Increasing Demands on Dancers

[castle 38816]

Back on the subject, one of the girls I see most frequently, who is more or less by the book, has also expressed her frustration with me with what some other girls are doing...and I suspect her resolve may be cracking. A small part of me is saying "Woo Hoo!!" but a larger part of me would just be really sad to see someone disregard their personal limits like that. I have nothing against dancers who offer extras, quite the opposite, I'm all for it, so long as it's something they are clearly comfortable doing. But it would be sad for me to see this girl do extra things simlpy because she feels she has no other options, it would take an insane amount of willpower but I think if she offered me extras I would turn her down.

[YoungStud 468]

But it would be sad for me to see this girl do extra things simlpy because she feels she has no other options, it would take an insane amount of willpower but I think if she offered me extras I would turn her down.

 

That's a very cool attitude, dude. Exercising some moral options and doing stuff, even very kinky stuff, with a certain amount of dignity and respect, are what separate the men from the jerks around here.

[castle 38816]

That's a very cool attitude, dude. Exercising some moral options and doing stuff, even very kinky stuff, with a certain amount of dignity and respect, are what separate the men from the jerks around here.

 

I try. If we all did our part this world would be a much better place for all of us little perv and pervettes

[jdstar 1065]

I haven't been to a SC for at least 5 years, so my comments may be way off. It just seems to me that if a dance is $20 for 3 minutes, guys will have higher expectations. (Are all dancers $20 per song?)

[Mars_Bound 110]

I had a phone conversation with one of my favourite dancers yesterday. She was frustrated by customers' increasing demands: let me finger you, let me play in your ass, suck my cock, etc.

 

She loves dancing and teasing. She is also a sweetheart that will have sex with guys she likes and trusts (believe me, we just had a little getaway that was mighty fine), just not in the club where she can get in trouble and lose her ability to make a living.

 

Is this normal - are the stakes being raised towards full service in clubs?

 

Ladies: how do you deal with this?

 

Guys: are you pushing the boundaries?

 

what clubs does this girl work at? are there others like her? Whats the dancers name? You may PM the information.

 

Also did you have to pay the girl for these sexual escapades? how much if so?

[Mars_Bound 110]

it seems an obvious evolution to me. Years ago, dances were $5 each, no touching. Then it went to Champagne room $10, no touching. It then evolved to CR $20/song lots of touching. Many clubs have even installed piped in CR music with each song cut to 3 minutes so that the girls can make money faster.

 

You can't have it both ways; you can't expect to get rich and never be touched. At $20/song, 20 songs/hour, that's $400/hour. I would usually spend at least 30 minutes with a girl, thus costing me $200. For that kind of cash, I expect service. I do not say things Like "let me do???", but I will ask what I am allowed to do.

 

I have also gotten hj, bj, daty, dato, fs, etc in many clubs from many girls, so if some are providing, others have to expect that they may get asked to provide as well.

 

It's the dancers and clubs who have evolved this business in the direction it has gone, the customers are only more than happy to go with the flow.

 

Again, there is no excuse for rudeness, but if your friend is surprised at what she is being asked for, she should look around at what her friends are providing.

 

 

problem is , many guys before you have also dined at the O on that same girl. Any of you guys worried about hygene? Thats why I would prefer to invite the gilr for a private dance or to go back with me to a motel..... that way she can have a shower and freshen up

[Mars_Bound 110]

it seems an obvious evolution to me. Years ago, dances were $5 each, no touching. Then it went to Champagne room $10, no touching. It then evolved to CR $20/song lots of touching. Many clubs have even installed piped in CR music with each song cut to 3 minutes so that the girls can make money faster.

 

You can't have it both ways; you can't expect to get rich and never be touched. At $20/song, 20 songs/hour, that's $400/hour. I would usually spend at least 30 minutes with a girl, thus costing me $200. For that kind of cash, I expect service. I do not say things Like "let me do???", but I will ask what I am allowed to do.

 

I have also gotten hj, bj, daty, dato, fs, etc in many clubs from many girls, so if some are providing, others have to expect that they may get asked to provide as well.

 

It's the dancers and clubs who have evolved this business in the direction it has gone, the customers are only more than happy to go with the flow.

 

Again, there is no excuse for rudeness, but if your friend is surprised at what she is being asked for, she should look around at what her friends are providing.

 

 

I agree as well. I had one sweet stripper that like me ask me the same thing. I gave her a brief lesson in economics. If the other girls are willing to do the same $20 per dance she is charging but allow for more (fingers, rimming, hj e.t.c) then those girls will get more dances and this will set up the expectation (demand) for subsequent clients. The most she can do is say yes or no but I told her not to bother using energy to be disturbed at the request.

 

In almost any club you will meet different girls with varying degrees of mileage. Some may sleep with you.... others not. e.t.c

[Mars_Bound 110]

Whenever I want extras from a dancer, I invite her home for private dances

 

 

dont you find that cost way too much to invite a dancer home for private dances. Last time I requested this a dancer was charging $500 for that. You could have 4 or 5 escorts at half hour for that price or one escort for 4 or 5 hours (maybe sleepover if you are lucky), and those escorts are just as hot looking as the dancer. SO its easier for guys to push for the service (FS , extras e.t.c) in the club themselves.

[Mars_Bound 110]

In contrast to my previous post, I will state that I do still enjoy going to SC. I usually stick to taboo because I know that with some effort I can almost always get some extras and still spend only $200.

 

The thrill of the chase and excitement of being in public is quite attractive to me still.

 

 

Luckily there is a motel located nearby. Have you succeded in taking home a dancer from Taboo or Pigales? that is a dream and the challenge is just addictive.

[Guest S***e]

I used to enjoy them many years ago when all you did was sit, have a beer and watch the ladies dance...nothing more, no touching and no being rude or obnoxious as you got bounced out the door. Women were protected from such behavior by owners/bouncers and even other patrons. I haven't been to a strip club for a long time now due to many of the reasons mentioned above. Too many idiots toting guns these days as well.

 

Old Spike

[Capital Hunter 18263]

dont you find that cost way too much to invite a dancer home for private dances. Last time I requested this a dancer was charging $500 for that. You could have 4 or 5 escorts at half hour for that price or one escort for 4 or 5 hours (maybe sleepover if you are lucky), and those escorts are just as hot looking as the dancer. SO its easier for guys to push for the service (FS , extras e.t.c) in the club themselves.

 

It costs me between $200 to $500 for one to three hours of private dance (first timers only take the three hours but once they do it and they like it then they agree to lesser time like one hour).

 

Dancers are more expensive than escorts but there is the extra pleasure (or excitement) of meeting the girl in flesh (and challenge of picking her up) and develop some emotional feeling and have her home all excited to see her in full light.

 

Services like FS or may be even extras in the SCs are illegal and I personally do not take risks (SC is a public place). Not to mention other girls and customers may see and report it or the bouncer who may drop by every second (especially in Ontario side where we have this open CR concept). I don't know about you but me, under all this stresses of being caught and being illegal and the environment of dark and small CR, I am not able to do anything even if I am offered.