Athos 108589 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 I, for one, am very happy to now be firmly in the "older" crowd. On the other side of 45 and having more fun than ever. From my perspective, I only wish that I knew when I was 25 what I now know. Life definitely would have been more fun. What the ladies are describing is typical of males across the animal world. Young males are inexperienced, postering and rarely get a chance with the ladies, but its the experienced, older men who lead the group and know what the women want. Hooray for being a silverback!! I also think us older guys really appreciate the beauty and charm of the wonderful ladies in this business, and understand how to show that appreciation. Porthos 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drg23 124 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 oh my, i hope i didn't offend anyone with the "younger/older" labels. Just curious, appreciate all the opinions :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
suburb1 153 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 I feel uncormftable(?) with guys that are less than 40... It's not everybody that is easy to talk to... Illuminating, feedback, we'll have to chat over a nice cup of guatemalia antigua coffee Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 Ya, that's it...we know how to appreciate women. When I was younger, I thought any girl I dated needed to have Playboy bunny looks and big breasts! It wasn't until I got older that I realized how much fun small breasts are, and realized that Playboy bunnies are few and far between and usually not too much fun either! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Scarlett 25073 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 Ya, that's it...we know how to appreciate women. When I was younger, I thought any girl I dated needed to have Playboy bunny looks and bit breasts! It wasn't until I got older that I realized how much fun small breasts are, and realized that Playboy bunnies are few and far between and usually not too much fun either! YAY Cap, you rock! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Athos 108589 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 oh my, i hope i didn't offend anyone with the "younger/older" labels. Just curious, appreciate all the opinions :-) I don't think so ... certainly didn't offend me ... and I suspect that the younger guys the ladies are talking about are not necessarily representative of everyone in that age category. Sadly, though, I do think that the current generation of 20 somethings often have a sense of entitlement and self-importance that is frequently not justified. It gives those younger fellows who are gentlemen a tough time of it. porthos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kev 100 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 Interesting discussion we have going on here, i'll just chime in her with my "younger" crowd opinion. I have to agree with the general sentiment here that people my age are not quite polite or even enjoyable. I had this conversation with a friend and 2 dancers at a club last week. They said they prefer the older men because of them being gentlemens, and they are the majority. As we (the people my age) act like total idiots, are disrespectful and treat the ladies like women from a rap video but these guys are still a minority but a more visible one it seems. I guess my point is, if the guy is young I would understand why a lady would not want to meet up, but I think there's a lot of young guys who have: good jobs, are very polite, well educated, soft spoken and well travelled which are all good skills to have in this hobby. Now for one last thing, i'm talking to guys in their 30's and above, experience doesn't come with age it comes with events. I have been very fortunate to see/live/enjoy a LOT of things in my relatively short life so please do not say that young people can't have seen all the things you did. BTW i'm sorry for the weak vocabulary i'm not exactly good in written English. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest W***ledi*Time Report post Posted June 12, 2009 I suspect that the younger guys the ladies are talking about are not necessarily representative of everyone in that age category. Sadly, though, I do think that the current generation of 20 somethings often have a sense of entitlement and self-importance that is frequently not justified. It gives those younger fellows who are gentlemen a tough time of it. Every word true, p. Each and every generation, as it wends its way through history, duly laments the state of each and every succeeding generation. Fortunately, each of those younger generations eventually grows up, collectively shoulders its due responsibility, and matures into its role. And yes, Individual Results May Vary. Some youngsters are better-heeled than their elders. Or, on the other hand, take myself as a cautionary example: I cringe to remember what a prat I was when I was young. Now, however, I've gracefully aged into a retiree who is almost as mature as most of the ladies I've met ... who are 25 to 30 years younger than me! Cheers, Wrinkled Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
p22*** 236 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 30 plus is old in my book...lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
voltio8836 100 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 It's not the kind of car you drive it is the attitude you bring with it. To me looks are only secondary, personality is a MUST!!! Guys who are sweet and nice and speak with some form of intelligence will get my attention alot faster then someone like "Fo sho........let's hook up bb. Cheers", it is obvious this took no intelligence! I have one client who works on street racers for a living and drives one with fancy lights, etc... But he is VERY sweet and respectful, and we always have fun together! 8) So a guy who is paying for service must also qualify in the personality, intelligence, and looks department? sounds like lol to me because if he had both traits, then he would probably be in bars hooking up already. So what if someone speaks with a different lingo than the norm...maybe that is what turns them on and that is what they want to roleplay, after all, what does it matter as long as he doesn't get violent /out of hand? so far all i am seeing is some girls are making bad accusations and bad stereotyping and then men in this forum are kissing up to 100% of their words. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 So a guy who is paying for service must also qualify in the personality, intelligence, and looks department? sounds like lol to me because if he had both traits, then he would probably be in bars hooking up already. With a great attitude like yours, I'm sure you wouldn't have any problems doing that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suzirider 737 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 after all, what does it matter as long as he doesn't get violent /out of hand?.......and then men in this forum are kissing up to 100% of their words. Some of the men in this forum understand words like security, safety, privacy, trust, and accept that the girls can choose, or not, to entertain/roleplay with persons they suspect do not understand such words ! :!: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest W***ledi*Time Report post Posted June 12, 2009 BTW i'm sorry for the weak vocabulary i'm not exactly good in written English. Yes you are! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drg23 124 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 So a guy who is paying for service must also qualify in the personality, intelligence, and looks department? sounds like lol to me because if he had both traits, then he would probably be in bars hooking up already. So what if someone speaks with a different lingo than the norm...maybe that is what turns them on and that is what they want to roleplay, after all, what does it matter as long as he doesn't get violent /out of hand? so far all i am seeing is some girls are making bad accusations and bad stereotyping and then men in this forum are kissing up to 100% of their words. Hehehe, I dont actually agree with you buddy lol but I will say this. It does appear at times that some of the more seasoned gents may take pleasure in their obvious superiority on the SP totem pole. This is not meant to be offensive so much as a somewhat humourous observation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Athos 108589 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 And when you get to be 30 then 40 is old. Then when you turn 40, 50 is old ... .... is even better! :wink: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Athos 108589 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 So a guy who is paying for service must also qualify in the personality, intelligence, and looks department? sounds like lol to me because if he had both traits, then he would probably be in bars hooking up already. In every social or professional interaction, people need to be treated with respect. That is particularly so when so when you are talking about a business in which the services are of a very personal and intimate nature. As for bars ... I'm way past that scene. Done it, can do it, not interested in it. Just as us old folks shouldn't necessarily make assumptions about young fellows, don't assume that the reason we're seeing escorts is because we all look like rumpelstiltskin. There are lots of reasons why people choose to participate in this hobby, and all should be treated as valid. Cheers, Porthos 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drg23 124 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 In every social or professional interaction, people need to be treated with respect. That is particularly so when so when you are talking about a business in which the services are of a very personal and intimate nature. As for bars ... I'm way past that scene. Done it, can do it, not interested in it. Just as us old folks shouldn't necessarily make assumptions about young fellows, don't assume that the reason we're seeing escorts is because we all look like rumpelstiltskin. There are lots of reasons why people choose to participate in this hobby, and all should be treated as valid. Cheers, Porthos I think this may be the best post in this thread. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S***e Report post Posted June 12, 2009 Everyone is different in that age does not dictate good or bad manners, personal hygeine, kindness, courtesy, respect or the lack thereof. I'm in my 60s and I've enjoyed the company of many people in their 20s and have had to cover my ears with some in the 60s or 70s. Consider the person and nothing more. Old Spike Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drg23 124 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 Played in a soccer scrimmage with my dads 40+ soccer team the other day. He was coming down the wing and I was waiting for him, timing him perfectly, fully aware that I was stronger,faster and able to stop him. I swooped down on him like a hawk on its prey ready to strip him of all his fatherly dignity. Oh crap! subtle leg move perfectly dramatized, a look off with the eyes to a potential but non-existent teammate, and this young stallion tripped over him own feet and went stumbling face first into the dirt with pops laughing gleefully as he carried on his merry way. Moral- It is never good to presume anything about anybody or any situation. More often then not you are wrong and look like an Ass, or just someone with a dirt covered face. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Athos 108589 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 It does appear at times that some of the more seasoned gents may take pleasure in their obvious superiority on the SP totem pole. This is not meant to be offensive so much as a somewhat humourous observation. Absolutely!!! 8) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Scarlett 25073 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 So a guy who is paying for service must also qualify in the personality, intelligence, and looks department? sounds like lol to me because if he had both traits, then he would probably be in bars hooking up already. So what if someone speaks with a different lingo than the norm...maybe that is what turns them on and that is what they want to roleplay, after all, what does it matter as long as he doesn't get violent /out of hand? so far all i am seeing is some girls are making bad accusations and bad stereotyping and then men in this forum are kissing up to 100% of their words. I SAID IF YOU WOULD HAVE READ MY REPLY, was that LOOKS DON'T MATTER, that personality is a MUST! FIRST OF ALL, it is guys like who give hobbists a BAD NAME!!! So as one of the other guys said WHY ARE YOU HERE??? Second of all it is up to each girl individually WHO we want to SEE!!! Just because you are paying does not make you special, it is they way you TALK to US and TREAT US that makes you special!!! AND NO I WOULD NOT SEE YOU!:x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 I like young people with old souls. As a young person I encountered a lot of mental and emotional adversity, a lot of death of family and friends and too much responsibility at an early age. I was always called 'mature for my age' and early on I found nothing in common with other people my own age, I preferred older friends. Now as I get older I appreciate younger people and find myself wanting to be around them and learn from them. I want to know who the next gen of people is that will inherit this earth. Their youth and energy helps boost me a little. But I still hang with people my own age or older, it makes no difference any longer. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
a******s.m*****e 187 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 Is it possible that we are all missing the point? Could the sp worried about being hammered by a young guy until her pussy is numb/hurts/bleeding? Just my 2 cents Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 Seriously? Can young guys last that long? I thought us "older" guys were the ones doing damage from taking too long! Could the sp worried about being hammered by a young guy until her pussy is numb/hurts/bleeding? Just my 2 cents Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
a******s.m*****e 187 Report post Posted June 12, 2009 Seriously? Can young guys last that long? I thought us "older" guys were the ones doing damage from taking too long! As far as I remember they can :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
