Guest Ni**t*****t Report post Posted November 2, 2012 (edited) I agree too. Barb's is a great club and soooo easy going. No hassle, no bouncer assigning you a seat, no pressure. This club is unique and we should all be going. I know it will be difficult to find anything like this anywhere else in the area. And hey, the cover charge is $4! you can get a pint for $5.25... and then there are all the lovely girls... it does not get any better! I mean, if these prices are a problem, maybe you should stay home. Some girls told me they were concerned because attendance had slowed down but also because, when the bar was busy, the CR can remain quite dead... Even on Fri-Sat...she had a point, I noticed this a few times recently... I think we need to keep going to this great club and see the girls there. This is a great place... we are lucky to have it here in Ottawa. Edited November 3, 2012 by Ni**t*****t Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waterat 20911 Report post Posted November 3, 2012 and yet I've been there twice in the past week and wanted to enjoy a dance with some specific ladies (who had recently been on stage) but they went and sat with a gent for the next 45 minutes ..... and I gave up waiting for them (no trip to the CR while I waited) so I gave up on the %$6.25 beers and left..... But as stated I enjoy Barbs and will be back... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
r__d 12698 Report post Posted November 3, 2012 ... and wanted to enjoy a dance with some specific ladies (who had recently been on stage) but they went and sat with a gent for the next 45 minutes ..... and I gave up waiting for them (no trip to the CR while I waited) so I gave up ..... I've had this experience in the past and it can be a bit of a drag. Seems to occur when things are a bit subdued and thus I suppose the ladies are chatting with club regulars or acquaintances. Happened to me many years ago with a lady who became a fave......remember it well.....she's at a table with a group.....takes her turn on stage....afterwards makes a beeline back to the table...no one there takes her to CR....this goes on until I have to leave......at the time I just assumed it was a table of her friends or regulars. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
survived70s 582 Report post Posted November 5, 2012 Yes, this happens. In a way, it is nice to hang with a dancer when it is not busy, as long as you are the guy catching her drinks. The most considerate thing that you can do is ask the waitress to let her know that you would like a dance. After all, most gurls really are there to dance and make money. The waitress will know what the dancer is up to. There are high rollers that will actually pay the ladies to stay with them. You will be helping the gurl a lot. She will usually get dances with the guys she is hanging with at the table or YOU! Either way, she will be the better for it, and she will likely remember you in a favourable way! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rovan47 2267 Report post Posted November 5, 2012 anybody know what happened to the waitress (Dragona) i think was her name? Always knew my order even though I only showed up every other month. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ni**t*****t Report post Posted November 5, 2012 I went to Barbs yesterday and sadly the place was very dead. About a dozen patrons for about as many girls. Spent time with my favorite and she told me she will likely move to Toronto in December. She also said that some other girls have moved there and that the girls from TO that come here to try out Barbs stay one night and go back. We went to the CR also and were alone in there for an hour. We got privacy though lol. I don't know if this is due to the local economic situation as I do not go to other clubs but it seems like Barbs is really slowing down. Strangely though, it is located right in the hotel district. I love Barbs as I mentioned before and will definitely return but, if girls start leaving, the club may not be worth going to anymore. If anyone knows what is going on or has any insight please share. I love the place. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
r__d 12698 Report post Posted November 6, 2012 I went to Barbs yesterday and sadly the place was very dead. About a dozen patrons for about as many girls. Spent time with my favorite and she told me she will likely move to Toronto in December. She also said that some other girls have moved there and that the girls from TO that come here to try out Barbs stay one night and go back. We went to the CR also and were alone in there for an hour. We got privacy though lol. I don't know if this is due to the local economic situation as I do not go to other clubs but it seems like Barbs is really slowing down. Strangely though, it is located right in the hotel district. I love Barbs as I mentioned before and will definitely return but, if girls start leaving, the club may not be worth going to anymore. If anyone knows what is going on or has any insight please share. I love the place. This seems to be a relatively recent and unfortunate turn of events at Barb's. At the risk of sounding repetitive, I'm not surprised that a Sunday night was not exactly frantic but your earlier post suggests that it's been quiet even on Friday/Saturday nights. As recently as early 2011, I tended to avoid Fri./Sat. nights as the club could be just too crowded for comfort, at least in my view. Since becoming more of an afternoon clubgoer at Barb's I have found it somewhat quieter this year. On at least a few occasions (and I'm not in even close to weekly) last year, I was forced to find a seat under the TV on Friday afternoons although things would calm down a bit after 2:00-2:30 or so. More recently, I've rarely been denied my fave table and then only when arriving a bit early when the buffet crowd was still around. Last visit was on a Monday afternoon and it was very quiet as expected. Hope to see how things are on a Thurs./Fri. afternoon soon. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lovetheladies 4042 Report post Posted November 6, 2012 and yet I've been there twice in the past week and wanted to enjoy a dance with some specific ladies (who had recently been on stage) but they went and sat with a gent for the next 45 minutes ..... and I gave up waiting for them (no trip to the CR while I waited) so I gave up on the %$6.25 beers and left..... But as stated I enjoy Barbs and will be back... Don't give up! I have been both the guy waiting patiently and the guy who is lucky enough to get a visit! My first attempt to meet my ATF was foiled by her having a long conversation with another customer. Come to think of it, it might have happened more than once. Now, after several visits, we have become friendly and can talk for a long time. I could see how it would be frustrating to others who might want to see her, but I appreciate the conversation and I -think- she does too. In some ways, it is like a coffee or lunch break with friends. Also, if the stage show was particularly energetic, the dancer may be cooling down or relaxing (I know not really an issue at this time of year, but...) Most dancers know the right time to ask the 'question' for hitting the CR. If a lady was concerned about the time spent with a prospective customer, she could easily work it into the conversation. As others have mentioned, the other guy could be a regular, a fairly valuable commodity in these tough times. So throw some smiles, applaud, send a drink, make a compliment when going for a smoke or to the washroom, whatever. I once had a dancer say I looked bored at my table. I learned from that. I have never looked bored in a strip club since! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brooklyn 567 Report post Posted November 6, 2012 alright, so im not an impostor! My name is Brooklyn and ive been dancing at Barbs for a year now, and when i first made the account (almost a year ago) i was unsure of the website so i chose a name i would likely not be recognized under (Bridge.. Brooklyn Bridge... Get it?!) I am in NO WAY trying to impersonate bridgette! alltho we are both redheads ;) also, if you notice, the post i made said, "thank you for the special mention" if you read averages post, it says "special mention to Brooklyn" anyways, sorry for the confusion! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted November 6, 2012 I merged your old name and account into this Brooklyn. thank you for the explanation. alright, so im not an impostor! My name is Brooklyn and ive been dancing at Barbs for a year now, and when i first made the account (almost a year ago) i was unsure of the website so i chose a name i would likely not be recognized under (Bridge.. Brooklyn Bridge... Get it?!) I am in NO WAY trying to impersonate bridgette! alltho we are both redheads ;) also, if you notice, the post i made said, "thank you for the special mention" if you read averages post, it says "special mention to Brooklyn" anyways, sorry for the confusion! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brooklyn 567 Report post Posted November 6, 2012 I merged your old name and account into this Brooklyn. thank you for the explanation. Thank you Mod XO Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ftn40 824 Report post Posted November 6, 2012 anybody know what happened to the waitress (Dragona) i think was her name? Always knew my order even though I only showed up every other month. She left many months ago for maternity leave. Don't know if she'll ever be back but she was one of the best waitresses I've ever known, great smile, really nice, and, as you noticed, a great memory! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted November 6, 2012 alright, so im not an impostor! My name is Brooklyn and ive been dancing at Barbs for a year now, and when i first made the account (almost a year ago) i was unsure of the website so i chose a name i would likely not be recognized under (Bridge.. Brooklyn Bridge... Get it?!) I am in NO WAY trying to impersonate bridgette! alltho we are both redheads ;) also, if you notice, the post i made said, "thank you for the special mention" if you read averages post, it says "special mention to Brooklyn" anyways, sorry for the confusion! Welcome back Brooklyn. As I said in my post before you never said in your post that you were Bridgette. Glad you clarified the mixup. Welcome back to cerb and hope to see you at Barbs. I love redheads (and pale brunettes :)). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cato 160314 Report post Posted November 6, 2012 Thanks, Brooklyn, and welcome! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brooklyn 567 Report post Posted November 7, 2012 Capital Hunter - thank you, im happy its cleared up now. looking forward to being active on the site :) Cato - thank you as well love :) there was a shocking amount of patrons present for the American elections last night, Obamanation! also, i got to meet the lovely Bridgette last night, we had a good laugh about what happened, and she extended her love to everyone on cerb - XOXO 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
r__d 12698 Report post Posted November 8, 2012 (edited) there was a shocking amount of patrons present for the American elections last night, In light of some recent discussion in this thread it's good to hear about an evening with a "shocking amount" of attendance. (At least if I am interpreting "shocking" correctly i.e. shockingly crowded - or was the evening's turnout an "abomination"? Hope it was the former.) Edited November 8, 2012 by r__d Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reddog01 30280 Report post Posted November 8, 2012 I have been away for a while but will get back soon. Sorry to hear things are still slow. All the best to Barb's patrons. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest kkottawa Report post Posted November 8, 2012 Sierra is on stage. Looking amazing as usual. And at the same time I'm talking to Brooklyn. She's incredible, beautiful and intelligent. There's also Talia. The hard part is deciding. I'd take them all but I can't ATM so guess we'll see. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brooklyn 567 Report post Posted November 8, 2012 In light of some recent discussion in this thread it's good to hear about an evening with a "shocking amount" of attendance. (At least if I am interpreting "shocking" correctly i.e. shockingly crowded - or was the evening's turnout an "abomination"? Hope it was the former.) it could have been busier but i was just surprised how many people attended the place to see the elections, and how many people refused to leave their table until the decision was over!! "Obama-Nation" Also, ill be at Barb's tonight, its Thursday so i going all out on stage tonight! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
curmudgeon 10469 Report post Posted November 10, 2012 anybody know what happened to the waitress (Dragona) i think was her name? Dragana. It's a Slavic name, which I think means Dear, or Precious. Dragan is the male form. Dragana was wonderful - last seen looking pregnant and especially beautiful. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alger 1898 Report post Posted November 10, 2012 Good news all! Jennie is back and she told me she will be putting in extra time to help pay for her trip. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
r__d 12698 Report post Posted November 11, 2012 Good news all! Jennie is back and she told me she will be putting in extra time to help pay for her trip. Good to know. Thanks for the update - the intel is very much appreciated as always! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cato 160314 Report post Posted November 12, 2012 Just back from a quick Barb's visit. Ariel looking spectacular, Jennie looking happy and relaxed, an attractive blonde with great abs named Celica, I think, and about 4 guys. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ni**t*****t Report post Posted November 13, 2012 I think 4 guys in the club is the big issue with Barbs. The place has been very quiet this fall... the girls need many guys to make a living... and they are not there. If Barbs does not pick up, they will go away.... I still cannot understand why Barbs seems so slow while other clubs are doing okay. I hope I am missing something here.... really. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted November 13, 2012 Yes it is unfortunate that Barbs is so quiet. Not sure if this is only the case with barbs though but if so then their open CRs and cameras in the CR and as I recently found out the no-kissing rule in the CRs (though mostly ignored) doesn't help much either. Barbs undoubtedly has the classiest most beautiful ladies of all Ottawa-Gatineau (my subjective view no offense to anyone) and doesn't deserve to be so dead. I am guilty myself as hell as I haven't been there for weeks now as every week that I plan to go and see my favorites then I come across a lovely escort on cerb or BP where I can meet her in the privacy of my home with no cameras or no bouncers to check on us or a no-kissing rule. The local economy and recent layoffs doesn't help either. I hear some ladies heading away to Toronto which is likely not much better than here. Very sad!!!. Lets make an effort collectively to go there as often as we can!!. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites