Can a guy suck a cock and still be heterosexual?

[Guest Miss Jane TG]

Something more of a thought than anything else. The topic at hand is

"Can a guy suck a cock and still be heterosexual"

But I can't see the shoe on the other foot so to speak, that is to say a thread titled "Can a woman perform daty on another woman and still be heterosexual"

In fact there is, in civilian society, much more negativity surrounding men being homosexual or bi-sexual than there is around women being lesbian or bi-sexual

Just thrown out there for discussion, that is all

RG

 

There is a series of questions that I intended to initiate along the same theme that you mentioned, but I thought one at a time.

[kmwq 5477]

I've been following this thread and have to admit that I am intrigued. I've had dreams where I'm sucking my own cock does that count? Anyway, I've decided to try it and see. Booked a threesome with a m-f SP and will see what happens, they are both bisexual and are open to whatever so I'll let passion decide. The thought of receiving a BBBJ from the two of them together is a turn-on. At this point, the thought of giving a BBBJ with the f SP is, I don't know what but it is not as comfortable as the thought of receiving. I think giving a HJ is in the cards but we'll see how far it goes.

[Guest Miss Jane TG]

I've been following this thread and have to admit that I am intrigued. I've had dreams where I'm sucking my own cock does that count? Anyway, I've decided to try it and see. Booked a threesome with a m-f SP and will see what happens, they are both bisexual and are open to whatever so I'll let passion decide. The thought of receiving a BBBJ from the two of them together is a turn-on. At this point, the thought of giving a BBBJ with the f SP is, I don't know what but it is not as comfortable as the thought of receiving. I think giving a HJ is in the cards but we'll see how far it goes.

 

Enjoy with passion!

[Jabba 18389]

If a guy was flexible enough to suck his own cock (yep, it's out there); what label could be applied in that situation?

 

Personally, I think congratulations would be in order! :bigclap:

No more lonely nights.

[Guest t****ster***ke]

i once had a boss who said, "when you climb one mountain, you're not a mountain climber. if you tame one lion, you're not a lion tamer, but you suck one cock ..." i'm sure most cerbites can figure out the rest ;)

 

i think one of the more curious aspects of this thread is how often you see terms like "must" and "have to or has to". all the terms discussed are created by man (and in an era of severe close-mindedness), so i fail to see how they can be so absolute. this isn't like labeling an element based on its electrons and neutrons, this is humanity, a far more vague collection of peoples and societies with all the thoughts and feelings that come with them.

 

quite often our culture has equated heterosexuality with manliness, and therefore, only heteros were real men. the ancient greeks did not feel this way, and they were a dominant force in the world, despite having a rather large number of what are now considered sissies (and of course much worse). our current culture in north america is still predominantly christian, so it only stands to reason that many people's ideas of sexuality would be closely tied to the that of the church. for this reason alone, it's difficult to buy in completely to our society's notions on sexuality and gender roles.

 

on a personal and anecdotal note, i have always felt like i've been conditioned to think if i even find a guy attractive it has to mean i am homosexual. did you notice the size of a guy's penis in a porno? gay! look at another guy's body in the shower? totally gay! mmf threesome? super gay. masturbating with another man even in the room? san fransico gay. basically, if you have a thought that isn't about how hot the latest centerfold in playboy is, you're probably a little gay, at least that's what my northern ontario upbringing tried to teach me.

 

now, it should go without saying that this is patently ridiculous, and that trying something does not mean that is who you are (and in reality, your sexuality should never be your identity, but that's a whole other thread entirely). many students drop out of med-school, does that make them closet doctors? curiosity is just that, and i for one hope the thought police never pay a visit to my head - they will lock me away for life!

[FootFetishTess 1261]

As easy as it may sound, this is a very tricky question to answer. I, for sure, have my own answer that I can easily defend on logical grounds but I am very curious to hear what the CERBites will say.

 

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Hi, Miss Jane,

 

My short answer is: Of course! :-D

 

Consider, for example, the gentlemen SPs who are "gay for pay" but don't date men in their personal lives. Alternatively, there are many straight guys (and queer women, for that matter) who love cock, and who seek out trans women or Tgirl SPs to meet those desires.

 

Seems pretty straight-forward to me. ;-)

 

 

- Tess.

[Guest Miss Jane TG]

Hi, Miss Jane,

 

My short answer is: Of course!

 

Consider, for example, the gentlemen SPs who are "gay for pay" but don't date men in their personal lives. Alternatively, there are many straight guys (and queer women, for that matter) who love cock, and who seek out trans women or Tgirl SPs to meet those desires.

 

Seems pretty straight-forward to me.

 

Miss Tess,

 

When I proposed this question it was meant to address the circumstance proposed as a personal choice and not as a play for pay. The second part is what this thread is meant to be about.

[PhantomKnight 7914]

So, what would that make the guy receiving the blow job?

[igab 5629]

I just find this whole thread strange. You are attracted to people, not to whether they have a dick or a vag. I mean really?

I am really super attracted to women as many here may testify but there have been times in my life when I've been attracted to a guy...

 

Once I got over the adolescent stupidity I realized that sex is a very complicated thing and not as cut and dried or black and white as we like to think. We are here a very short time...enjoy it and dump the labels!

[kmwq 5477]

So, what would that make the guy receiving the blow job?

 

I think it makes him lucky. I posted earlier that I was going to have a MMF encounter, finally did and it was what it was. I had the two of them running their tongues up and down my cock, then they took turns and there was some BLS etc. It felt the same as if it was two Female SPs. In some ways it was different but felt the same, wonderful! I did not get the chance to participate much other than DATY and DIGIT with the F while the two of them went to town on me. It all ended with the M with his cock in me while the F suck me like crazy and me cuming all over her breast, it was intense. In the end I left with a big smile. My regret is that we ran out of time and I didn't get to do anything except receive but there is always next time.

[explorer69 3513]

NO, No and NO!!!

Go to any locker room in this country and ask hetro guys and you will only get one answer.

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

PANSEXUAL! This is when you are attracted to the PERSON regardless of who they are. Gender, race, age, sex etc. doesn't play a role.

 

I would love to see more of a flow to this descriptor then people becomes free to just do what and who they please without labels, repercussions, guilt etc. I find there is too much pigeon holing of people and then if you deviate, it's a big deal. The problem here is it shouldn't matter to anyone except you.

If you want to do something, do it.

Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind!

 

Who you're attracted to or what activities you want to undertake should have no bearing on you as a person. I AM...the two most powerful words because what you put after them directs your course. I AM completely me!

[nobody123 518]

Drive a truck all my life and no one calls me a trucker. But suck one little cock...

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

Labels never work. We are attracted to those who attact us. Sex and chemistry are truly physical. Emotions are a whole different ballgame. Sometimes we do something we regret, other times we regret what we didn't do.

 

The moment people stop labelling sexual practices as our identity of who we are, we will be a much better society.

 

Meaghan

xoxo

[Old Dog 179138]

Tough one... do I get a bacon sandwich after???

 

In this community and in this day and age, moral judgment in regard to consensual sexual conduct is frankly silly.

 

You are a guy that doesn't want to suck cock? Okie dokie.

You are a guy that wants to suck cock? Cool.

You are a guy that wants to have his cock sucked by another guy? Good on ya.

 

Bottom line. It doesn't matter.

 

I think back to all those men and women in the truly homophobic era that had to live a lie. Men who married women and had kids who could NEVER be openly gay. Women who married men and had kids who could never be openly lesbian. It's fucking sad. In both cases they were men and women who had HETEROSEXUAL relationships but were in reality homosexual. How do you classify them? Do you need to classify them?

 

In the end, it's all about the stigma. "oh, she's a lesbian." "you know, he's a fag." "she'll never leave the party alone, she swings both ways." Who the hell cares?

 

A label is a way to categorize someone to whom you feel somehow superior. Whatever your sexual proclivity, it really has absolutely no bearing on your value to society.... unless you are into clown sex, then you are truly a frickin' weirdo.

 

Seriously, your sexual appetite does not define you - it just opens avenues that others may not choose to travel... and putting a label on that avenue certainly does not make anyone a better person.

 

Be safe, have fun and don't hurt anyone. That's my avenue.

[crankF 12893]

Tough one... do I get a bacon sandwich after???

 

In this community and in this day and age, moral judgment in regard to consensual sexual conduct is frankly silly.

 

You are a guy that doesn't want to suck cock? Okie dokie.

You are a guy that wants to suck cock? Cool.

You are a guy that wants to have his cock sucked by another guy? Good on ya.

 

Bottom line. It doesn't matter.

 

I think back to all those men and women in the truly homophobic era that had to live a lie. Men who married women and had kids who could NEVER be openly gay. Women who married men and had kids who could never be openly lesbian. It's fucking sad. In both cases they were men and women who had HETEROSEXUAL relationships but were in reality homosexual. How do you classify them? Do you need to classify them?

 

In the end, it's all about the stigma. "oh, she's a lesbian." "you know, he's a fag." "she'll never leave the party alone, she swings both ways." Who the hell cares?

 

A label is a way to categorize someone to whom you feel somehow superior. Whatever your sexual proclivity, it really has absolutely no bearing on your value to society.... unless you are into clown sex, then you are truly a frickin' weirdo.

 

Seriously, your sexual appetite does not define you - it just opens avenues that others may not choose to travel... and putting a label on that avenue certainly does not make anyone a better person.

 

Be safe, have fun and don't hurt anyone. That's my avenue.

PLEASE!!! The clown-phobic madness has got to end. I want to bring my red nose, giant shoes, and Ronald McDonald wig out of the shadows.

[Guest holly*****ff]

So, I've been on here for 1019 days and haven't mustered a post, and this will be my first (of 5, apparently)... :)

 

My answer to this philosophical question is to answer it with a question of my own: What if a guy can suck his own cock?

[Old Dog 179138]

PLEASE!!! The clown-phobic madness has got to end. I want to bring my red nose, giant shoes, and Ronald McDonald wig out of the shadows.

 

Okay Crank... put on the clown shoes. But don't expect me to give you a blowjob.... especially when you paint a clown face on your junk.

[7879893030 211]

Sexuality is no longer "black and white" as in you are either Gay or you are Straight.

 

The emergence(I think its been there for ages) of graying the lines between the two designations has become the norm.

 

There are many guys out there that fall between Hetero and Homosexual some land in teh middle and swing both ways equally, others land closer to one end in their preference.

 

Then there's Sexual people, these are the people that just like getting off, no matter who their partner is. lol

[Hastings56 1148]

I do dube thee...."Old Dog The Wise"!

Cheers Mate!

[7879893030 211]

So, I've been on here for 1019 days and haven't mustered a post, and this will be my first (of 5, apparently)... :)

 

My answer to this philosophical question is to answer it with a question of my own: What if a guy can suck his own cock?

 

If a guy could do it himself, the industry would cease to exist, and no males would be seen in public ever again....lol

[hoffa68 939]

I'm not sure if you have taken into account the sexual desire that we need something like say a blow job. Guys love BJs. There is even a contraption out there that simulates a BJ. That's how much we want it.

 

That being said, a BJ from a real mouth, any mouth, even another man's mouth would seem better than a piece of soft plastic that was no doubt assembled in china. Does doing this make a man gay, or just someone who enjoys a good BJ. Certainly it is easier to get a BJ from a gay or bi man than it is a woman (present company excluded)

 

To that end, while enjoying a BJ from another man, what if at that point, the man asks you to give him a BJ. Wouldn't it be rude to to recipicate. Wouldn't. And say you do the decent thing and take one for the team. Does that really make you gay.....really. Please tell me it doesn't.......not that this has happened to me at alll

[igab 5629]

If a guy could do it himself, the industry would cease to exist, and no males would be seen in public ever again....lol

 

I dunno. I mean I can jerk myself off but it feels a lot better when a cute chick with a soft little hand does it for me...just sayin.

[PcarSub 316]

i sincerely hope that i am not labeled "gay" if and when i get the opportunity!

 

i would accept bi, bi-curious but most of all... obedient...

 

;-)

m.

[Guest Miss Jane TG]

Interesting, your post title is quite different than your post. Your title is very direct but your post is very wishy washy.

 

Can a guy suck a cock and not be gay? I suppose it's possible. If you of your own free will suck a cock and enjoy it, you're gay.

 

And there's nothing wrong with that.

 

The question could be perceived in different ways and that's why you see all this plethora of responses! It is premised on the fact that there are labels in our society which connote meanings and if those labels were not existent then the question would be moot and illogical!