No return call?

[bigdoggiehair 105]

Have you guys had this experience where you would call and leave a message for an escort to call you and nothing happened? Today i made the 1 hour trek to Winnipeg and i had 6 different girls in mind. None answered the call so i left messages to let me know if they had availability but not one returned my call. Is Saturday not a good time for pooning? I know these girls were working according to their websites. Just wanted to know if you guys have run into this.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

From an SP's perspective, if she doesn't answer, there is the good chancee she is busy with a customer or is not available. For me, if 20 minutes has passed and I missed a call, I will not call back for discretion purposes. Most clients will call me back if they want information or an appt at a later date. Some people take offense or consider the SP flaky if she doesn't get back but as I said if I missed the phonecall for whatever reason, I won't be calling back hours later.

[cometman 35115]

Whew...6 is a lot. I made it to 4 one day before I was able to set something up. Planning well ahead is the answer, but if you're like me and a zillion other guys, this secret life is under wraps and you have to fly by the arse of your pants sometimes. Just keep a longer list, carry a laptop, use a smart phone (like I don't), and keep trying. Life interferes with my plans too often, so I never begrudge a lady for not contacting me toute de suite. Au contraire, I am exceedingly grateful when I can line up something on short notice with a lady I adore.

[wildstallion 1819]

I have left the city many times with blue balls because of this, one thing I did stumble upon is when leaving a message give a time frame that you will be accepting the SP's return call till, that way she will feel more comfortable calling you back and there is always the good old massage parlors if all else fails. keep on pooning my friend.

[LeeRichards 177238]

Have you guys had this experience where you would call and leave a message for an escort to call you and nothing happened? Today i made the 1 hour trek to Winnipeg and i had 6 different girls in mind. None answered the call so i left messages to let me know if they had availability but not one returned my call. Is Saturday not a good time for pooning? I know these girls were working according to their websites. Just wanted to know if you guys have run into this.

 

Make contact with one out of six prior to your one hour trek.

 

Set up a date/rendezvous/etc...etc....

 

Why pick six and be dissapointed ?

[DeeperConnection 19567]

Have you guys had this experience where you would call and leave a message for an escort to call you and nothing happened? Today i made the 1 hour trek to Winnipeg and i had 6 different girls in mind. None answered the call so i left messages to let me know if they had availability but not one returned my call. Is Saturday not a good time for pooning? I know these girls were working according to their websites. Just wanted to know if you guys have run into this.

 

I agree without a mentioned safe time frame to call back, I decide to play it safe and don't call back at all. I also would consider that they are simply busy for a short while and keep trying. It wouldn't be that surprising that by waiting for a call back, someone else called and reached her, booked a time etc.

Prebooking an encounter is generally the best way to go, as there are often many days a week you men all have the same thing in mind. It's always amazed me how every so often my phone blows up.

[ladyluck 10787]

I agree without a mentioned safe time frame to call back, I decide to play it safe and don't call back at all. I also would consider that they are simply busy for a short while and keep trying. It wouldn't be that surprising that by waiting for a call back, someone else called and reached her, booked a time etc.

Prebooking an encounter is generally the best way to go, as there are often many days a week you men all have the same thing in mind. It's always amazed me how every so often my phone blows up.

 

I state on my voice mail to please leave a time frame in which to return a call. A lot of times the time frame is so short like a half hour & I'm busy for an hour or two.

I like Nicolette after a certain amount of time am wary I might call at a not so discreet time. I leave it up to the fella to call back. Which I do believe is also mentioned on my voice mail to try back in an hour or so. I've returned calls to fella's some calling them long distance only to be told they've found someone else. Well alrighty then. Maybe a call back to me leaving me another message saying no need to call back might have helped an uncomfortable return call.

As Emily has said lot's of times a girl can have a very busy day & not even have time to check her voice mail or emails & someone else has called when she was able to finally answer the phone & taken another booking. But do refrain from excessive calling. Today drove me nuts looking through my call log when I went to turn ringer back on & there were calls from two different #'s that called almost every two to five minutes for an hour. Like come on,lol. Leave a message. After that when they called I stared at my phone debating on answering it. Not answering won in that debate.

Always best to book in advance even a few hours if you know your venturing out for the day.

But 6 wow & not a single one answered or returned a call. I'm sure there are some girls out there that don't care about discretion & how long it took for them to return your call.

I won't mention names but I one time called another girl, I didn't leave a message cause it wasn't urgent & about 15 minutes later I got a call back from her saying, "someone called me from this number". Obviously does that with everyone I'm sure. I was quit shocked to say the least.

[Boomer 33202]

I have to agree that some of the ladies can be wary about calling back after some time has elapsed. It's always a good idea to give them some time limit to return the call.

 

As an alternative, as they may be concerned that the call may at an in opportune time for you, tell them you'll ring back them back if they text that they are available to take the call.

[NotchJohnson 214136]

You can count yourself lucky that you were able to leave a message, how many times did I call and their voicemail was full? A lot. I understand your frustration because I too live over one hour away from a big city and drive up looking for some fun, but my solution is I found places for a massage with a happy ending and use this for a solutions to "blue balls" syndrome.

[roamingguy 300292]

Unless you have a encounter already booked for a specific time/date and were calling as a final confirmation, the lady may already be seeing someone else. She isn't going to answer your call if she is in the middle of an encounter, nor phone back after too much time has elapsed

That's why I (mind you I travel anywhere from two to four hours for an encounter depending on city) have my encounters scheduled months in advance, and I email maybe three times (once a week starting three weeks prior to the encounter) giving my semi semi semi final confirmations

That way, I'm ensured of an encounter with the lady I want to see...and she knows I'm going to be there

The lady has to go with the first confirmed client, not wait on the chance some other client is going to show up

Don't know if that helps

RG

[Horndog66 14104]

There's always the FS MPs (Nevada and Broadway's). There's usually at one or two ladies that can scratch your itch.

[farmboy 848]

Jessica is back at moonlight..so if she is there it would make that place a option as well.

[fortunateone 156618]

If you are farther away, I would do what some of my faraway regs do, they call the day before to assure that I am actually available the day and time they hope to be able to make a visit. nothing is written in stone, tho, as they may not be able to get here anyway, which is fine.

 

Then closer to the time on the day, they do their confirmation call.

 

Simplifies things.

 

I don't think I would take for granted someone's website calendar. 6 is a lot, which might be why we are asking a few questions and making a few suggestions.

 

Besides confirming schedule the day before (and keep in mind if some of these sps did not hear from anyone the day before, maybe they decided to take the whole day off? But they wouldn't have, had you checked in with them the day before.

 

Of any of the 6, besides leaving a message, did you make a 2nd or 3rd call, speced out within a reasonable time frame? Sometimes someone has called me, left a message but no call back number, and their number to call back either doesn't show or doesn't work. Calling back until you reach them doesn't have to mean as shown every 5 minutes for an hour, but I don't mind someone calling within reason until they reach me.

 

I always return calls within a reasonable time period, but I do know some sps who won't. I don't think it is a good business practise to ignore messages, if they want to ignore messages they should just disable the voicemail feature, or at the very least put that in their own message. Hi, you've reached Lady X, don't leave a message I won't return it, just keep calling until you reach me, OR, call back after 2pm.

 

I play with my message all the time, either I'm available, not available, call back in 20 minutes, call back in 5 minutes, or call back after 5pm, whatever the circumstances. Most frustrating to me is someone who calls, does not leave a message and does not call back within the time I suggest in my voice mail. It's like they say to themselves I tried, and failed, moving on. One phone call no message is not trying at all lol.

 

And that's probably why you see those sps who return calls 15 minutes later, if everyone just left a message and messages were listened to and returned, it would run a lot smoother.

[Ashley Ann 75247]

Have you guys had this experience where you would call and leave a message for an escort to call you and nothing happened? Today i made the 1 hour trek to Winnipeg and i had 6 different girls in mind. None answered the call so i left messages to let me know if they had availability but not one returned my call. Is Saturday not a good time for pooning? I know these girls were working according to their websites. Just wanted to know if you guys have run into this.

 

This one time-a looong time ago, I returned a clients call, as per his request ( he was a regular client too :( ). I did so about 45 mins later, but when I called, I strongly presume it was not a good time since he acted like he had no idea who I was. I understood that, and apologized for having the wrong number.

 

He never called me back again.

 

Since then, I have always promised myself to call back within a very very small time frame or just wait for them to call me back.

 

All this to say that most of us who are professional, realize that a return phone call can do so much damage and just simply not worth the repercussions of what could happen from it.

[igab 5629]

I understand that sometimes you need to do this on the spur of the moment but if you know you have an hour drive into town why not see if you can set a time up before you get in the car. An hour ahead of your drive could save you some time and gas.

 

I've always found that Indie ladies tend to like to book a day ahead or more and texting or emailing works better than phoning. As one lady pointed out, if you're an Indie you are mostly your own secretary. She can't blow me and answer your call at the same time! I really get pissed if a lady monitors her phone during our time together to answer your phone call!

 

My experience is that Agencies are a good way to go if you are looking for a spontaneous encounter. Because they have several ladies on call you are more likely to get a timing you can live with.

[Soleil Sublime 38108]

In my outgoing message for my VM, I specifically state to leave your first name and the timeframe within which I may return the call, and if I am able to, I will. If I don't get the message until after the timeframe they've told me, then I'm going to safely assume they understood I wasn't able to call them back and that it won't be held against me. :)

[grapesofpleasure 302]

Laws Of Survival

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If you're calling the day of - good luck.

 

If you book 48 hours in advance, you're lucky to consumate the deal with 50% of the girls you talk to.

 

If you book with Zoe, Kayla or Soleil, you can take it to the bank. They will be there and are awesome.

[Guest ***rgi*****9]

If you are farther away, I would do what some of my faraway regs do, they call the day before to assure that I am actually available the day and time they hope to be able to make a visit. nothing is written in stone, tho, as they may not be able to get here anyway, which is fine.

 

Then closer to the time on the day, they do their confirmation call.

 

Laws Of Survival

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If you're calling the day of - good luck.

 

If you book 48 hours in advance, you're lucky to consumate the deal with 50% of the girls you.

 

I think Fortunateone has given you the best way to handle your situation.

 

As far as greapesofpleasure, I disagree 99% of my connections are same day calls, I usually do not have to call very many SP's either on the day in question. I can count on my two hand's the number of times I have actually pre-booked an appointment, usually it would be if I want to have a duo or more, so that the multiple schedules can come together.

 

Good luck and keep trying