Retrograde Ejaculation --

[jafo105 39057]

I thought I would share something very personal with you all. I suffer from "retrograde ejaculation". This is also called "dry ejaculation". I was diagnosed with this condition just a few years ago. That is when I started hobbying.

 

My condition is caused by a combination of factors. The first being high blood pressure medication, and secondly, subconscious anxiety and guilt about sex. I can masturbate very quickly with a normal ejaculation. But when I am with a woman I am like the energizer bunny -- I can go on for ever before I ejaculate inward. I have never been able to ejaculate with a women. (I have always used condoms)

 

The anxiety issues may likely be caused by being molested twice as a child. (Once by a man and once by a woman).

 

In my younger years this was devastating. The women thought I found them unattractive, not into them or the moment. This resulted in very short lived relationships. I went over ten years without sex or relationships until I was diagnosed with retrograde ejaculation. then I thought "WTF". And I started seeing escorts looking for companionship, hugs, cuddling and maybe some amorous time and possibly, however remote, a happy ending.

 

I have had a few very understanding SP's who would see me on their week off (menstruating), thinking this might ease some of the performance anxiety. These would just be make out sessions including fellatio. I really enjoyed these times together. But no happy endings were found.

 

I do get warm fuzzy's from the SP's from all that hugging, cuddling, and kissing.

 

Practice makes perfect.... On goes the research - er -um - practising.

 

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retrograde_ejaculation

[PhantomKnight 7914]

Very interesting. I know I've dry ejaculated in the past. But usually after lots of sex. Thanks for sharing!! It's good to learn new things :)

[Guest *l**e]

funny, I had this when I was on anti-depressants several years ago, but I didn't know it had a name till today.

 

Thanks for posting

[Luckyme 41401]

I have learned something new today - thank you for sharing.

[crankF 12893]

Some other causes of retrograde ejac. are:Flomax and other oral meds taken to reduce benign enlarged prostate which has a definite risk of r.e., and possible e.d.. TransUrethralResection(turp), and all other procedures to enlarge urethra and ease urination, according to my urologist, give 50/50 chance of impotence, and 100% guarantee never ejaculate again.

 

I briefly took Flomax causing imppotence. Doc took that away, substituted Hytrin for one of my hypertension drugs. It gave me back wood,helped me pee almost as well as flomax, and made my controlled blood pressure even better. I hope this is helpful to someone.