terber22 100 Report post Posted May 22, 2009 I am a male torontonian in my early 20's 5'4-5'5ish in height asian and am yet to have a sexual encounter, so porn has been my guide thus far. I do enjoy my own ethnicity but I get an even bigger kick out of caucasian women, even if they are taller. I've always fancied the looks of jenna haze, monique alexander, jenni lee, august, and even emma starr. So my question is should I shoot for the stars for the first encounter and break family taboo or should I stick to my own ethnicity. I've searched ethnicity and only escort ethnicity has shown up. If any senior members have any recommendations , would be much appreciated. I apologize in advance if anyone found this post offensive. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted May 23, 2009 This is about getting a fantasy, these visits are not real so find your Jenna Haze and enjoy an hour in your porn. Now if you had to take them home to mom and dad and marry them the answer would be different. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166767 Report post Posted May 23, 2009 Well, said, Dummpy! Terber, the time you spend with a paid companion is for you. It's about you, what you want, what you want to feel, how you want to do it. You don't have to please anyone but yourself. (Of course, if you do, you'll likely be given even more pleasure, too, but I'm sure you know that!) And no one will ever know what you do with whom unless you tell them! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted May 23, 2009 Welcome to the fold terber22. First of all, you are brave for putting yourself out there in such an open fashion. Kudos. Your post is not offensive whatsoever. Most here are out to explore something they have curiosity about, and want to experience. Or - have found something they enjoy and want to experience many times over. Ultimately to enjoy the moment and the experience you need to be comfortable with yourself and with your partner. Follow your passion and make your sexual dreams reality. Sexual dreams - they are 'yours to discover'. Discover! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
terber22 100 Report post Posted May 23, 2009 Thanks to everyone and their replies thus far. I guess it would be wise to mention my ethnicity and height in the appointment phone call? Do SP's make it a big deal with encounters from a different ethnicity? Or are they generally open about it since this is multicultural toronto. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted May 24, 2009 Thanks to everyone and their replies thus far. I guess it would be wise to mention my ethnicity and height in the appointment phone call? Do SP's make it a big deal with encounters from a different ethnicity? Or are they generally open about it since this is multicultural toronto. I'm not sure that there are any sps who make a big deal about race, or body shape or whether you're good looking (unless you're looking for a discount..ha ha...relates to another thread). It really isn't a big deal for most of them in my experience.....relax and enjoy. You're not getting married....it's a fantasy date.:mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suzirider 737 Report post Posted May 24, 2009 I'll bet (hell I know) there are SP's that are wary of some ethnic groups, because of their prevailing views on women. terb22 you have manners, and if the same for everyone, your ethnicity is not a concern. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carrie Moon 68826 Report post Posted May 24, 2009 It's very common for asian men to see tall caucasian escorts.. and equally common for caucasian men to see asian women.. have fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted May 25, 2009 Terber22, it sounds like you're pretty honest and you're doing your homework to ensure your experience is memorable. Kudos again. Most people are pretty easy going and ethnicity is not an issue. There are some ethnic providers who may not see clients of the same ethnicity in order to be discrete in their community as in some cases they do participate in community events. Keep in mind, every provider is unique and have their own screening rules, rates, services and ultimately decide whom they wish to have as a client. You're on the right track terber. If you're as polite as this when you pick up the phone or send that email, you will be fine. Now quit worrying and start hobbying! :-) Thanks to everyone and their replies thus far. I guess it would be wise to mention my ethnicity and height in the appointment phone call? Do SP's make it a big deal with encounters from a different ethnicity? Or are they generally open about it since this is multicultural toronto. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted May 25, 2009 Your ethnicity is not a problem for me. I don't ask potential clients their ethnic background, but I can't say the same for others. And I also agree with what has been said so far regarding personal taste. It's your fantasy, you're the one paying for it, you might as well get what you will enjoy! It'd be like going into your favourite restaurant and ordering something you dislike. No one would do that. Go get what YOU want. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted May 27, 2009 I agree....I have a feeling that you are not going to an sp to make your mom happy, so might as well indulge in some fantasies...hell, if you can afford it, call Jenna and see if she's available!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Researcher 110 Report post Posted April 19, 2013 That's interesting that you're even considering this as an issue. I'm a caucasian male (24) and I'm interested to meet Asian women, however this sounds so natural to me that I even haven't given any consideration if this is "would be an issue" or not. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Athos 108589 Report post Posted April 21, 2013 I would think it unnecessary to mention ethnicity in contacting a lady. If a lady has preferences or restrictions around ethnicity or race, then it's really up to her to ask as part of her screening process. I think you should assume the ladies will be colour-blind unless they say otherwise. As for height ... that just isn't an issue. Go have fun!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slurp 7020 Report post Posted April 21, 2013 Actually there are some asian women who prefer NOT to see asian clients. This is more for privacy or cultural reasons, ie they don't want it to be known she is an SP among her own countrymen. Seeing caucasian women should be no problem. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hoppinhorny 1219 Report post Posted April 21, 2013 Terber, I can understand where you\re coming from. I was worried about something similar. I'm pretty tall, and very thin. Something most women I've known in real life don't find all that appealing. That being said, anyone I have had an encounter with has shown me that it doesn't matter. They are there to re-enact my fantasy/desire, they are the provider. And if I contacted them for said encounter, then they know they can give me (the customer) what I want and may/will come back for more. So go find someone you want to see, regardless of anything. And be open with them and I'm sure anyone you meet (especially through here) will easily put those concerns to rest :) Happy hobbying! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
