mister_crufty 4891 Report post Posted February 3, 2013 I'm a huge fan of voyages to Greece but I have yet to summon the nerve to try it with an SP. To be honest, I haven't missed it since my encounters so far have been great even without. A little DATO on occasion but that's about it. Actually a little nervous because it's such a huge turn-on for me. Many providers don't do it, whether because they don't like it, health concerns, whatever. It's also generally an a-la-carte premium add-in which makes sense because there's extra work involved. Also supply and demand allows for an extra charge so why wouldn't you? So here's the question. Would it be wrong to assume that the providers who offer Greek are generally big fans of it? They do it because they like it? Or would it be a mixed bag of some who like it and some who tolerate it for extra money? The reason I ask is because I'm not a fan of doing anything with anyone that they don't want to do. I always like to imagine, at least, that the lady is also enjoying our encounter. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mister T 45020 Report post Posted February 3, 2013 There are very few ladies that offer this, and i don't think it's offered just because they tolerate it. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mister_crufty 4891 Report post Posted February 3, 2013 That's what I was hoping to hear. I know a lot of women love it (men too) because it can induce such ridiculously powerful orgasms. There are very few ladies that offer this, and i don't think it's offered just because they tolerate it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waterat 20911 Report post Posted February 3, 2013 Simply trust the ladies' advertising! I hope and, in fact, am very confident that none of them 'tolerate' their involvement in this business. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mister_crufty 4891 Report post Posted February 3, 2013 Yes, very indelicately worded on my part. I meant it more along the lines of 'not my favorite part of the job but I don't mind it so it's worthwhile.' I was hoping more for the above response, that the ladies enjoy it as much as I do. Simply trust the ladies' advertising! I hope and, in fact, am very confident that none of them 'tolerate' their involvement in this business. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted February 3, 2013 I think if an SP advertises it then she must be somewhat into it. If they just tolerate it for money then I can't comment because I won't do something I don't like or can't handle. Personally I don't like anal sex as I had a bad experience with it. I do have sex toys that I use sometimes on the job and for my own personal use but that is at my own discretion. Many people don't understand when you tell them to be careful and go slow so it's off the menu boys. I was a fan of digit play there but not so much now as many men use fingers there and try to stick them somewhere else afterwards. I'm literally having to stop them. Please tell me why some men think this is okay? Do they think this is healthy and nothing bad is going to happen? It's called a urinary tract infection and it is the worst pain ever! Basically bateria is coming from the colon and into the vagina and finally into the bladder. That's disgusting. A woman wakes up feeling like she is urinating razor baldes with the worst and uncomfortable abdominal pain that doesn't stop unless treated with antibiotics. If not treated, it leads to a kidney infection. I just wanted to mention this because some people really don't think about this even if they don't have ignorant or reckless intentions. Anything that is going to make me sick I won't do unless they follow my specific directions which is fine and can be enjoyable but so many just don't think about these things... I consider anal play more risky as the condom has a much higher chance of breaking. I care about my health. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mister_crufty 4891 Report post Posted February 3, 2013 Agree with above. Real life is not porn. As someone who has done a fair bit of Greek over the years, there's a lot of lead-up and prep to ensure everyone has a good and safe time in real life. I'm extremely gentle myself if for no other reason than being anything less will result in back-door privileges being revoked. :-D Sex is like golf. Should always ask permission before playing the back 9. ;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fredsmith 5240 Report post Posted February 3, 2013 So here's the question. Would it be wrong to assume that the providers who offer Greek are generally big fans of it? They do it because they like it? Or would it be a mixed bag of some who like it and some who tolerate it for extra money? The reason I ask is because I'm not a fan of doing anything with anyone that they don't want to do. I always like to imagine, at least, that the lady is also enjoying our encounter. Why limit this question to Greek? You could ask the same question(s) about bbbj or cim or cimsw. I wouldn't over think things too much, assume the ladies are adults, professionals and in control of their life. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xxxAxxx 21016 Report post Posted February 4, 2013 To be honest, and sorry if this sounds bluntly offensive to say, but I only offer things I enjoy and charge more for certain "extras" because the market is there for it. As mentioned previously in the thread, not many ladies even offer certain things, extra money or not! That being said, those things are marketable. If I don't enjoy something, I don't do it, end of story. I got into this line of work expecting to enjoy myself. Hope this was insightful to someone... 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted February 4, 2013 I wouldn't do it if I didn't like it. That's my answer to whether I like being an escort AND whether I really like Greek :) Pretty much all of us know that the best way to work (that is, best in the sense of keeping us sane and healthy) is to offer what we're comfortable with and then find clients who want that. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mister_crufty 4891 Report post Posted February 4, 2013 That makes a lot of sense. If you want longevity in this industry, you've really got to make sure you love the job. I think the subject has been covered before of how girls who just get in it for the money and not love of the game tend to wash out really quickly. I don't really know why I thought greek would have been any different. I guess it just seems more taboo to me. I'm pretty vanilla and sheltered so just wrapping my head around the fact that ladies actually love this job has been a big mental shift for me. Thanks for all the thoughtful replies! I wouldn't do it if I didn't like it. That's my answer to whether I like being an escort AND whether I really like Greek :) Pretty much all of us know that the best way to work (that is, best in the sense of keeping us sane and healthy) is to offer what we're comfortable with and then find clients who want that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Agi123ma 110 Report post Posted February 4, 2013 Does a mouse like cheese? Or better yet, do you still want sex after you masterbate? Sex isint just the release but mutual intimacy between partners Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
