FirstTimeFirstTimer 456 Report post Posted December 5, 2012 How do you guys would say is this different, other than the obvious lenght of the session? I mean, does it feel more rushed? is the SP usually more direct? Would you have a hh if you didn't have the cash handy, or would you rather wait for the whole hr? Or does it depend on the SP? What are your opinions? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
throckmortonpruddygo 2025 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 Depends on what you want and your personality. I like to have a bit of a connection with an SP, so I go for an hour. Always. Also leaves you time for a cuddle, or another SOG. Most SP's don't allow MSOG on a 1/2 hr session. I am a one hour guy, even if I have seen the lady several times. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The General 11309 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 To me the main difference is that in a hh you don't have much time other than to get the act over with. Not much time to chat, you can't spend too long exploring the ladies body, and extremely hard to make a strong connection. I have had 2-3 hh sessions, but almost always an hour. I find that the perfect amount of time to have a great encounter and be able to both been fully satisfied and satisfy the lady too. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xmy556 6095 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 I always start with a hhr session with a provider I haven't seen before, as I like a chance to test the chemistry (..without dropping big coin. Of course, I'm a cheap Winnipegger). Depending on the lady, my subsequent visits may be the one hour session, hell, maybe longer. There are one or two girls that I see that get me so "worked up" that about a half hour is all the old ticker will endure.. with them, I'm trashed at the end of the first half, so to speak.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest ***rgi*****9 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 I prefer 2 to 3 hour sessions myself Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xmy556 6095 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 I prefer 2 to 3 hour sessions myself A two to three hour session for me would include: kissing, petting, generally making out.. 10 minutes or so.. go down on the girl... 15 minutes or so.. fuck and blow my load ... 1.5 minutes or so.. fall asleep ... 90 minutes or so.. wake up, take a piss, grab a shower.. 10 minutes or so.. have a sandwich and a beer.. 15 minutes or so.. watch some sports highlights and get a blowjob.. 10 minutes or so.. kill some time chatting with my girl.. 20 minutes or so.. I'm a fun date... 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livenudecats 4072 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 For me the difference between a 1/2 hour or 1 hour visit was 28 vs 58 minutes of post coital cuddling. ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futileresistenz 28253 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 I prefer 2hr+ sessions, but most of them have been 1 hr. I wouldn't say I'd never do a hh, but it doesn't really fit my personality. I need time for connection to happen and loads more to explore. ;) I like to dawdle here and there... 15 mins to me is just ludicrous! With a first timer, anything less than an hour is rushing for me and doesn't give you the time to get to know the person enough to make the rest satisfying, IMNSHO. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrgreen760 37785 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 I'm a non f/s player and find a HH to be adequate most times...45 min would be ideal. I arrive freshly showered, so a nice chat and then away we go, it is surprising what you can accomplished in a HH :) Peace MG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
emb3750 9398 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 I don't do HH calls with a lady. For me, simply not enough time to enjoy the moment. I always find it a better experience, when it is mutually enjoyable for both parties. A half hour does not permit this, plain and simple. E. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nippongakki 3843 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 I always prefer the full hour. Especially for your first time, it will allow time for her to help you settle any nerves you may have and get to know each other a little before you get down to business! I also happen to really enjoy a little cuddling and conversation after I've had my fun, it makes it more human than just dropping your load, pulling up your pants and running out the door! And it keeps door open for a possible round two! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rubintugger 3323 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 I never enjoy a half hour, the clock is always racing against you. But for first sessions, they are a great way to break the ice, set the ground rules and determine if a second, 1 hr + session is in the works. For known SP's that are recommended by pooners that I know enjoy a similar experience to me, then an hour or longer session is usually OK for a first visit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IamaGeek 3664 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 Well, we are all just a little different and are looking for slightly different experiences. Fortunately, there are just as many different sorts of providers. I pretty much only do 2 or 3 hour sessions. I have done 1 hour a couple of times but it felt rushed to me. But that's because both the providers I see and myself are those sorts of people. I know the theory behind trying a HH session first so that you can 'get to know' or 'establish a connection' with the provider first but I feel that such a short time is not sufficient for me to do either of those things in the way that I do them. Since I don't see a lot of different providers, I just do my homework first and then exchange a few messages to make sure that we are on the same page. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Horndog66 14104 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 I never enjoy a half hour, the clock is always racing against you. But for first sessions, they are a great way to break the ice, set the ground rules and determine if a second, 1 hr + session is in the works. For known SP's that are recommended by pooners that I know enjoy a similar experience to me, then an hour or longer session is usually OK for a first visit. That sums up my approach also. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Canadiansnowland 740 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 I've booked one hour sessions and find they go too quickly. 2 hours gives me time to relax, have fun, and enjoy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted December 6, 2012 I personally would never consider a one hour encounter...wayyyy too short for me. By the same token then, a half hour encounter I also wouldn't consider. For me I would see a lady for anywhere from two hours or more. There is much more to an encounter for me than just sex. The social aspect and interpersonal connection is as important. Also, personally it is more enjoyable having sex with a lady that you have spent some time getting to know, and she gets to know you, than a quick anonymous encounter A rambling speaking for myself only RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spidee 330 Report post Posted December 7, 2012 30 minutes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Bardot 99339 Report post Posted December 7, 2012 I prefer a one-hour session, which is why I don't advertise less. For massage, I find less than an hour is hard to accommodate, especially with a shared shower. I am happy to accommodate a shorter session for folks I have already met, but I find that often in the getting-to-know-one-another stage, an hour is just enough time to acquaint each other and get a full session in. ;) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
manitoba 2758 Report post Posted December 7, 2012 Personally I usually avoid the ladies who offer the half hours sessions. To me it indicates that they are more concerned with quantity than quality. I usually go for the 2 hour option as that is enough time for 2 or 3 shots, cuddling, chatting, foreplay and an opportunity to connect with the woman. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted December 7, 2012 Personally I usually avoid the ladies who offer the half hours sessions. To me it indicates that they are more concerned with quantity than quality. I usually go for the 2 hour option as that is enough time for 2 or 3 shots, cuddling, chatting, foreplay and an opportunity to connect with the woman. Oh , I don't like half hour encounters, could never see me booking just a half hour encounter But saying ladies providing thirty minute encounters are more concerned with quantity than quality, well I'm sure there are many ladies that provide quality thirty minute encounters It's just there isn't time in those encounters for everything that might take place in a two to three hour encounters, that is all In fact one lady I see provides thirty minute encounters, and also provides a quality multi hour encounter Those ladies just provide a service because there are gentlemen who like a shorter service, that is all, maybe a guy seeing a lady during the workweek at lunchtime This lifestyle has gentlemen seeking various escapes and ladies providing them. Lets not label some of those services as quality versus quantity, just a case of a different type of encounter, that's all RG 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
igab 5629 Report post Posted December 7, 2012 I've never done a half hour because it just seems way too short. I usually do an hour for a first encounter but almost always go for 2 hours for a repeat. I like to take my time and make sure we're both having fun. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luckyme 41401 Report post Posted December 7, 2012 I don't even remember when I had a 1/2 hr session. To me, it is way too short. I go for one hour minimum and sometimes 2 or 3 when I know the lady well and I truly enjoy our time together. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
star99 4852 Report post Posted December 7, 2012 when i 1st joined cerb, my 1st sp was for a hh, and even though it wasnt rushed, cause we connected. it still wasnt long enough. so i always do a 1 hour, no matter who i go see if its an MA or SP. it allows more time to get to know the lady, what her likes and dislikes (if any) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Toocutee 248 Report post Posted December 8, 2012 well said. Additional Comments: pretty much you just got to ask yourself if you want to feel good below or feel good all over because half hours are (from my expeience, dont forget im just as new as you probly) only for getting the deed done. the hours are more of pampering. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hermie40 603 Report post Posted December 8, 2012 I prefer longer meeting and usually do dinner dates lasting 3 to 4hrs. I gives you a chance to really find out alot about each other and get comfortable around each other and what could be more pleasant than having dinner with a beautiful lady and then a work out after...lol I have done this with locals as well as traveling ladies. It is relaxing and we can be flirting the whole time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites