new members with questions about contacting SPs and outcalls

[witherintothetruth 100]

Hey guys,

 

- How do you contact a SP? Just call her with your name unblocked? Is this safe?

 

- If i ask her to come to my home for a service, would this be legal or not?

 

Thanks in advance!

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Outcallls are legal so an SP visiting your home is not a problem.

 

If you are asking an SP to come to your home, they may want to verify your name with your home address. Find someone who interests you and then ask her what the protocol is for outcalls to residences.

 

Good luck!

[aimtoplease1 1839]

One problem I have is that I don't have a cell phone & texting seems to be the thing now. PM doesn't work well for me because I usually only know if I can see someone 2-3 hrs. before. I do use PM but there is to much of a delay sometimes. Thank you to the SP's that answer their phones.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I am outcall only to my home and as it was said it is legal.

 

As for safety, it depends. If you are limiting yourself to cerb providers it is relatively safe though if you extend your providers to those indies (if they are really indies) on BP for variety (as I do) then it may not be safe for total strangers visiting your private home especially if someone is waiting outside for her or in the lobby so screen them out carefully before deciding.

 

For agencies, those established agencies advertising on BP like PKE, EH, MB, ALLD ..... are safe to call too. For those agencies advertising on the notorious site (OatN) be extra careful and screen them also carefully.

 

As for how to contact, On cerb, I usually contact them via PM and my only concern is to find out if we are compatible for a date. On BP if email available I contact them via email with lots of questions and then call them with more questions and add conditions there for the date to go ahead to ensure safety and legality. Whenever you call them, do not block your call. This sends red flag to providers. Remember they take much higher risks than you when they come over to your place.

[roamingguy 300292]

As has been said, outcalls are legal, no issue there so going to your place is legal

You may have to provide verification information (real name, board handle confirmed by pm, reference, email address and phone number, possibly where you work and work number too)

As for communication, spend a few bucks on a pay as you go disposable cell phone. The phone doesn't need all the bells and whistles, just phone and text capability, and can cost around $100.00

Only thing, just my opinion, text the lady, don't phone her, she may have family, friends, or clients when you call and can't answer. But a text she can answer later

RG

[Phaedrus 209521]

- How do you contact a SP? Just call her with your name unblocked? Is this safe?

 

In general, read her ads, look at her website, and see how she wants to be contacted. If she has multiple options, choose the one that suits you best. If you don't like the options available for some reason, see someone else instead.

 

It's safe enough if you put a condom over the phone.

(sorry, couldn't resist that)

Seriously, phoning someone is fine (unless your SO walks into the room at the wrong moment...)

 

- If i ask her to come to my home for a service, would this be legal or not?

 

Legal.

 

One problem I have is that I don't have a cell phone & texting seems to be the thing now.

 

I have to ask - why on earth not? Get one. Buy the cheapest pay-as-you-go you can find. Buy the $100 top-up cards so that you only have to remember to do this once per year. Hide the phone if necessary.

 

Only thing, just my opinion, text the lady, don't phone her, she may have family, friends, or clients when you call and can't answer.

 

If a phone number is provided then I'll call it unless the ad/website says "text only". If she can't talk for some reason she'll either not answer, or the phone will already be turned off.

 

If that happens, don't expect her to call back unless you leave a message saying that it's OK to do so (and when). No SP wants to call a (potential) client while the SO is around...

[witherintothetruth 100]

I am outcall only to my home and as it was said it is legal.

 

As for safety, it depends. If you are limiting yourself to cerb providers it is relatively safe though if you extend your providers to those indies (if they are really indies) on BP for variety (as I do) then it may not be safe for total strangers visiting your private home especially if someone is waiting outside for her or in the lobby so screen them out carefully before deciding.

 

For agencies, those established agencies advertising on BP like PKE, EH, MB, ALLD ..... are safe to call too. For those agencies advertising on the notorious site (OatN) be extra careful and screen them also carefully.

 

As for how to contact, On cerb, I usually contact them via PM and my only concern is to find out if we are compatible for a date. On BP if email available I contact them via email with lots of questions and then call them with more questions and add conditions there for the date to go ahead to ensure safety and legality. Whenever you call them, do not block your call. This sends red flag to providers. Remember they take much higher risks than you when they come over to your place.

Thank you for all the details!

- What is "BP"? I am new, those short formats always confuse me.

- If a SP coming to my home is legal, I assume visiting her place is also legal, correct?

[mod 135640]

Thank you for all the details!

- What is "BP"? I am new, those short formats always confuse me.

- If a SP coming to my home is legal, I assume visiting her place is also legal, correct?

 

The website BP is the abbreviation for Is not permitted to be posted on cerb (we really dont want newbies on that site as you have a high probability of picking a bad apple). Its best to stick with solid recommendations from cerb or ask questions here about a lady from http://www.escorts-canada.com

 

A SP going to your home is legal (outcalls are 100% legal in canada) as long as no laws are broken of course (like underage for example) incalls however are not exactly legal unless done a certain way (they are usually turned a blind eye to as its safer for the ladies so low traffic non commercial spots are usually ignored) right now this bawdy house law is in the courts and could be changed shortly.

 

.... read section 210-214 of the crimnal code of canada (asking for legal advise on a board like this is foolish) if you have legal concearns then asking here or anywhere online is not going to rest your mind is it?

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Lately I have added one further step to booking for my location.

I have been tricked with ppl using payphones to book. Of course at the time, it looks like a real number, not blocked and with all 10 digits in number. But found out it was payphone when they never showed.

 

So now unblocked number is not enough, I need a txt, or I call that number back that one time, to prove not payphone. This is after you have called me with a voice call first.

 

I cant trust it is sincer intentions from blocked numbers or payphones. If you cant unblock your number, then this is why I call you back after you have called me.