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when I made the appointment I made in clear that I was more interested in oral than vaginal sex, and since it said GFE and nothing about safe gfe or cbj that bbbj was on the menu. It might be partly my fault for believing for the most part of what I have read the gfe would include bbbj as I have never had a girlfriend who ever did cbj. As for the theory of gfe including the emotional feelings of a girlfriend unless you have been with the same sp for a while there is no emotional attachment. Again all I am saying is that for some guys it doesnt matter what type of oral it is, and for others there is a big difference. so I think that when describing yourself as a gfe somewhere let it be known that it says safe or cbj most people expect bbbj. And it wasnt a calling names fight it was more of a big argument. When people are charging $$$ and you feel cheated don't give in unless you are proven wrong

 

The lady was right to be upset with you.

 

The term GFE does NOT imply any services. It is a style of service. You did not ASK for a BBBJ you assumed that GFE included this (and you were WRONG).

 

You owe this lady a big apology and money! Most people here would agree that leaving and taking the money you agreed to pay her for the time was very wrong and since it was a mistake on your part you should repay her for her time or you are stealing from her.

 

I would suspect your number and name to show up in the bad date lists because of this. This is unacceptable.

 

 

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Try and keep in mind guys that it is higly illegal to discuss what you will be getting except my time ;)! So myself I normally will not answer these questions such as "do you do bbbJ" and will send them off to read some reviews but to keep in mind YMMV......

 

So sometimes you just have to take a chance that is if she will not give you a clear answer and if there are no reviews out there...yes you may walk away unhappy but you also may walk away ecstatic...your choice boys!

 

Also Erin is correct here if your member is "sketchy" it will get covered nomatter what reviews may say!

 

Happy hobbying boys!

 

Actually in Canada as long as you are not in a public place you can openly discuss sex for money. Some ladies prefer not to and some don't realize that it is perfectly legal for them to do this.

 

You can also discuss particulars about sex for money in private but if you discuss this in a hotel lobby, a hallway, a public coffee shop, etc.. your in deep trouble!

 

If however you work in a brothel (including a massage spa or even a stripclub that allows sexual acts) it than becomes risky to discuss sexual acts with people even in private as the acts are not illegal but working in a brother is very much illegal - and you are admitting to breaking the law.

 

Prostitution in Canada is legal (I know some of you don't beleive this but are too lazy to go read the law and learn this for yourself - the internet is your friend spend a few hours and do some homework)!

 

What is not legal is solicitation (discussing sex in a public place) - the internet is not considered a "Place" so it is not illegal to discuss sex acts online. A magazine or print ad is also not a "place" so you can make ads explicit for services if the medium would allow you to BUT if your breaking the law by working in a brothel, underage, pimping, etc.. than your discussion in private is still bad as it's evidence that you are breaking the law.

 

So... if the lady does incalls (Even is she is the only one working from that location) she probably will not discuss details. The law tends to ignore the ladies who work privately in residential area's but are very interested to know about commercial places such as spa's, stripclubs and actual brothels. Let's face it, the lady working by herself in a incall location is more safe than doing an outcall so forcing them to do outcalls to keep it legal is not what that law was intended for.

 

The law is againt pimps, brothels, streetwalkers, underage girls/guys and all the really bad stuff. Drugs is also a big thing they watch for and discussion of any kind involving drugs would bring unwanted attention.

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