Guest *ig*a** Report post Posted October 26, 2012 I just received a pm from a young lady calling me rude because she must not have liked what I said. I thought this place was a place you could say.what you.feel or give light on point of view based on your observations as long as its not slanderes or degrading. Well I guess not. Freedom of speach here is only good if certain people agree with what you say. So a warning to all of you who think you can say what you think or how you feel. What has this place become? Posted via Mobile Device Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hector17 9215 Report post Posted October 26, 2012 I dont see a problem BD... I assume you extend the rights of having an opinion and free speech to others too, including her, so I'd just roll with it. If that's her opinion and she expresses it what is the big deal? 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *ig*a** Report post Posted October 26, 2012 I agree but it is upsetting none the less. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Boomer 33202 Report post Posted October 26, 2012 I agree with the thesis, but as long as it's not predatory then a PM is totally private. If you feel that the content goes over the top, is say a threat, you can take it to the mod for action. If he feels it contravenes the spirit of the board he may then refer it to the town council. If on the other hand it's an annoyance and isn't repeated I would just ignore it. I would also hope that it doesn't impact on your posting. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted October 26, 2012 If you feel the PM was hostile, report it to the Mod. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted October 26, 2012 I just received a pm from a young lady calling me rude because she must not have liked what I said. I thought this place was a place you could say.what you.feel or give light on point of view based on your observations as long as its not slanderes or degrading. Well I guess not. Freedom of speach here is only good if certain people agree with what you say. So a warning to all of you who think you can say what you think or how you feel. What has this place become? It happens. You really have three options: 1. Ignore it, use the delete button, and move on. 2. Use the "report abuse" button at the the top of the PM when you view it, and let Mod do whatever he feels is appropriate. 3. Escalate verbal warfare. I don't recommend the last of these, as options 1 and 2 are also available to her... :) 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted October 26, 2012 I was called a few choice names today by two ladies...and that was in person...but we were having sex :) roll with it BD 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *ig*a** Report post Posted October 27, 2012 I appreciate all your views I have moved on from it. Lets get back to having fun Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bewlayb 7480 Report post Posted October 28, 2012 I was called a few choice names today by two ladies...and that was in person...but we were having sex :) roll with it BD Bigdawg, looks like you have to find a way to get her into bed. Context is everthing, you know. :icon_wink: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted October 28, 2012 We like to keep the site positive. This should be reported to us if you feel this strong about it the PM. Airing it out on the site is not the best choice of action. Lets keep the site positive, fun and upbeat. Please and thanks. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
