Cleo Catra 178382 Report post Posted December 12, 2012 http://www.vice.com/read/my-mum-and-i-make-porn-together?utm_source=vicefbus WOW. I mean, I'm comfortable talking to my mother about sex, but watching her suck a dick would..EW. Fuck. I can't even finish that sentence. This crosses my boundaries. I understand it won't cross everyones...but still...weird, no? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The General 11309 Report post Posted December 12, 2012 Yes, the concept of mother/daughter can be stimulated, but only if it is just a fantasy. A real mother/daughter encounter, nope that would just be too weird. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MightyPen 67414 Report post Posted December 12, 2012 (edited) Yeah. I guess mom/daughter stuff has some fantasy value on the odd day (transgressing taboos! yay!). But on a practical level... I suppose it's a little easier to grasp if they're both just approaching it as a job, the sex part is a simple chore, and they're also looking out for each other. And they have a super-open, very comfortable relationship. Contrast that with a mom and daughter both dating the same guy and they were all in bed at the same time. That would be... more complicated. EDIT: Yeah, reading the article I see "the money was good" twice in the first paragraph of the interview. On the other hand, the daughter mentions that she and her mom once shared a guy in real life. Maybe that's true or maybe she's posturing for the interview and their... uh.. fans. I can't say she sounds deeply reflective about all this, but neither does she sound messed up. On the other hand, that last story about one film they did: "No, we weren't fucked, we were just killed. It was weird, you know?" ... leaps out to me as a case of the women not fully understanding the situations they're getting involved in. Same with the "yeah, they were supposed to take [a rule-breaking] scene out" -- but they didn't. That's a power problem, and a suggests a degree of exploitation. These last parts make me sad for the mom and daughter. Edited December 12, 2012 by MightyPen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted December 12, 2012 Yup, I hear ya. Couldn't imagine sharing sloppy seconds with my old boy. Now, if there were twins, that's another matter (still not sharing with my old man)! Mmmmm, twins. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frank7 3939 Report post Posted December 12, 2012 Yep it's kinda weird, but it's between two conscenting people so it's good. And there's a lot of way weirder fetishes. =P It might be more commun if it wasn't for the age thing. Most people aren't really into people 20-30 years older then them. Cause familly is such an abstract thing anyway. Some people hate their familly, some love them. Some treat their close friend like familly, some act with familly as if they were close friends. There's no one way to act about it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldblueeyez 15475 Report post Posted December 12, 2012 For years I had dismissed the Mayan Apocalypse as mindless fear mongering. But now, yes, I fear the end is nigh. Excuse me, I have a survival bunker/wine cellar to dig. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted December 12, 2012 What weirds me out more is the brief mention of "being killed" in one scene. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest F***tyF**rari Report post Posted December 12, 2012 There is always a market for snuff...I never understood that market though. I mean I love some good BDSM or intense porn, but the "killing" part is disturbing for sure. I have a VERY comfortable relationship with my mother as well, and she has said if she was ever single again might consider working as an SP (she does know that I do it) but I don't think we could ever see a client together. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MightyPen 67414 Report post Posted December 12, 2012 What weirds me out more is the brief mention of "being killed" in one scene. Yup. As I mentioned that's what stood out to me; and the girl's strange incomprehension and indifference. "Yeah, that was weird." Hmm. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piano8950 32577 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 The snuff part didn't creep me out, only because I found out a few years ago that people get of from watching horror movies with graphic death scenes. Scared the crap out of me for days that people like that were out there. But like it says in the article, if someone's imagining it, it's probably being made. As for the mother/daughter thing, I'm very close with my parents, but in a more eastern sense. We don't talk about sex, hell I've never gotten the sex talk from my parents. One of my best friend told her dad she got guys to buy her drinks at the bar because she was on full cleavage mode. Nearly spat out my drink when I heard her say that to her dad, but apparently it's normal for them. With all the different family dynamics, nothing seems to really phase me anymore. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 Ok, just so we're clear here, snuff doesn't refer to any kind of death on film, it specifically refers to someone murdering someone else and filming it with the express purpose to circulate it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
neebleton 2940 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 Not to derail this thread, but Snopes has a pretty good writeup of the snuff film phenomenon. It's an interesting read, if you are willing to tolerate accounts of both real-life and pretend violence. Here's the link: http://www.snopes.com/horrors/madmen/snuff.asp Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 I would elaborate but my big mouth might get me in trouble.lol. I'll keep this short... I don't agree with it and while i'm no prude, with a mother/daughter relationship, there is a certain dynamic ( same thing with 2 sisters) and is not something to be exploited. As someone else mentioned, that if someone is imagining it, there is a profit to be made. Good thing this is a taboo type of scenario. Family and sex do not go together but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I'll live in my own little world where this type of porn is concerned. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JoyfulC 132299 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 I'd never judge anyone on their sexual fantasies, but in action, with all the people on this planet, I can't for the life of me understand why people don't trawl further from home when it comes to sex, to protect precious relationships. Not only don't I get incest, I can't see why anyone would get involved with their partner's best friend or their best friend's ex or their sibling's best friend. Too hot to handle!! I think that's why it's taboo, because of the risk for catastrophe associated with it. But I don't get how that makes it hot. All my life, people have come to me for sex that's hot particularly because of its low risk for catastrophe. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crankF 12893 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 http://www.vice.com/read/my-mum-and-i-make-porn-together?utm_source=vicefbus WOW. I mean, I'm comfortable talking to my mother about sex, but watching her suck a dick would..EW. Fuck. I can't even finish that sentence. This crosses my boundaries. I understand it won't cross everyones...but still...weird, no? Perhaps the mom and daughter duo will film a threesome with the 19 year old brother, that is if they can drag him away from his video games long enough. Then for some real boundary breaking movie making, he could snuff them and perform some necrophilia. Just to be clear, I am being tounge in cheek! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *l**e Report post Posted December 13, 2012 I once got lap dances from a mom and daughter separately on the same day in the same club. That was weird. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Athos 108589 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 I've previously said in another thread that we shouldn't be judgemental about people's sexual preferences. there are, of course, exceptions. Incest, child pornography and sex with children, and sexual violence that isn't consensual. Those one's I feel fine being judgemental about. I find the mom-daughter thing more than a little icky! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frank7 3939 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 Incest, child pornography and sex with children, and sexual violence that isn't consensual. Those one's I feel fine being judgemental about. So consensual incest is worst then consensual violence? That's what i don't get. For me, the desire to hurt or humiliate your partner is a lot weirder and unhealty then incest between two consensual people. Some cousins or brother/sister are happily married together, and there's really no problem about it unless they have a child. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cleo Catra 178382 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 So consensual incest is worst then consensual violence? That's what i don't get. For me, the desire to hurt or humiliate your partner is a lot weirder and unhealty then incest between two consensual people. You're saying if my brother and I decided to fuck, that would be less weird than me enjoying a good slap to the face during sex? I do not see the logic in that, at all. Force can be sexy, between two people who trust each other. Incest is NEVER okay, 'consensual' or not. Two people who want to fuck their siblings is wrong. Wanting to get tied up or hit every once in a while is NOT wrong, if the person enjoys it. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S**a*Q Report post Posted December 13, 2012 So consensual incest is worst then consensual violence? That's what i don't get. For me, the desire to hurt or humiliate your partner is a lot weirder and unhealty then incest between two consensual people. Some cousins or brother/sister are happily married together, and there's really no problem about it unless they have a child. EW! I'm sorry but consensual incest is just wrong, child or not. However, in the BDSM community there are plenty of healthy relationships that work. Being a sadist is fine when you find a masochist to accept what you want to dish out and vice-versa. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jafo105 39057 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 This is one creepy thread... Just saying.... No offence to anyone. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 Regarding incest, it's all about historical context; taboo by today's standards, but in ancient Egypt--the best form of marriage was brother-sister. Honestly when it comes to adults, if consent is given, I don't give two shits what you want to do. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MightyPen 67414 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 I thought about this carefully after reading this thread, and I'm going to have to go with: consenting adults get to do what they want. I can imagine all kinds of risks and pitfalls that come with incest; as already touched upon, it risks ruining a unique and irreplaceable relationship in your life. Less uniquely to incest, there can be power imbalances or worrisome motives. I could make a list. But when it comes down to it... if they're BOTH adults and they BOTH consent, I'm gonna have to say "as you wish". Just... don't make a kid. There are solid genetic reasons not to. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Athos 108589 Report post Posted December 13, 2012 In the spirit of being non-judgemental I'll try to get over my own "ick" reaction. Not much in the way of sexual practices cause that reaction in me. Lots of things that don't turn me on, or that i'm not interested in, but they don't make me recoil. Incest, even consensual adult incest, is one of those. Yes, I'm a victim of my own socialization to taboo. But, having said that, I think it is probably true that so long as people are consenting adults then it's not for me to judge. Incest with children, however, is still totally wrong ... but that falls in my category of sex with children. Porthos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baileydog 9367 Report post Posted December 14, 2012 Regarding incest, it's all about historical context; taboo by today's standards, but in ancient Egypt--the best form of marriage was brother-sister. Honestly when it comes to adults, if consent is given, I don't give two shits what you want to do. yes ... when we think of incest, we usually think of mother-son, father-daughter, or sibling-sibling when the child is or children are underage if both are adults ... it is only our religious "brainwashing" that causes us to be disgusted many societies, not just the ancient Egyptians, viewed incest as completely normal Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
