Can a guy suck a cock and still be heterosexual?

[Mutau 2516]

All humans are multifaceted individuals who display certain features/characteristics to specific audiences. Whether it is a vanilla façade or a kinky predilection, your mind is quick to steer you in the right direction.

I find that both men and women are predacious once you accept the fact that if you want something you must seek it out and make it yours.

Labels could be appropriate, but I abhor them. They are restrictive and connote boundaries.

Why be restrictive when your mind is not. Be open and free to sharing and experiencing life in whatever form and shape it comes at you.

[HalifaxMan58 2206]

I say if it feels right at the time just do it. Why must we put labels on everything we do?

[Guest Miss Jane TG]

I think if its not a man's cock he still a straight, if he turn on by a attractive female looks and find out there is a cock between the legs and want to try HE IS STILL A STRAIGHT MAN OR BI

what i know about females providers they also finger the man, some time they use strop on but he is with a female DOESNT MAKE him different than any other man, he is just more open minded and kinky

 

Good to see you here girl! You certainly knock the "straight" men heads!

 

Do you remember that night in the straight club? Lol

[blue_eyes56 2010]

I think if its not a man's cock he still a straight, if he turn on by a attractive female looks and find out there is a cock between the legs and want to try HE IS STILL A STRAIGHT MAN OR BI

what i know about females providers they also finger the man, some time they use strop on but he is with a female DOESNT MAKE him different than any other man, he is just more open minded and kinky

 

Guys think open minded and kinky woman are sexy, so why wouldn't that apply to men too? And no one could be with Lola and not find her totally hot!

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

I am loving this thread! It is so refreshing to see so many open minded lovely people! I have read every page, and just in AW of the views that are shared.

 

Sometimes being here in little Fredericton get's my wild and free loving side of me too tame. So it is nice to read like minded people post:) Inspires me to get out there and play more!

[Ice4fun 78407]

What do you call a guy who Sucks a cock..... i guess if that is what you like you should call him often.... or maybe by his first name.

 

If I was asked this question a year ago I think I would have given a simplistic answer and said he was homosexual or Bisexual... over the last year my insights into sexuality have become must better informed... i know. lol I am 54... it's about time.

 

The reality is the amazing people I have met in this hobby gave challenged me to grow as a person and to understand that a simple act that I may partake in does not determine who I am and that labels are not meant for people... we are way to complex for that.

 

People evolve and grow and do things for many reasons.... i should judge them by their character not by what sex organ they may put in their mouth.

 

I may one day have the chance to drive a race car around a track at high speed... it will be fun and exciting and bring me joy.... but I won't be a Race car driver in any real sense... i will however have much better idea of what it is like to be a race car driver.

 

Just my opinion

[JessyCeleste 14078]

Thanks JessyCeleste for the great comment. I very much fit what you describe, particularly the part about being with another man. So far, I have only been with tgirls; I greatly appreciate this and have no ambition of being with a man. However, I have come to realize that this is something I could do if the atmosphere is highly sexually charged and a women I'm greatly attracted to and trust is present and actively participate.

 

This is not something I would ever have imagined in my life, but as we evolve, I guess our tolerance to try new things increases. Never say never. Now, this is not a request, just and observation I'm sharing with the community. ;-)

 

First, sorry its taken me about 10 years to respond lol. I wanted to thank you for thanking me =P and for offering your perspective. And I know it wasn't a request, I would never assume =) Yes Tgirls are great. That's one thing I forgot to mention in my post that is even more common. Sub requesting to be "taught to suck cock" of a Tgirl as opposed to a "regular" man. I think this in one way makes it more comfortable and also because its such a unique thing, a Tgirl adds to the mystique and excitement! Novelties are always a fun thing to explore... my only downside with being with a Tgirl is they are often hotter than I am lol Hard to be all domineering when you don't feel like the hottest girl in the room LOL

Thanks for bringing this up!

 

Additional Comments:

Very well said! I agree completely! When I say, "labels don't matter" its more of an encouragement than it is stating a fact. Of course labels matter because there are loads of ignorant people who make it matter. Living around these people in society, makes it matter to us as it effects our jobs, our friendships, basic daily interactions and whether we like it or not, these labels and social taboos effect how we view ourselves... even if we don't agree with it. Being an SP is a perfect example of this. I personally see nothing wrong with it, but I was raised in, and continue to live in a world that says Im a disgusting piece of shit! So I can be rebellious and a critical thinker all I want, fact remains, from time to time, it effects me until I say, "fuck off" and remember what I believe. So you are absolutely right about this in my opinion. What I should have said was, "labels don't matter to me but the fact that it matters to the rest of the world can sometimes bother me. Im someone who doesn't put much store on the opinion of the masses, but that's a rare thing. To someone who is really caught up with social taboos, this question would be torturous... plaguing them!

 

I also have the same experience with gay people I know. The pride thing, so true. Could it be because they are also so proud of themselves for standing up to the world and saying "Screw your rules, I am who I am" and that's part of it??? I know for myself, Ive always been a proud rebel. So Im wondering if gay pride has in part to do with that. My being bisexual but emotionally straight, Ive never had to deal with society in the way that gay or trans people do... so I don't feel proud or unproud, I just like pussy from time to time *shrugs* Could this be because I never had to fight for this aspect of who I am? Anyway, Im just pondering outloud, obviously what you said triggered a lot of thought. =) I guess these questions belong in their own thread!Anyway thanks so much for your post!!!

 

Jessy

xoxo xxx

Of course, everybody's opinion is welcomed and sought. So thanks to everybody for their input so far.

 

One of the things that I know for sure is that "open" gay people are never reluctant to express their orientation. they are actually proud of who they are. If one traces back all the gay movements, one will realize that they were actually the ones standing for their own rights. So, gay people are never sensitive to these labels but rather proud of themselves.

 

As I have stated earlier, this thread was initiated out of my observation that a lot of straight men might be concerned of having some homosexual tendencies by engaging in certain acts. Whether we like it or not, some people have this concern! It is easy to sit behind computer disk and portray an ideal world.

 

My point of view was simply to say that men are naturally very visual creatures and their sexual perception is linked to their visual perception. If it looks feminine, they perceive it sexually as feminine, and if it looks masculine, they perceive it sexually as masculine.

[athompso 290]

As easy as it may sound, this is a very tricky question to answer. I, for sure, have my own answer that I can easily defend on logical grounds but I am very curious to hear what the CERBites will say.

 

Well, since I recently sucked Miss Jane's cock, partly to settle some confusion in my own mind, I'm very clear on *my* answer:

 

I may be technically bi-sexual, or more accurately pan-sexual, in the sense that I'm going to have fun in a sexual sense with just about anything and anyone, no matter what shape their genitals are.

 

I'm not strictly heterosexual or homosexual, since those imply a 100% perfectly strict adherence to only have sexual contact (or being sexually excited) by a single gender, and that's not the case.

 

On the other hand, I don't identify as LGBT in any other sense. I'm definitely not "gay". I only want romantic relationships with females. This could possibly extend to TGs who are extremely feminine (including emotionally) as those are female in my mind.

I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with a "man" (including FtM TGs, sorry guys) even though I have no objection to having fun with one sexually.

 

The problem is that western society conflates who/what you want a romantic relationship with, with who/what you want to fuck, and those aren't necessarily the same thing.

 

Consequently, I'd provide a completely different answer to a biologist than I would to a psychologist, if they both asked me if I was bisexual.

-Adam

[Hoppinhorny 1219]

My two cents:

 

Who cares? I personally define myself as 'Me'. My preferences/orientation is my business, no one else's.

 

We seem to have this need to label everyone and everything, and it just feeds into stereotypes. I have gay friends, I have straight friends, I have bi friends. As far as I'm concerned, they're just friends. What they do in the privacy of their own home, and with whomever they chose, is their business.

[hon123 100]

I've had 1 session with shemale and I did not enjoy it even though i paid 400 for GFE. Havn't had an encounter since there doesn't seem to be any good providers located in Ottawa and Jane does not see people under 30.

[Ice4fun 78407]

I consider myself heterosexual but have had a session with a Shemale that was very enjoyable. So label me in what ever way you want lol...

[athompso 290]

I've had 1 session with shemale and I did not enjoy it even though i paid 400 for GFE. Havn't had an encounter since there doesn't seem to be any good providers located in Ottawa and Jane does not see people under 30.

 

Going a bit off-topic... I saw Jane when I was in Ottawa earlier this year and was VERY pleased.

From what I've !earned, you will otherwise have to go to Toronto, Calgary, Vancouver or Montreal to get a good experience.

 

So I can claim I'm still on topic there's a reason Kinsey used a 7-point *scale* to measure sexual orientation: no researcher has ever credibly proposed a binary measurement system. There are actually dozens if not hundreds (depending on how reliable you think Wikipedia is) of ways to measure and categorize sexual response and behavior.

Most researchers (AFAIK) consider even Kinsey's 7-point scale uselessly simplistic, even naïve.

In my case, having sucked a cock moves me from a 1 on the Kinsey scale to about a 1.5. Simplistically, I'm therefore "78.6% straight" or "21.4% gay". Both of those are useless labels and also inaccurate and misleading. I consider myself straight, but I enjoy experimenting. Sometimes I eat salad - does that make me a vegetarian?

 

-Adam

[jdstar 1065]

I think I want to find out. Lately I've been having fantasies about being used by a couple. I'm curious about having the woman teach me how to suck cock so I can get it hard and ready for her and even help guide it inside her.

[rob_otteast 142]

People (guys) are probably more uptight than they need to be. Have you ever wondered why the "money shot" in hetero porn is for the guy to pull out and masturbate himself. Wouldn't it be more fun for him if the woman helped him finish? It's almost as if the audience (mainly male) wants to see the erection.

 

Odd also that large dicks are popular in porn that is mainly targeted at male audiences. Why would that be?

 

I think our culture gives us anxieties that are not very useful. As you get older, worrying about why things turn you on is less and less important. Old saying: if it feels good, do it. Who cares what others think?