zorobaby 4121 Report post Posted December 2, 2012 Im not 100% sure on which place to put this so i decided on this one rather then general lol. Ive been asked to be the best man/groomsmen for a good friends wedding, i have been informed that one of my jobs as bm is to plan the bachelor party. Im not really sure what happens at these things as i am fairly young (25) and this is the first of my friends to get married. So i ask for suggestions, i know i'd like a dancer/sp to come... either for him, or if he refuses, ill toftt lol. I wouldnt ask for prices and services to be posted, so if some of the women could message me and let me know what could be provided and a general estimate on price or something? The wedding isnt till Oct 2013 so i have alot of time to plan, id just like to see what people suggest and what women say. Thanks guys, Zoro Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **oo**e Report post Posted December 2, 2012 If you want his marriage to last getting him an SP/dancer is probably not a good idea. His (future) wife is bound to hear about it and may not be impressed. If she is onside with it then heck why not .. Im not 100% sure on which place to put this so i decided on this one rather then general lol. Ive been asked to be the best man/groomsmen for a good friends wedding, i have been informed that one of my jobs as bm is to plan the bachelor party. Im not really sure what happens at these things as i am fairly young (25) and this is the first of my friends to get married. So i ask for suggestions, i know i'd like a dancer/sp to come... either for him, or if he refuses, ill toftt lol. I wouldnt ask for prices and services to be posted, so if some of the women could message me and let me know what could be provided and a general estimate on price or something? The wedding isnt till Oct 2013 so i have alot of time to plan, id just like to see what people suggest and what women say. Thanks guys, Zoro Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zorobaby 4121 Report post Posted December 2, 2012 If you want his marriage to last getting him an SP/dancer is probably not a good idea. His (future) wife is bound to hear about it and may not be impressed. If she is onside with it then heck why not .. yeah i spoke to her about the dancer/sp idea and she didnt seem to mind since shes going to chip and dales for hers lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Boomer 33202 Report post Posted December 2, 2012 I guess it really depends who the party's intended for, you and the other guys or him. Sure there's going to be some drinking and shenanigans, and you'll probably want to embarrass him a bit. So just like when you hire an escort, you inquire as to her restrictions, so as as he probably knows there's going to be a party ask him directly what are his limits. After all you don't want to pressure him into something that he'll regret later. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted December 2, 2012 yeah i spoke to her about the dancer/sp idea and she didnt seem to mind since shes going to chip and dales for hers lol Um... exactly how did you phrase the question? She might give him a pass for the night where strippers are concerned, but the idea of her soon-to-be-husband fucking someone else may be an entirely different kettle of fish. Or maybe not... but if you don't know, I'd advise checking :) And check with him, too. As far as getting dancers is concerned - you may be better to get in touch with the local SCs and see what they can do for you; they may well have packages available. Quite apart from anything else, it saves worrying about whether your bachelor is going to like the one person you choose, as he'll have plenty of hot ladies to choose from. If you're in Ottawa, ask them what their policy is on very drunk people showing up - I know BareFax got screwed over a while back for serving alcohol to an intoxicated person (as if that doesn't happen everywhere, all the time) and they were pretty strict on letting drunk people in for a while, although so were quite a few other places in the Market. Finally: you may struggle to get SPs to come out to bachelor parties. Lots of drunk guys, plus a girl or two who some may consider to be "up for it" on the basis of her profession... well, you can see how things could get bad, no? AFAIK many SPs completely refuse to do bachelor parties for precisely this reason; safety is a huge concern. I'm sure you and your friends are great people - but do you personally know everyone who's going to be there and how they'll behave? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhantomKnight 7914 Report post Posted December 3, 2012 Check out pink kitty for this. Some girls will cater to large crowds of drunks. If you need advice on how to plan one. Google will provide lots of great ideas. As for what the bride thinks. Well. Who cares its a bachelor party. Lol. Just make sure the guys are douche bags about it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IsaMassage 54318 Report post Posted December 3, 2012 Check out pink kitty for this. Some girls will cater to large crowds of drunks. If you need advice on how to plan one. Google will provide lots of great ideas. As for what the bride thinks. Well. Who cares its a bachelor party. Lol. Just make sure the guys are douche bags about it. From the woman point of view I think they should care about what the bride to be thinks.... even if it is a bachelors party 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stand on guard 1186 Report post Posted December 3, 2012 I would be very careful what type of activity is planned. If its simply a trip down to the local ripper joint, a few dances in the champagne room or even the onstage stripdown by a roomful of strippers, then ok. I have also been in hotel rooms where the groom banged the main attraction in front of 15 other guys. All it takes if for one guy to tell his significant other for the word to spread and the shit to hit the fan. Better to make sure the bride AND groom know what going to happen and are generally ok with the plan, otherwise you will go down in history as the guy that wrecked their wedding plans. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carrie Moon 68826 Report post Posted December 3, 2012 perhaps instead of escorts for him personally.. a g/g show for everyone? that way only viewing instead of actual intercourse 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xxxAxxx 21016 Report post Posted December 3, 2012 From the woman point of view I think they should care about what the bride to be thinks.... even if it is a bachelors party If all SP's brought their conscience to work, many married men would not be able to be hobbyists. Just sayin' 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
silverado17 12689 Report post Posted December 3, 2012 maybe just go to the strip bar been there when they took the guy up on the stage that was getting married Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
usefulguy 100 Report post Posted December 3, 2012 I've been personnaly involved in a bachelor party that started really good in pubs downtown but quickly went downhill when some guys decided to go to the strip bar and and get him on stage where the girls stripped him down to nothing...bad idea..the groom did not see it coming, so has the party other than the 2 guys that paid the girls...let me tell you that this party was over and the bride was told by the husband and she was furious for months... it was definitely not what the groom wanted (and the bride)...be sure to know how far the groom wants to go or how comfortable the groom is with the situation. my 2 cents.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
