m71 100 Report post Posted June 3, 2009 Standard operating procedure or crazy talk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166766 Report post Posted June 3, 2009 I'm not sure what you're asking. Outcalls are when I go out to meet the client at his location. Incalls are when the client meets me where I am. Or are you asking about something else? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
m71 100 Report post Posted June 3, 2009 No you have it right. The question is intended for hobbyists: would you invite an SP into your own home, or only to a hotel? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted June 3, 2009 this all depends on you.....alot of guys only use outcall..they feel more comfortable in thier own place...... maybe you need to work up a reputation with a few ladies before having them over...... it is a personal choice....... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted June 3, 2009 I have been to many homes....but i won't go unless you meet me first at my place of pleasure. Thats me, other ladies might be different. I'm sure the gentlemen would want to know you too b4 they invite you to their home..??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
o*****j***e 136 Report post Posted June 3, 2009 I would only invite a SP to my home if we have met before and have a good relationship. Here's my question, how do SP's feel about doing an outcall to someone's private home that has a partner that lives there? obviously she would be out of town or working, but would/does this make the SP feel a little uncomfortable being there? especially with other women's items, pictures, etc laying around? Just curious Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coachg 388 Report post Posted June 3, 2009 I have been to many homes....but i won't go unless you meet me first at my place of pleasure. Thats me, other ladies might be diggerent. I'm sure the gentlemen would want to know you too b4 they invite you to their home..??? You can come to my home anytime, baby!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Summer Meadows 1676 Report post Posted June 3, 2009 I think what you're really asking is do we think it is ok that you're married and ok to fuck you in your wife's own bed? Right? Does it make us uncomfortable? I am personally not touching this one with a ten foot pole! :boobies: But seriously we are all different. we will all (sp's) have differents opinions and morals on this and everything else in life. But yeah, we probably all get that slight parinoia once in awhile that someone will come home and we'll have to run down the street naked! All in a days work!:-P Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted June 3, 2009 ...................................ladies might be diggerent. I'm sure the .................??? were you in the middle of a multiple "O" when typing again???? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S***e Report post Posted June 3, 2009 I would suggest or recommend to you that unless you are single/unattached that you not invite an SP into your home. You never know when your partner will come home early for whatever reason, not to mention neighbours who may raise questions about your visitor. I simply prefer to be discrete about any and all encounters. That's just me, however. Old Spike Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
o*****j***e 136 Report post Posted June 3, 2009 I think what you're really asking is do we think it is ok that you're married and ok to fuck you in your wife's own bed? Right? Does it make us uncomfortable? That's exactly what i'm asking, your bang on Candi. Just curious on the different responses from SP's Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted June 3, 2009 I do find this an interesting subject. I don't go unless we've met before. From my POV, a lot more risks with outcalls (like the ones mentioned, the idea that the person may not actually be alone, too drunk to drive hence the outcall request, etc). But from the clients, he has provided full name, home address, etc. It seems like there are a lot more risks for him, if the sp sent is not known to him. Yet guys do this all the time, and many prefer it. And on the opposite side of the spectrum are those who need/want to call from blocked numbers or try to figure out ways of getting prepaid cel phones to call with complete anonymity. :mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166766 Report post Posted June 4, 2009 I rarely go to a client's home, and never unless I've met the client at my place, first. Only two of my regular clients have me go to their homes. Neither of them have a live-in partner as far as I know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted June 4, 2009 I would only invite a SP to my home if we have met before and have a good relationship. Here's my question, how do SP's feel about doing an outcall to someone's private home that has a partner that lives there? obviously she would be out of town or working, but would/does this make the SP feel a little uncomfortable being there? especially with other women's items, pictures, etc laying around? Just curious i wouldn't go....just out of respect for the SO...i wouldn't feel right... were you in the middle of a multiple "O" when typing again???? yes baby you know i was :oops: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted June 4, 2009 You can come to my home anytime, baby!!! :shock::oops::oops::oops: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest t**d**teur Report post Posted June 4, 2009 I agree with you Spike, with the Global Village syndrome, neighborhood watch, nosy neighbors and the possible untimely 'I'm home dear!", it is safer and better for my sanity to visit the SP outside your home. You don't always have to play in your own backyard. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted June 4, 2009 I've done a couple outcall sessions (in a gentleman's home) and was especially uncomfortable being in his marital bed. Even worse, he phoned later to good-naturedly inform me we had accidentally left a condom wrapper in his bed. Luckily he saw it before his wife rolled over and he discreetly grabbed it and threw it under the bed. I'm not sure I would ever do that again. Although I am an escort, I don't want to see another woman hurt if she finds out about me or the actions of her husband. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted June 4, 2009 I only go to outcalls where I can verify the address to the phone number or I already have seen the client at my place. This is becoming more difficult based on the fact that cell phones are replacing land lines. I am fortunate that I have a good driver, but if I'm given a fake address I am on the hook to pay for the drive. So, I tend to avoid outcalls unless I can verify them. Hotels and places of business are much better.:neutral: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted June 4, 2009 I used to get sp's over to my house all the time when I was single, but now that I am married...never...even if she is out of town for an extended period. That's just a dumb move. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dorinda Bloom 44036 Report post Posted June 4, 2009 The absolute worst appointment I ever had was at a man's house and his girlfriend walked in on us!! Yes, I left with a few scratches and a new resolve to only provide in-call service! YIKES!! :shock: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted June 4, 2009 In all the years I have been hobbying and all the women I've seen, I've actually only done 3 outcalls to my home. Have never been a big fan of it and have always prefered incalls for some reason. Standard operating procedure or crazy talk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted June 4, 2009 I used to get sp's over to my house all the time when I was single, but now that I am married...never...even if she is out of town for an extended period. That's just a dumb move. Bang on good advice! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
