Don't Pre Pay for appointments

[hengineken 110]

Got stiffed big time. SP you all know was short on cash. Went over to her place and pre paid for a visit. Big mistake. When I asked her for the money she said she was sick and I had to wait. Found out she was still working all week. Pleaded with her to pay up and all she did was write these long letters venting and of course trying to scare me off. Refused to meet me in a Police parking lot to give me my money. Yes I felt threated.

She has now black listed me and no contact with her.

 

Want would you guys do to settle ths probem?????

 

Also my last 2 visit she refused some of the services she advertized. I can't beleive I had fallen for her. You never know what they will turn into.

[Hector17 9215]

Confused a bit...if you pre paid for an appointment then why were you asking her for the $? Or was it a loan?

At any rate...I think I'd just move on and chalk it up before it escalates to something potentially bad.

[Cowboy kenny 50799]

Yup move on, lesson learned, chalk it up to the school of hard knox. Sure it hurts to feel like you've been taken advantage of , but remember karma is a bitch. Her actions now will eventually come back to haunt her.

[emb3750 9398]

Moving on would probably be best...just unfortunate you had to go through this.

 

However...there is always 2 sides to a story.

[mrrnice2 157005]

Well, just a differing opinion, but I virtually always prepay and sometimes LONG in advance. It is my way of budgeting. The other side of that coin is that I generally see very well respected and established women, and I have never felt that I was taking an undue risk. I am a trusting person but that trust is also tempered with the fact that I know who it is that I am planning to meet.

 

Sorry that this happened to you.

 

MN2

[ladyluck 10787]

Why don't you just tell the real truth instead of spreading lies? You wanted to bring me money for a prepaid appointment. I wasn't short on cash. You have sneaky little ways of trying to get into my space. You've harassed me daily well before any of this. I told you to come & get your money cause I didn't want to see you again. Asking me if I want you to drive me to Brandon & you'd stay there for two days with me pushed me over the edge, & once I was home on the Wednesday I told you to come get your money. You forgot to mention that when dropping off money you stayed an hour sitting here, even after I told you I wasn't in the mood to visit with you. Which after all your viciousness towards me I told you I was going to be charging you my social rate for sitting your ass down & staying an hour uninvited. You bring it drop it off & leave, not hang out. Technically a charge for the other time you came for an appointment & seen I had a cancellation so you stated great, I can stay longer now. Really another hour & half on top of your appointment should have taken care of the remainder, but I wasn't charging you for that. Your pretty presumptuous thinking that I enjoy your company that much!

 

You contact me daily, approach me in public while I'm with my son. You've asked me for services I don't provide, text me you love me, we should go on a date & neck, that your only going to go to the casino to see if I'm there, amongst more. I could go on for day's. I had to sever ties with you before because of overstepping boundaries with me. I let you back into my space & you get crazed again. I will repeat I told you to pick up the money cause I couldn't bring myself to seeing you again. Your constant emailing, texting & harassment. You've caused me a lot of anxiety & stress.

 

My working is really none of your business. I didn't work when I was sick. I took the day off when I didn't feel well. If I didn't contact you the day I felt better it's because I hadn't thought about you. You'd given me one day of peace without contacting me. Thanks though for acting like a stalker & keeping close tabs on me.

 

You can't seem to read an email when I say don't contact me till you plan to come get your money. You only read don't contact me. Yes here it all is folks. Him threatening to post on cerb, then text another day that he wouldn't be airing dirty laundry.

I'm not quit sure what is so fearful about coming to pick up money I offered to put in an envelope & tape to the front door. Zero contact.

[Guest a**4*]

Move on it is lost money lesson learned and never do it again you learn and you learn fast...

[ladyluck 10787]

Move on it is lost money lesson learned and never do it again you learn and you learn fast...

It wasn't lost money. He was told to come & get it. He's having a fit cause I don't want to have the appointment with him. I just want him to leave me alone.

[MightyPen 67414]

Well... that escalated quickly.

[hengineken 110]

I am surprised she had the guts to show herself.

Why would i pre pay for the first time if she didn't need the money. I did read most of the letter account I sick of the harrasment.

 

Us men are so weak. I was smitten by her.

[Guest a**4*]

It wasn't lost money. He was told to come & get it. He's having a fit cause I don't want to have the appointment with him. I just want him to leave me alone.

I apolgise for my comment -no means no not hard to understand

[SexxxyRebecca 57989]

If you have a problem with her, why not just fix that with her privately? Airing laundry is not permitted here. "Cerb is not a review board. It is a recommendation board. If you dont have anything nice to say.... Please say anything at all"

[Phantom 5310]

You've mentioned in previous posts how you are a regular of hers and how great she was. A nice person etc.. this was not a first visit. Whether you truly feel you have been ripped off or are trying to retaliate for her dropping you as a reg as she says (Which from reading both your versions, I would tend to believe her, although we could never really know) I would be hesitant to call this a scam.

[ladyluck 10787]

I am surprised she had the guts to show herself.

Why would i pre pay for the first time if she didn't need the money. I did read most of the letter account I sick of the harrasment.

 

Us men are so weak. I was smitten by her.

 

Whats next, you hacking into my online banking & seeing how much money I have or as you say don't have? I never said to you I needed money. Not once did those words even come out of my mouth, or should I say a text when you offered to come prepay. You said you had a busy weekend & wouldn't be able to get away. I said sure it wasn't necessary but if thats what you want & to take your time bringing it I was out shopping. I have the text/texts to prove it too.

I told you from the word go this was an SP/Hobbyist relationship. You just overstepped boundaries & made me push you away. I've told you in an email I'm not like this person your causing me to be, but you really make me feel like I'm losing my mind. Even since I had first stopped seeing you in the summer, you still persisted in emailing & refering to yourself in the email "it's the guy you hate". Real nice, how is something like that supposed to make me feel. I don't hate anyone but the guilt in your emails made me feel horrible when I wouldn't respond. I tried again & stated the rules, that this was strictly business, but it is blatantly obvious it was more then that for you.

I really wish you can eventually see the stress & anxiety you caused me daily in the last two weeks of just letting you back as a client. My bad. I've learned. I fully intend on going about business as usual & watching for any signs of someone potentially falling. I don't need this & will end any future sp/client relationships asap if it occurs again.

[stevecurious 42059]

 

Want would you guys do to settle ths probem?????

 

Pretty much take everything you have said and done thus far and do the exact opposite!

[Guest N***he**Ont**y]

Perhaps MOD should have alook at this case and take action against the OP who posted this.

[Soleil Sublime 38108]

Airing this out to everyone else on here was rather uncouth. You've obviously caused the poor woman enough needless and unnecessary upset. In the spirit of the season, could you just say you're sorry and leave her alone? You win some, you lose some. Life is a lesson. Learn from this and move on. If you really were smitten with her, you wouldn't have put her through all this.

[hengineken 110]

Airing this out to everyone else on here was rather uncouth. You've obviously caused the poor woman enough needless and unnecessary upset. In the spirit of the season, could you just say you're sorry and leave her alone? You win some, you lose some. Life is a lesson. Learn from this and move on. If you really were smitten with her, you wouldn't have put her through all this.

 

Read the original post. I did not mention her name. And I have not said or called her any names. I see you are not a honest broker.