Ass Play

[The General 11309]

Some of you may have noticed, I have come to enjoy an experience that includes some assplay, Dato, or just some light touching and digits.

 

I have seen a few threads on this topic, and it really seems to come across as if it is offerred in a blue moon, and in many cases just taboo.

 

And in my experience, it just isn't that rare, I haven't keep a specific record, but would say at least half the time or more it is offerred. The ladies don't actually say so in ads, but are very receptive, and respond very positively. If they say no, that is fine, no is no, but that doesn't seem to be broadly the case.

 

So, I am wondering what you guys think, is this rare, do you find the ladies very receptive, or is this just not something that you are willing to participate in. I enjoy it, and the ladies are showing that they are into it too.

[NotchJohnson 214134]

I have tried it before and liked it but it is not something that I look forward to in a date unless the lady wants me to perform it, which I have been told I'm good at too.

So ladies if you want it from me please go ahead and ask"I want you to eat my f....n ass" and I will gladly do it.

[Guest B**na***oy]

DATO is certainly one of my favorite thing and is as natural to me as other sexual activities. I must say it is also well received and appreciated by the SP I frequent.

 

However, previous threads show that the community is fairly divided on this particular topic.

 

It will be interesting to see how this thread evolves.

[kmwq 5477]

I'm good with receiving but not performing. When I see a SP, its about me. I am a lazy bastard and don't want to do any work. I recently received this type of attention from a couple of SPs and all it took was a little positioning and they figure it out. The service was not on their advertised menu but it happened so it may be more available than you think.

[The General 11309]

I am more into having the lady enjoy the session, I know I always will if she did, so that is my mindset. The hotter for her, the hotter for me. Assplay is something I enjoy, and more so, when I see it is well received. Pretty quiet the responses, not sure if this is because guys stay away from this, or just don't want to discuss it.

 

I'm good with receiving but not performing. When I see a SP, its about me. I am a lazy bastard and don't want to do any work. I recently received this type of attention from a couple of SPs and all it took was a little positioning and they figure it out. The service was not on their advertised menu but it happened so it may be more available than you think.

[PhantomKnight 7914]

The more and more I have my ass played with the more excited I get. It's something relatively new I've been enjoying and well, hope it doesn't stop!!!

[Guest **n****er]

I'm good with receiving but not performing. When I see a SP, its about me. I am a lazy bastard and don't want to do any work. I recently received this type of attention from a couple of SPs and all it took was a little positioning and they figure it out. The service was not on their advertised menu but it happened so it may be more available than you think.

 

Same here...I'm lazy as hell. LOL.

[auto351204 669]

While I'm not opposed to it, it's not something I've ever requested from a SP.

[nbguy2006 104]

I experienced it once with an SP where she got me really hot and started to finger my ass while sucking on me. It was incredible and would love to try more but do not have the courage to say to an SP "hey would you finger my ass"

[fredsmith 5240]

I think it's something that most SP's wouldn't advertise. However, although I haven't asked every SP about it I would not say 50% would be willing to perform it. It may depend on if you are a regular as well.

[Guest f***nds4f**]

If you like ass play, you are not alone. But more than half of the SPs I met didn't like it. Kissing and light digit are my favorite. It is extra fun to do digit when in cowgirl position.

[mike7550 133]

Hmmm. Interesting. Original post more than a month ago, and not a single reply from an SP. Quite obviously a topic best discussed privately with your chosen provider, and as always YMMV.

 

Personally, I love it...giving and receiving, but certainly not exclusively. Part of the total package.

[mister_crufty 4891]

I'm a huge fan of DAT--...I love using my mouth on pretty much every part of a lady's body. Delicious. I find the posts from some of the guys describing themselves as lazy quite interesting...I find myself to be the opposite. I'm not super comfortable laying back and taking it...even massages are not for me...I get too antsy.

 

I find I want to treat these sessions like a sport...I love being sweaty and out of breath with shaking legs at the end. I had a beautiful session with Cleo-Catra that left my legs so wobbly I could barely work the clutch in my car afterwards. In retrospect, going to the gym right after that was a terrible idea. ;-)

 

Granted not every session works out that way but I certainly don't mind going the extra mile if I think the lady appreciates it.

[Katrine Cannon 9516]

Well general you know me already :-) And you know I like it hehe

 

 

Some of you may have noticed, I have come to enjoy an experience that includes some assplay, Dato, or just some light touching and digits.

 

I have seen a few threads on this topic, and it really seems to come across as if it is offerred in a blue moon, and in many cases just taboo.

 

And in my experience, it just isn't that rare, I haven't keep a specific record, but would say at least half the time or more it is offerred. The ladies don't actually say so in ads, but are very receptive, and respond very positively. If they say no, that is fine, no is no, but that doesn't seem to be broadly the case.

 

So, I am wondering what you guys think, is this rare, do you find the ladies very receptive, or is this just not something that you are willing to participate in. I enjoy it, and the ladies are showing that they are into it too.

[spud271 47779]

I would say that most of the women I have met over the years enjoy DATO. I agree that most do not put it on the menu, but much like yourself, I really enjoy it so I always ask if it's something they like or not.

 

As for light touching and digits, light touching is rarely a problem and what I normally find is this leads to at least a digit. Comfort level seems to be key in all this. I find most women who I see more than once are generally ok with it once they get to know me.

 

 

Some of you may have noticed, I have come to enjoy an experience that includes some assplay, Dato, or just some light touching and digits.

 

I have seen a few threads on this topic, and it really seems to come across as if it is offerred in a blue moon, and in many cases just taboo.

 

And in my experience, it just isn't that rare, I haven't keep a specific record, but would say at least half the time or more it is offerred. The ladies don't actually say so in ads, but are very receptive, and respond very positively. If they say no, that is fine, no is no, but that doesn't seem to be broadly the case.

 

So, I am wondering what you guys think, is this rare, do you find the ladies very receptive, or is this just not something that you are willing to participate in. I enjoy it, and the ladies are showing that they are into it too.

[Jade-S (Retired) 19717]

Well...I cant speak for other providers. All I would say is ask. :) Either its offered or not.

 

Though if your too shy to ask there are non-verbal clues to give as to what you would like. ;) She will either gently tell you its not part of her menu. or...she will go for it ;) lol

[cat 262460]

For me, it depends on my partners approach. Rough, aggressive hands and behavior will immediate be stopped and my bottom will become off limits. Playful, sensual teasing attention will extend mileage and is thoroughly enjoyed!

 

Even if I am asked up front about services by a new client, I am always hesitant to say yes because if they arrive with the wrong attitude it isn't going to happen. That goes for all services negotiated in advance when meeting an SP for the first time, not just ass play. Bite my clit and you'll never see my cookie up close and personal again, twist my nipples till they hurt without prior approval and you will get smacked, pull my hair, leave your hand imprint on my body anywhere without approval or fuck me so hard that I can't walk straight for a week and you'll be asked to leave and will never be invited back. But if you are someone I know and have developed a trust with, all these activities can be great fun. I have guests that I have no fear with because they have proven themselves to be trustworthy. The key is trust. Once you have it you may be pleasantly surprised at how much fun you can have with some of us...

 

cat

[mister_crufty 4891]

This! I want a session to be fun for both of us. So I'm constantly trying to read body language, get feedback on whether what I'm doing is working, etc. I want to know what a girl likes, what positions she prefers, how she likes my tongue to move. Eating pussy is an art...some girls like more gentle lapping, side to side, up and down. Some girls like me to suck on the clit, some like a firm tongue, some like gentle flicking, some want the clit to be the center of attention, some want the tongue to wander all over the world.

 

A woman is like a musical instrument, each one similar but different. You can make beautiful sounds if you have the right technique but you have to learn how to play each one.

 

I think that some girls maybe will act like everything you do is great which can make it more difficult...I definitely prefer a natural reaction. I want to feel the little signs...a slight tensing up, a little raising of the hips, a small intake of breath, nipples and clit hardening. This is how I learn what works for you. And maybe my tongue starts to wander a bit...towards the outside, the thigh...perhaps down... Does she open wider? Does she raise her legs a bit to give me access? I read and respond...teasing, touching. Gentle, firm. Never doing one thing for too long until you find the one thing...that one motion that is taking her past the point of control. Then you repeat, a little faster, a little firmer, using my hands to touch breast, thighs, butt. Pulling her to me, letting her feel my desire, letting her know I want her release, want to taste her cum in my mouth. Looking for the shudder, the shaking legs.

 

Orgasms can be faked but I'm not sure that an observant and sensitive man can be fooled that easily. I love when a woman comes on my cock...that tightening that you feel. A good orgasm can feel like it's going to rip off my dick. Intense. Sure, you could do your kegels and try to fake that but why? I think men who don't care will never notice anything beyond the superficial display.

 

So yes ladies, I'm probably going to try to work my way down but if I'm doing my job right, it should just feel like a natural part of the fun. I will treat your bottom like the beautiful delicate little flower that it is. Real life is not porn...you have to work up to these things.

 

For me, it depends on my partners approach. Rough, aggressive hands and behavior will immediate be stopped and my bottom will become off limits. Playful, sensual teasing attention will extend mileage and is thoroughly enjoyed!

 

Even if I am asked up front about services by a new client, I am always hesitant to say yes because if they arrive with the wrong attitude it isn't going to happen. That goes for all services negotiated in advance when meeting an SP for the first time, not just ass play. Bite my clit and you'll never see my cookie up close and personal again, twist my nipples till they hurt without prior approval and you will get smacked, pull my hair, leave your hand imprint on my body anywhere without approval or fuck me so hard that I can't walk straight for a week and you'll be asked to leave and will never be invited back. But if you are someone I know and have developed a trust with, all these activities can be great fun. I have guests that I have no fear with because they have proven themselves to be trustworthy. The key is trust. Once you have it you may be pleasantly surprised at how much fun you can have with some of us...

 

cat

[The General 11309]

Wow, this thread has come alive again, and the responses are very appreciated. I think I get a general sense, and that you can get both verbal and non-verbal signs from the ladies of their limits... which I agree.

 

Thanks for all the comments, certainly I have been enjoying my experiences...well most of them anyway. The right chemistry is important, and I think the other key, as mentioned is to tread lightly and see where it may take you. If you start out in the fast lane, you are likely to end up crashing, so to speak.... I think this is especially true when venturing into some of the more unknowns....

[VedaSloan 119179]

I enjoy receiving, but I'm less inclined to give (most clients seem weirded out when I break out the latex dam to do so).

 

I'm quite happy to finger your ass though, so just ask :)

[mister_crufty 4891]

Yes, yes you do. And you have simply the best ass...seriously. The things I would do to that, you have no idea!! ;-) Ha...you probably do have an idea don't you? Naughty girl!

 

Well general you know me already :-) And you know I like it hehe

[Macdog45 110]

I like both giving and receiving. Love to play and tease a nice clean ass.

[mikerev 226]

yes i like to give a little ass play. most of the sp's i've seen seem to like it also. One sp in particular i have seen several times has been doing a little dato on me and it is great! highly recommend if you havent tried

[The Stimulator 250]

I think this is a very erotic activity and for the guys that shy away from both angles, don't realize what they're missing.

[Guest M***yB**]

Numerous articles and research have shown that the "O" has as many (and in some cases even more) erotically responsive (pleasure) nerve endings than the other sexual organ. I don't think this is by accident but I won't go into why either because I'm no expert. But, the fact is that this is a HIGHLY erogenous zone.

The biggest issue and why so many find it a taboo subject has to do with health/hygiene concerns. In my case, while I have not asked yet (because I'm just beginning this highly addictive hobby), I make my overall hygiene top priority. It can even mean many hours or days preparing. I can't think of anything that would turn off either the SP or the client more than not having dealt with that issue thoroughly.

It's very easy to find out via Internet and other sources how to prepare for a healthy, sensuous adventure to ass land. IMHO it should include shaving, cleansing and also a water enema or two. If these practices are followed to the letter then you have suddenly opened up (pun intended?) :) a whole new realm of erotic possibilities. ;)

I've only seen one hostess recently and I was complimented a lot on my hygiene and it earned me rewards. Just starting out, so I'm not ready to go there yet, but, if you smell like a rose then it becomes a lot easier for hands to wander further than you might have expected. Personally speaking, playing at the "O" is highly erotic and greatly "enhances" orgasms and overall experience. I do look forward to going down this road as I get to know providers/hostesses better. (End of rant). :)