I have been reading and reading and yes, reading.

[kippers30 486]

Hi again everyone. It is obvious from what I have been reading that respect appears to be the key. I am a very respectful person by far. I am a first time hobbyist who has yet not had the please of meeting a lady as of yet. So for me, to meet someone and to hit it off and see where it goes while in the moment of the encounter is crucial for me. I have read a ton of reviews from here that other hobbyists have had. I guess I am rather nervous over what my first encounter will be. I have been reading about the bate and switch thing so I am staying away from the other message board. Ladies, help me out here. What do I do or what do I say when the doors open?

 

Thanks in advance

 

Kip

[DukeSSk 3430]

Have you tried searching the New to this...things you should know section of the website?

 

Nothing wrong with letting her know that it'll be your first encounter, no doubt that many ladies will tailor their approach and the conversation taking into account that you might be nervous.

[Boomer 33202]

Best advice, just be yourself. Might be good to let them know that this is new to you, but I'm pretty sure they'll sus that out fairly quickly. They won't bite, unless of course you'd like them to.

[roamingguy 300292]

Worry about bait and switch...well two things. Look for a well recommended lady here on CERB. And from my experience only, so just my opinion here, stick to CERB, all my bad encounters were with non CERB ladies

Two, Cowboy's Diary reports on the bait and switches, give that a look

As for hitting it off...think of your first encounter, or any encounter with a lady you haven't met before as the ultimate blind date. Best you can do on your part is be a respectful gentleman, and let the encounter unfold naturally.

Some quick ramblings

RG

 

Ooppps...missed a part of your post. When the doors open, greet the lady with a smile and a friendly "Hello I'm Kippers, pleased to meet you" or greetings along those lines

[neebleton 2940]

"Hello! Nice to meet you" would be a pretty safe first thing to say :)

[fortunateone 156618]

"Hello! Nice to meet you" would be a pretty safe first thing to say :)

 

 

This is very true.

 

re: being new, pls let her know prior to your arrival and booking the appt. I can always give out some advice during this process that new clients might find helpful in making a selection, making sure they aren't making newbie calling mistakes (like blocking their ph#s) and that I also know to reassure their newness is OK by me. If I know, then I know why they are fidgeting or awkward on arrival, if I don't know they could seem sketchy.

[Genevieve Marceau 68000]

Ladies, help me out here. What do I do or what do I say when the doors open?

 

Welcome to CERB!

The etiquette is similar to the regular dating scene. As an introduction, maybe kisses on the cheek à la française J Unless she feels very frisky and that she decides to give you a sensual French kiss right away! One thing is sure my dear, escorts (especially the CERB ladies) are naturally talented to make you feel comfortable and at ease very rapidly. We are good at what we do because of our intuitive capacity to read clients, to connect with them and to create chemistry. Reviews and recommendations are your best friends!

[VedaSloan 119179]

Just say hi! Escorts are especially adept at making you feel comfortable, so don't worry! Try to relax and be yourself :)

[kippers30 486]

I would like to say thanks for the excellent replies. I have had a couple of experiences and I must say, the ladies that I saw made me feel comfortable and very well treated. I plan on continuing this hobby and meeting more new people and repeating the ladies I did see. :) Thanks again. Regards. K

[bcguy42 38594]

I would like to say thanks for the excellent replies. I have had a couple of experiences and I must say, the ladies that I saw made me feel comfortable and very well treated. I plan on continuing this hobby and meeting more new people and repeating the ladies I did see. :) Thanks again. Regards. K

 

And CERB does it again. Another satisfied customer.

 

Isn't CERB great! :)

 

Welcome aboard, Kippers30. Enjoy the ride.

[cat 262460]

When the door opens, say NOTHING AND WALK IN! Wait for the "Hello" to happen once the door is closed and then follow the providers lead. I like a guests coat and then give a hug and kiss when when meeting someone, others prefer a simple verbal greeting. Being discreet means not having voices in the hall...

cat

[Annessa 22743]

When the door opens, say NOTHING AND WALK IN! Wait for the "Hello" to happen once the door is closed and then follow the providers lead. I like a guests coat and then give a hug and kiss when when meeting someone, others prefer a simple verbal greeting. Being discreet means not having voices in the hall...

cat

 

hehe...yes a good point Cat! i think i mentioned once in another thread that on of the things that makes us uncomfy is if (instead of slipping into the room silently) saying in a loud, attention-attracting voice hi..."I'm kinda new to this but I`m so relieved you look like your pictures!" ;)

[Amelia Fox 9064]

Let her know your new at this when you make intal contact and as soon a she opens the door and you enter I am sure she will put you at ease momentairly.