n***ll 100 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 What are the best methods used to prevent cuming too soon that work for both the client and the SP Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apex2006 1071 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 What are the best methods used to prevent cuming too soon that work for both the client and the SP Why would an SP want to prevent cuming? It's not like they ccan't keep going after they have! Guys need a break some times to "stand up" again. Women can just keep going and going! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 my preffered method of delay of an orgasm is not to have sex.....which is quite often and it works well...... When with a wonderful woman.....it all depends...if I feel it comming I will try to pull out to change positions..... by squeezing the base of the penis I might switch to oral on her to relax a bit. or just stop movement and enjoy the warm feelings..... Then as a last ditch effort...I think of old ladies walking dogs and getting crushed by a falling piano......ya gotta see A fish Called Wanda to understand that..... it really boils down to self control........ mind you if you are tune with a woman...they can sense it and help...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 Why would an SP want to prevent cuming? It's not like they ccan't keep going after they have! Guys need a break some times to "stand up" again. Women can just keep going and going! not all the time is this true...you know how a guy can get sensitive well so can a woman...i know with me sometimes it feels to ticklish to continue right away...lol;-) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apex2006 1071 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 not all the time is this true...you know how a guy can get sensitive well so can a woman...i know with me sometimes it feels to ticklish to continue right away...lol;-) Yes but that is when DATY is brought to the equation! :razz: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214123 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 not all the time is this true...you know how a guy can get sensitive well so can a woman...i know with me sometimes it feels to ticklish to continue right away...lol;-) I know and that is when you squirt and get the whole bed wet, damn that was good.:mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apex2006 1071 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 I know and that is when you squirt and get the whole bed wet' date=' damn that was good.:mrgreen:[/quote'] Watching a woman squirt is one of the hottest sexyest things in sex! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
simon_templar 161 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 I don't know if this will help you Novell, but here are 2 suggestions that I have found beneficial in the past. 1. Try to concentrate on your breathing. Sometimes in the "heat of the moment", you don't realize that you are focusing on your pleasure and are holding your breath. 2. I like to think of my NORTEL shares.......oh wait a minute....strike that.....the thought of my shares makes me go LIMP....ha ha :oops: :oops: .............oh well,,,,,1 suggestion Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apex2006 1071 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 I don't know if this will help you Novell, but here are 2 suggestions that I have found beneficial in the past. 1. Try to concentrate on your breathing. Sometimes in the "heat of the moment", you don't realize that you are focusing on your pleasure and are holding your breath. 2. I like to think of my NORTEL shares.......oh wait a minute....strike that.....the thought of my shares makes me go LIMP....ha ha :oops: :oops: .............oh well,,,,,1 suggestion Like your Nortel shares? :grin: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 Actually the best way is for me to think of sex with my ex..........:grin: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Redseductress 9358 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 One thing you can try is to make sure you breath regularly nice and deep to help relax and reduce the lower back muscles from tightening up. In the past ive tried different creams and other things with past partners to help with this but all it really did was make my lips numb and still ended in the same quick ending. So after doing a little research I was told to have him breath deep and try to control the spasams in the lower back, the more muscular tension you generate the faster you will cum. With some practice and a little encouragment from me he was able to hold off 10 to 15 mins longer every time. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apex2006 1071 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 Actually the best way is for me to think of sex with my ex..........:grin: Yah I think about your EX too! I MEAN MY EX! Sorry antler I had too! :razz: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
buggernot 588 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 As mentioned, stopping and starting is great...pull out, recharge, do some teasing, maybe go down a bit. After doing this a lot you may find that you'll get to a point where you have worn little jimmy down and then you can go at it pornstar style for a few mins. Another thing that works sometimes is have her get on top and tell her to go easy with the hard core up and down motion, but more of a grind of her clit on your pelvis. You'll stay hard but not too aroused, and she'll be pleasing herself while you admire the view and get ready for more of the 'heavy lifting' later. Keep it more sensual with lots of kissing and caressing. And then on to round 2, where you may have to work at it ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 Masturbate that morning, will work like a charm! What are the best methods used to prevent cuming too soon that work for both the client and the SP Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wet_dreamz 104 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 Use a staple gun to keep your condom on and that should do it for you. Just kidding obviously, but I once had an occasion where an SP insisted I double up on condoms for some reason or other. It delayed my orgasm significantly...to the next day! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Loki318 1631 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 Kinda Different and not recomemded but >>>. after the prostrate operation I have found that I can really have multiple O's as long as it will stay up :) and with the proper med it will stay up for Hours ... Woo Hooo Note After the prostrate Op ...you still "O" but no more "cum" Loki318 ..... Feeling better than I have in years...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wet_dreamz 104 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 Glad you're okay. I had a recent scare and I thought I had prostate cancer, but after a more recent DRE and a PSA blood test (something I have done annually anyways), I have BPH which is something that has run on the male side of my family. No surgery, just a script for FloMax and all's well except less seminal fluid, but plenty of "O" factor. As I said, I'm glad you're okay...I wouldn't want to have that operation personally. Kinda Different and not recomemded but >>>.after the prostrate operation I have found that I can really have multiple O's as long as it will stay up :) and with the proper med it will stay up for Hours ... Woo Hooo Note After the prostrate Op ...you still "O" but no more "cum" Loki318 ..... Feeling better than I have in years...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted April 23, 2009 Not really true that all women can keep coming and coming. There are women (and some of them sps) that are toast after they have had a good O. I've had a lot of fun riding the edge of the O with some of them and they like to do the same with me. Once we know each other a little better it is easier to gauge how to do that. That is why I like a favorite sp...the getting to know you stuff helps to prolong and enhance. I like to prolong initially with a lot of fore play, oral and then slow and steady penetration and intercourse. the condom is a big help in de-sensitizing, but changing position fairly frequently helps too. Or even changing back to oral again once you feel like you might cum from intercourse. I kind of mentally try to please her first and hold back on my pleasure a little till she is satisfied....that's just me cause I'm a giver by nature...when I have the attitude that's it's not all about my pleasure it helps. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slurp 7020 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 Best way to take forever to cum is to get old :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted April 23, 2009 am I the only person whos getting slightly hot n bothered listening to some of the guy's play by plays? lol.....thanks boys, its getting me nice and ready for my evening of work ;-) I agree with emma on the note that not all girls can keep going! men who have been with me know that if they keep going once I start giggling they may find themselves in an involuntary head-lock between my legs!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted April 24, 2009 they may find themselves in an involuntary head-lock between my legs!! Now there is a place I love to be:-D ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ava Foxx 1747 Report post Posted April 24, 2009 not all the time is this true...you know how a guy can get sensitive well so can a woman...i know with me sometimes it feels to ticklish to continue right away...lol;-) You are sooooo right Emma!!! I become extremely sensitive after I orgasm from DATY. I sometimes have some gentlemen that are eager to please and they continue to work their magic "down there" even after I've orgasmed, but that area is just way too sensitive for a few minutes after my orgasm to have them continue. So, while I regain composure, I try to return the favour on them :D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted April 24, 2009 I have been known to bring fruits,honey,cool whip as I enjoy lots of foreplay to prolong the entire date, sensual touching,kissing, oral for her for a great duration, and of course the multiple positions. Positions can vary, but I can really loose it quickly in the missionary position while engaging into some really nice DFK, the kissing part real triggers me, but the more time playing exotic food play, licking etc..etc..really can heighten the big O for moi. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted April 24, 2009 Okay, let me get this straight..... You're there, humping this gorgeous girl...her tits are flopping around, her nice cleanly shaved pussy is hot and wet and tight, and your massive blood filled hardon is about to burst....and you've only had it in for about 3 seconds, right? You have to think about something other that what you're doing. Think about your taxes, your broken car, the laundry you have to do, all the yardwork....repeat the word STOP in your head as you think about this lousy stuff. STOP! STOP! STOP! STOP! STOP! It works! (but then again, I haven't had this problem for years, giving credibility to ageing as a way to slow it down) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
m**k 153 Report post Posted April 24, 2009 Kegel exercises for men...just google it and you will find a ton of very good sites that explain how to do this, including, go figure: kegelexercisesformen.com! I've tried this in the past and it works, along with thinking about something really nasty, like your aunt Betty's mustache...but the latter just takes the fun out of it. The ladies will know about this exercise as it is popular after child birth to regain their girlish figure...so to speak. It's the same thing for men and you basically have to squeeze your PC muscle (try to stop peeing mid stream...when you can, that's your PC muscle). Here is an excerpt from the kegelexercisesformen.com site Kegel Exercises for Men are used to strengthen the PC or pubococcygeus muscle, just as they are for women. The muscle is similar in both men and women, stretching from the pubic bone to the tail bone and forming a hammock-like floor that supports the organs of the pelvis and contributes to the function of the sphincter muscles. The exercise is recommended for treating prostate pain and swelling that result from benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) and prostatitis, or inflammation of the prostate gland. It is used as a first step for treating urinary incontinence. It may be beneficial for reducing pre-mature ejaculation, and other sexual benefits have been reported. Overall, the exercise is good for you. To begin, you must first be able to find your PC muscle. You can do this during urination. Once your flow begins, try to stop it completely. The muscle that you feel tightening is the PC muscle. If you don?t get it, you may try inserting a finger (use lubrication) into the anus and try to ?grip? your finger. If you are able to do that, you?ve found the right muscle. Once you have become accustomed to tightening the muscle, Kegel exercises for men can be done anytime, anywhere. They require no special equipment, although several aids are available, including ?Peristal? and the ?Prostate Massager?. In order to improve strength of the muscle, you use a ?squeeze, hold, release? pattern. You squeeze the muscle, hold for several seconds, and release. Gradually, you would like to be able to build up to a hold of 10 seconds, repeating the ?squeeze, hold, and release? ten times. When you perform the exercise correctly, you should be able to feel or see the testicles lift. This takes time for some men. But, if you practice the routine regularly, you should notice an improvement in 4-6 weeks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
