side of caution and assume it is. And never, ever dispute if she asks you to shower. Even if you just showered before leaving home, sometimes just the walk from the car to the incall is enough to get the boys sweaty all over again. If 5 mins out of your hour long encounter means she's more comfortable with you...then trust me it'll be worth it.

[DukeSSk 3430]

I've always assumed that showers are part of the allocated time.

[Butterfly Kisses 2301]

In total agreement with you. I love to be nice and clean, always shower before I head out, but if a lady wants me to shower to be sure I am clean and it makes her more comfortable, then I see that as a perfect request. Ultimatley the session will most likely head in the right direction.

[Athos 108589]

I always assume showering is part of the allotted time.

 

Generally at an appropriate moment I ask if I can have a quick shower. So the usual scenario ... some chit chat, maybe a drink, maybe some light kissing ... excuse myself to shower, head to bedroom. If the lady joins me in the shower great, but I don't necessarily expect it.

 

As for when a shower "expires" ... I don't think it matters if you have a desk job or you're doing manual labour. If you haven't showered since morning, then you really should shower. Certainly for an afternoon appointment, but even if it's a 10:00 appointment in my view. After all, making sure your hygiene is impeccable leads to the best service.

 

It's not like this is your 30 minute morning wake up shower. A quick splash, 3-5 minutes, is enough to make sure all the important bits are clean and fresh.

[Icebreaker 3938]

I usually schedule playtime for on my way home from work and normally book for at least an hour so taking a quick 5 minute shower is not a problem (if the lady does not join me I always assume the shower is on the clock anyway).

 

Although I work in an office and take a shower every morning, I do believe a shower does have an expiry time. I just feel better freshening up before play time and think it does make a difference in the encounter. However being a single guy I don't need to worry about showering again at the incall afterwards as I don't have to hide my tracks from a girlfriend or wife.

[Ashley Ann 75247]

Quick question about this. I have no problem with hygiene, I would always shower before a meeting. If the SP were to ask someone to shower before the get go, and I were with her for the hour. When would the hour start? Would it be when I walked in the door, or when the shower was finished.

 

Thanks guys.

 

 

For me personally, the time starts once you step out of the shower and are clean..I always insist to my guests that their time starts once they are finished, so they dont feel that have to do a rush job in the shower, as this would totally defeat the purpose, besides..IMO-if your time did start once you turned on the shower, how nerve racking would that be ????

 

However, if I am joining someone in the shower...their time has started as soon as I enter the shower ;)

 

Also, I have yet to have a man take advantage of my un-timed shower time :)

[cat 262460]

For me, it all depends on the client's attitude. If it appears he's freshly showered or coming from an office, I don't request he bathe. If he needs it, then in he goes. If it takes a man longer than 5 minutes to wash the important parts and swish with mouthwash then I do wonder what he's up to. If he was difficult to book or walks thru the door with an attitude, the shower is on his time whether he requests it or I suggest it. If he comes in with the right attitude then I'm not a clock watcher. This may seem subjective and I am the first to admit it is. I'm too old to put up with bullshit and someone wanting to dicker over 5 minutes brings out the grumpy old broad in me...

 

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[kechara 2526]

Before heading out for a date I am one of the ones who always takes a shower. It is part of the routine for me that is also the build-up of anticipation for the meeting.

 

That being said, I also would not say no if the lady asked me to take a shower. The only times I have is with Asian SPs and the ladies joined me in the shower and all I can say is it was enjoyable :)

 

I personally book 1 hour dates and am not looking at the clock. If the time from the shower is part of the 1 hour then it is. Each date is never the same (and I don't want it to be) and is an experience. I just look at the shower as part of the experience. Since I am nervous myself showing up, I want both parties to feel comfortable. I think it makes everything go better.

[burnsey 484]

I like to get in the shower with the client. I always love to show clients how much fun showers can be, wink, wink. If I am in the shower playing with soap and slipping and sliding it is on the clock. I think the shower is part of the fun, kind of like foreplay.

 

I do not know how other escorts do this I think that maybe this would be a question you would ask the individual escort. Just as there is a variety of escorts there is a variety of ways escorts run their business.

 

Nothing like some nice clean fun.

 

 

I couldn't agree more. The most fun i've had in sessions is when some duo shower or hot tub time is included. Nothing better than a little soapy fun. !!

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

My little quirk is that bathing is my personal intimate time. I share so much of myself otherwise that this time (of looking like a drowned rat lol) is something I cherish. Should you need to shower, or wish to be very fresh (as I always am) then I whole heatedly encourage you to avail yourself of the amenities. I am not a clock watcher per se but wouldn't want someone to take advantage either. I have one guest who could spend an hour in the shower because of the shower head (minds out of the gutter!).

[Luckyme 41401]

Although I always ( never fail) take a thorough shower before I leave my house, I never refuse a shower with a SP when asked. As for the time, I assume the clock starts when I enter her incall place because she is with me starting that moment.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I always take shower an hour before my date and a thorough shower too lasting about half hour. On a few occasions when the lady shows up early I was still wet. Hygiene is very important to me and I expect the lady has taken shower too before arrival. My preference is not for lady to arrive and take shower upon arrival (I am too excited lol. I want to converse quick and start the party) but if she does then time starts from when the lady arrives. That said I always give the last 15 minutes to the lady to take shower and dry up and dress up at the end before leaving and that too is included in the hour as well (so my dates are usually for 45 minutes).