Annessa 22743 Report post Posted June 11, 2009 in a sea of what seems to be "dos and Do-not" threads that have lead to somewhat negative perceptions of some of us ladies on here, I would like to start a more positive thread directed towards the ladies about dates they've had recently that at the end of the day make us sigh a lovely sigh and make us say "gosh darn-it....i REALLY LOVE my job!" (this is not to say we dont love our jobs to begin with. I totally do! but what special things sometimes make you REALLY REALLY love it at the end of the day? One of my new favorites definitely loves to take his time, books at least two hours and is a wonderful dancer. He happens to share my love for Jazz and we spend almost the first hour talking, sipping wine and dancing. He literally sweeps me off my feet (and if I'm lucky, I get dipped too! lol)! Sometimes I have to admit that I've caught myself watching him leave through the peep-hole...that is where I sigh to myself and definitely the inner monologue plays saying "sigh...i love my job" ;-) Another client I have always books a very nice hotel suite for us and is insistent on asking what i feel like eating as a snack or drinking for a beverage...even if I say I'm not fussy. Just the idea that someone is being so considerate is very thoughtful and goes a long way...when I hang up the phone or fire of my reply email at home setting up our date with the possibility of shrimp and lobster I say to myself "sigh...I love my job" Ladies in the industry: what little extra things or recent fun perks on the day-to-day basis of your work-life make you pause and think to yourself the same? it could be luxurious or even something simple and kind, sexual or non-sexual 21 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apex2006 1071 Report post Posted June 11, 2009 Hey this sounds like a great idea, it can give us some good ideas! Great suggestion Annessa! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted June 11, 2009 Thanks Apex! now ladies keep in mind, this is not to turn into anything negative or into a Do this but DON'T do that thread....Just a thread to share the little tidbits that make the job almost seem like its not a job anymore :-) I just remembered another one: I have one client who on our first meeting was very pleased with my face, so much in turn that he insisted that I close my eyes on the bed while he traced my face, eyebrows, chin lips everything with his finger. The subtle soft touch and the attention paid to myself and my features made me feel like a goddess being worshiped! after a long time spent on my visage, his fingers ended up traveling, but that was inevitable ;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted June 11, 2009 excellent thread...can't wait to read some replies from others. you are very thoughtful Annessa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whatsup 11893 Report post Posted June 11, 2009 Us Gentlemen love to have you Wonderful Ladies love your jobs. :grin: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted June 11, 2009 Thanks Annessa, good idea on a thread. I know I've contributed to some of the negativity and I need to change that. Funny you mention the guy tracing the lines of your face. I'm a sucker for a pretty face, always. I've always wished I could draw better and if I could I would probably sit and spend my first hour with the ladies I love, just drawing their faces. Looking at a beautiful woman is art to me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Scarlett 25073 Report post Posted June 11, 2009 I have one client who always shows up with a single long stem rose, and it always puts a smile on my face! I have another who will spend time talking with me and doing fun stuff like sharing freezie!!! These simple things make me LOVE my job that much MORE!!!:grin: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted June 11, 2009 Bringing flowers or sending them to me when I'm not expecting them...{white lilies...just in case your interested}haha Taking me for a ride on their bike....{i love motor bikes} writing me poems.. Taking me to dinner ...yes even the tex mex with the god forsaken country music...lmao I had a late appointment one night and at the end i was so just in 7Th heaven...the gentleman tucked me in b4 he went home... Paintings or drawings of me...{I'm always so flattered that someone would want to paint me....} but most of all i enjoy the intimacy we share...the closeness...not just the sex...I'm talking getting to know someone for who they really are...and really caring....that's the best feeling i get from this profession...that really makes me say WOW... kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carrie Moon 68826 Report post Posted June 11, 2009 One of my favorite regulars almost always gives me a massage before he goes down on me.. I'm like liquid by the time he gets down there... and he give me a la senza gift certificate on the anniversary of our first appt or my b-day or valentine's or xmas.. etc. and I buy something with him in mind to wear at future appts. I always look forward to seeing him. but mostly.. a guy who is very enthusiastic about our meeting makes me happy. The attitude is infectious and the flattery makes me warm and fuzzy inside.:-D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coachg 388 Report post Posted June 11, 2009 Bringing flowers or sending them to me when I'm not expecting them...{white lilies...just in case your interested}haha Taking me for a ride on their bike....{i love motor bikes} writing me poems.. Taking me to dinner ...yes even the tex mex with the god forsaken country music...lmao I had a late appointment one night and at the end i was so just in 7Th heaven...the gentleman tucked me in b4 he went home... Paintings or drawings of me...{I'm always so flattered that someone would want to paint me....} but most of all i enjoy the intimacy we share...the closeness...not just the sex...I'm talking getting to know someone for who they really are...and really caring....that's the best feeling i get from this profession...that really makes me say WOW... kisses, Emma A You definately sound like my kind of women...I would love the opportunity to pamper you someday.....we would get along splendidly.Remember to keep the west in your thoughts for a little adventure some day!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166766 Report post Posted June 15, 2009 This is a great idea, Annessa. Thanks for starting the discussion. Most of my clients book for longer sessions, two or three hours that often includes lunch or dinner. I love having that extra time to talk and relax together because by the time we go back to my place, it feels like we really connect. I like feeling that the client wants to be with me, specifically, and so that extra bit of time does it. I have one client who likes to give me a massage and by the time he's finished I could purr. Once, after a lovely evening, when it was time to get up, the client asked what I would be doing after he'd gone. I said honestly that I'd take a shower and go to sleep. He showered with me and he washed my hair. After the shower, he combed and dried it with the hair dryer--such personal attention! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted June 15, 2009 He showered with me and he washed my hair. After the shower, he combed and dried it with the hair dryer--such personal attention! Wow, that kind of reminds me of Warren Beatty in Shampoo - classic sex and politics movie of the mid 70's. Great retro stuff. His character was my kind of hairdresser, especially in those scenes with Julie Christie. "Your hairdresser does it better" was the promo slogan. (No, I don't remember things like that, I use IMBD. Lol.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted June 15, 2009 today... I received a lovely bouquet of flowers that brightened up my new and almost empty incall location...also some fruit and yogurt and a tub of Cool Whip (light, hehe) the best part about it was I started to open the cool-whip sitting down while my client was in the washroom and I put it down beside the fruit on the coffee-table and when my client emerged from the bathroom he laughed a little and said something to the like of "nono...its not for the fruit...I was hoping we could use that on you" fast forward to 15 miutes later and amazing DATY (including coolwhip) and I couldn't help but think...yet again.....I LOOOOOOOVE MY JOB! *sigh* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Athos 108589 Report post Posted June 16, 2009 I have one client who on our first meeting was very pleased with my face, so much in turn that he insisted that I close my eyes on the bed while he traced my face, eyebrows, chin lips everything with his finger. The subtle soft touch and the attention paid to myself and my features made me feel like a goddess being worshiped! after a long time spent on my visage, his fingers ended up traveling, but that was inevitable ;-) ... I'm heading off for a cold shower now! :oops: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
veronikahouse 210 Report post Posted June 16, 2009 Most recently being brought some sweet treats to our afternoon delight. It is very nice when a man is thinking about our time together even before he arrrives. VeronikaHouse Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166766 Report post Posted June 16, 2009 Today... the one who made me climax over and over and over and over and over and over... So skilled, so sensitive and adept, it's pretty much all he wanted, interspersed with lots of kissing and cuddling, then back to it again, over and over.... I'm surprised I know my own name. I'm surprised I can walk! I do love this job! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted June 17, 2009 There are sooooo many things I love about this job, such as: Being licked slowly from head to toe and learning that there are certain parts of my body that send me into an erotic state I never knew before (thanks CoachG) When a lover takes the time to read my website (specifically my online diary or the "about me" section) and learns a little bit more about me before meeting me When a lover is very physically clean and tastes absolutely delicious as I explore every part of his body When a lover shows up with a thoughtful gift, such as flowers, a piece of jewellery (doesn't have to be expensive as it is truly the thought that counts), a bottle of wine, chocolates or a gift that he has put thought behind. One of the most thoughtful gifts I have ever received was a giraffe key chain and a giraffe earrings since I collect giraffes <thanks SPUTY> Being treated to a nice dinner or hors d'?uvres before, after or during our sessions Being treated like I am a special lady in a gentleman's life as opposed to an escort ... when I am treated well I will always go above and beyond the call of duty to make my lover happy because he has made me so incredibly happy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted June 17, 2009 Some of my clients will call ahead and ask if they can bring me something from Timmies... (coffee, donut, ice-cap, etc.). An Indonesian client brought me a scrumptious lunch the other day of rice, and curried chicken and beef and broccoli... I have received other gifts from clients over the years... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted June 17, 2009 One of my regulars takes me for a ride on his motocycle. I love bikes too! The best ones are the guys who always ask the can pick me up something, like a Timmies...a phone card, etc. I find that thoughtful. The nicest ones are the ones who are appreciative and always include a tip...which when it happens is a nice surprise. One CERB member treated me to lunch the other day. He brought home-made Indonesian Chicken Curry, Beef and Broccoli, served with Jasmine Rice. It was scrumptious...I took care of the dessert! I have one regular who always put the donation inside a nice card in an envelope. For some reason that makes me feel special. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted June 17, 2009 This is a great thread Annessa! Thanks for starting it! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Z**_Z** 106 Report post Posted June 17, 2009 I'm honestly really easy to please... I love it when a client is clean and fresh (I actually love the smell of citrus listerine breath)... shaved balls so I can go to town... good kissing - not too much spit but not too little ;) ... um... I also like it when clients listen to me on how I like my clit to be played with, I must be more sensitive than most cuz there is a definite way to get me off... I also love it when I am giving a BJ and the guy has that look of utter disbelief and near inability to speak, other than "oh my god" heehee Other things I have loved: -a client set out a little appetizer type thing for us for breaks (longer session) with pineapple, lobster, shrimp, strawberries etc -when a client massages or scratches my back - turns me to putty and I am so eager to make them feel as good as I do -standing at my window, looking at the view, kissing and hugging -I love the card thing too, it's always nice -I love it when clients remember my birthday, or the day we initially met There's just so many nice people out there that most days, I absolutely LOVE my job Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted June 17, 2009 I'm honestly really easy to please... I love it when a client is clean and fresh (I actually love the smell of citrus listerine breath)... shaved balls so I can go to town... good kissing - not too much spit but not too little ;) ... um... I also like it when clients listen to me on how I like my clit to be played with, I must be more sensitive than most cuz there is a definite way to get me off... I also love it when I am giving a BJ and the guy has that look of utter disbelief and near inability to speak, other than "oh my god" heehee now keep in mind Zoe, like I said i didnt want it to turn into a do-and-do-not do thread or a thread on the basics of proper hobbiest hygene or etiquette. This is more of an "extra mile" subject the things you mentioned after suit the thread tho! :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted July 5, 2009 Tonight I took a late outcall to a new client. he called around 11 asking for a 1:30 am call....normally I dont take late calls unless they're pre arranged. i finally arrive at the destination and when the door was opened I faced a 6'8" tall absolute dreamboat. as attractive as he was he was still humble about himself...even shy, so I made sure i showed him the time of his life. I never expected however that I would get the most attentive finger-treatment ever tho, I found myself squirting three times in the space of a half hour which I normally dont talk about but I have to say I'm quite amazed with myself (sorry if it sounds like I'm bragging! I'm just still in shock! lol) we went a half hour overtime and he asked me how much extra it was, I told him and when I left he gave me the proper donation along with a healthy tip. I think I sang to myself as I left his place. Tipped for coming hard and having three mind blowing orgasms one after the other?? how many other people in different professions can say they get the same type of fulfillment.....Geez I love my job! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted July 5, 2009 I think the thing I like the best is that I believe I get treated better by my clients than I have by some of the guys I have dated. It's no so much an ego boost as it is a positive self-esteem reinforcer (is that a phrase..it is now). I could probably do this until I'm 60!:roll: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted July 5, 2009 I think the thing I like the best is that I believe I get treated better by my clients than I have by some of the guys I have dated. It's no so much an ego boost as it is a positive self-esteem reinforcer (is that a phrase..it is now). I could probably do this until I'm 60!:roll: agreed! a lot of my friends dont understand that our temporary boyfriends tend to treat us far better than real ones. I have one girlfriend that feels sorry that I dont allow myself to date or feels like I'm denying myself happiness. unfortunately I dont think she'll ever be able to understand how happy my job makes me no matter what I say, lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
