julie88xxx 1537 Report post Posted November 16, 2012 (edited) ........................ Edited November 17, 2012 by julie88xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
explorer69 3513 Report post Posted November 16, 2012 I would hate to be your friend. You have just outed him on the internet as a "hobbiest" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phantom 5310 Report post Posted November 17, 2012 Is this supposed to be some sort of joke? Naming and describing a client on an escort review site is totally irresponsible. I've reported the post. It should be removed immediately. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest ***nsut***jr Report post Posted November 17, 2012 Maybe this will help... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cometman 35115 Report post Posted November 17, 2012 Assuming it's a real first name, the request for help is pretty broad. A quick search for first name "Sylvain" in Ottawa yields.......... 13994 results for Sylvain in Ottawa ON: That's assuming that Ottawa is the home of Sylvain. Perhaps somewhat indiscreet, but still fairly ambiguous. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lipualipua 4704 Report post Posted November 17, 2012 Maybe, just maybe that Sylvain does not mind being known as a hobbiest, like some of us. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phantom 5310 Report post Posted November 17, 2012 (edited) If someone came on here looking for escort whose real name is "........." and describes her, don't you think all the ladies here would be screaming mad??? Goes both ways. Would joe blow be able to find this guy? No. But anybody who knows a guy by that name and with that description.... Point is it should not be allowed. If I am wrong on this I fully do not understand the meaning of discretion which almost every ad I've seen here mentions. Additional Comments: Maybe, just maybe that ------ does not mind being known as a hobbiest, like some of us. That would be for him to post. Since she does not know his handle, hasn't seen him in months, do you think he gave her permission? I would suggest erring on the side of discretion if this is unknown Edited November 17, 2012 by Phantom removed name from quote Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest ***nsut***jr Report post Posted November 17, 2012 If someone came on here looking for escort whose real name is "........." and describes her, don't you think all the ladies here would be screaming mad??? Goes both ways. Would joe blow be able to find this guy? No. But anybody who knows a guy by that name and with that description.... Point is it should not be allowed. If I am wrong on this I fully do not understand the meaning of discretion which almost every ad I've seen here mentions. Seriously? This could be Ken (of Ken and Barbie fame), GI Joe or Hanibal from the A-Team. Darn none of those guys are french. Does Claude Van Damme count. But then again if any ladies post 'looking for John, balding, overweight, perfect penis and all around charmer, I may be pissed too. Chill out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phantom 5310 Report post Posted November 17, 2012 Thank you Julie for removing your post. Hopefully those who have repeated his name, blank it out as well. I do hope you find your friend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
julie88xxx 1537 Report post Posted November 17, 2012 Sorry if I offended anyone. I deleted my post the best way I knew how. I thought my discription was pretty vague. And there are probably several cigar smoking, scotch drinking french guys. With a first name like that, that may or not not be an alias, who knows. Or it could have all been a joke. If said frenchmen was real only he would know who he is. I dont appreciate the negativity though. And please dont PM me about this again. I thought CERB was a safe and friendly COMMUNITY. I didnt realize that could cause controversy and offend people. Additional Comments: Thank you Julie for removing your post. Hopefully those who have repeated his name, blank it out as well. I do hope you find your friend. I have nothing nice to say to you, so I will say nothing at all or nothing more. And I expect you to do the same. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phantom 5310 Report post Posted November 17, 2012 Wow. You break the rules. (No posting personal information.) I call you on it. Others agree with me even though nobody seems to be saying anything (And I figure this because I didn't send you any PMs you were complaining about.) You say you want a safe environment. So do I. I just want it to be safe for hobbyist as well. I've been on this board six years and I don't think I've ever reported a post before, so I didn't do it without considering it first. I will not apologize for what I did, although I am sorry it upset you such. If a moderator can elaborate on the rules and whether "no personal information" should be understood as "no personal information unless vague" (last name only, first name only etc...) as others seem to be reading it, than I will abide by their decision, but until otherwise, I will call others out who would do the same. Discretion is must in this industry. To those who don't care if their name is thrown around, they can give it out themselves. They should not be flippant about others privacy concerns. Obviously I'm making more enemies than friends with this stance, so I am hoping this is the last I post in this thread. (Obviously can't say for sure, cause if someone asks me a legitimate question I will respond.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lipualipua 4704 Report post Posted November 17, 2012 Phantom : do you know anything about Julie and the frenchman? Are you aware that they may have enjoyed each other's company to the extent of even taking certain liberties with each other? The last clause is pertinent because you make an issue of the fact that frenchman could not possibly have given Julie permission to "broadcast" his name for the whole world to see. Only Julie knows how she was with frenchman. I humbly submit that you follow your own edict to err on the side of caution for you simply do not know either of them. This being so, why wade into the matter at all? As we say back in my native land : cry your own cry. Cheers. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
