Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 The recent passing of my mother made me relaize a few things: how important family and friends really are. OVer the past week i have learned that i have many friends here on CERb...good friends..friends that i have no idea how i would have gotten through this last week without. YOU know who you are...i want to share this poem that was read at my mom's funeral...something we should all think about...i love you guys...kisses and many many many thanks Emma A The Dash Poem By Linda Ellis I read of a man who stood to speak At the funeral of a friend He referred to the dates on her tombstone From the beginning to the end He noted that first came her date of her birth And spoke the following date with tears, But he said what mattered most of all Was the dash between those years For that dash represents all the time That she spent alive on earth. And now only those who loved her Know what that little line is worth. For it matters not how much we own; The cars, the house, the cash, What matters is how we live and love And how we spend our dash. So think about this long and hard. Are there things you'd like to change? For you never know how much time is left, That can still be rearranged. If we could just slow down enough To consider what's true and real And always try to understand The way other people feel. And be less quick to anger, And show appreciation more And love the people in our lives Like we've never loved before. If we treat each other with respect, And more often wear a smile Remembering that this special dash Might only last a little while. So, when your eulogy is being read With your life's actions to rehash Would you be proud of the things they say About how you spent your dash 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
redmachine 1916 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Very sorry for your loss Emma may she RIP Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted June 19, 2009 that's beautiful...you are much loved....hope you're ok....igab xoxo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Emma, I'm sorry for the loss of your mother. Hugs, Erin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Thanks Emma, very nice poem. Sorry to hear of your loss. My mother passed away in 1991 when I was in my early twenties after a short dash I suppose. I had time to tell her things I needed to tell her, but there's so much of MY dash she never got to see. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alger 1898 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 My deepest condolances too Emma. I have recently suffered a similar loss and although I realize that while the circle of life goes on, that does not make things any easier. To follow Igotaboner, you have the love of many here, and I am sure all our thoughts are with you. Alg Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whatsup 11893 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Emma, my condolences for your loss. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
the lurker 160 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Sorry for your loss Emm. It's a beautiful poem for such a sad occasion, but makes one mindful. Let those you have comforted, comfort you now. Snuggles, Lurk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Athana dos Santos 966 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Emma; Wonderful poem! May your mother R.I.P and God open her the doors to Heaven. Kisses, Athana xxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ou**or**n Report post Posted June 19, 2009 My condolences for your loss. Thank you for sharing the poem, it resonated deeply with me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AttilaTheHun 356 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Emma, My heart is heavy with sadness for your loss. My only wish is to be holding and comforting you at this moment of loneliness. The Hun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ava Foxx 1747 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Emma...I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you *hugs* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest W***ledi*Time Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Emma, deepest sympathy. Mothers occupy a special place in all our hearts. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 From what I have read on CERB, you are a wonderful, amazing woman and your mother must have been incredible woman for raising her daughter to be such a class act and good person. Please take a little solace in knowing that she is looking down on you with love and pride. You now have a guardian angel watching over you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coachg 388 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 I am so sorry to hear of your loss Emma. That was a beautiful poem and I am sure your mother used her "dash" to the fullest. Take care and feel the love from the CERB community. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Scarlett 25073 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 We are your family here and we are here for you if you need anything, even if it is just someone to listen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166767 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, Emma. You're an amazing woman in every way: strong, courageous, thoughtful, and you're a terrific mother, yourself. I'm sure you learned so much from your mother, and I've no doubt at all but that she was proud of you. Take things easy for awhile, if you can. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 My thoughts are with and you family Emma, warm feelings and positive vibes are most definitely coming in your direction. Thank you for sharing this poem with us all *BIG huggs* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apex2006 1071 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Hey Emma, I know what it's like to lose someone and I recently almost lost someone close to me any you were there to chat with me and get through a hard time. I will always remember that. If there is anything that I can do to help you, please let me know. Apex (FB) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214134 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Loosing someone close to you is not an easy thing but I know that you have the strength in you to move on and I want you to remind you that I'm here for you if you need anything. BIG HUGS Tstorm Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 My deepest condolences Emma, I have gone through the same issue twice, father then step father. Thoughts and prayers for you and your entire family.Nice poem thanks for sharing with us. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Redseductress 9358 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 The recent passing of my mother made me relaize a few things:how important family and friends really are. OVer the past week i have learned that i have many friends here on CERb...good friends..friends that i have no idea how i would have gotten through this last week without. YOU know who you are...i want to share this poem that was read at my mom's funeral...something we should all think about...i love you guys...kisses and many many many thanks Emma A The Dash Poem By Linda Ellis I read of a man who stood to speak At the funeral of a friend He referred to the dates on her tombstone From the beginning to the end He noted that first came her date of her birth And spoke the following date with tears, But he said what mattered most of all Was the dash between those years For that dash represents all the time That she spent alive on earth. And now only those who loved her Know what that little line is worth. For it matters not how much we own; The cars, the house, the cash, What matters is how we live and love And how we spend our dash. So think about this long and hard. Are there things you'd like to change? For you never know how much time is left, That can still be rearranged. If we could just slow down enough To consider what's true and real And always try to understand The way other people feel. And be less quick to anger, And show appreciation more And love the people in our lives Like we've never loved before. If we treat each other with respect, And more often wear a smile Remembering that this special dash Might only last a little while. So, when your eulogy is being read With your life's actions to rehash Would you be proud of the things they say About how you spent your dash What a beautiful poem thanks for sharing it. I am so sorry for you loss Emma, you and your family will be in my prayers. Big hugs to you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Emma.......I know I speak for many here that are so glad to have met you...and know you in any form and fashion. For you to come here and share a prt of your loss is indeed hearty warming and special. I hope that like the poem you look at the good....the fun...the best times in life with her. Many of us can share the grief and loss and understand what you have and will go through and we are there for you......many of us are going through a loss right now.....:-(........and your poem to me has just brightened up my life..... Thanks and my deepest sympathies to you and your sons.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bethany Westbrooke 7532 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Hi Emma, I can't even imagine how you must have felt dealing with the initial shock last week, I am very sorry for your loss. You are a very wise and beautiful woman for taking the time to express your gratitude to the people who helped you get through this time and for sharing The Dash. I for one have been greatly affected by what you shared and am glad for it, we always need reminders that life is ephemeral- helps us live it to the fullest. Thank you Emma, for continuously amazing myself and everyone else on this board with your willingness to really connect- truly appreciated, life is too short to live any other way! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sentimental 281 Report post Posted June 19, 2009 Dear Emma: Wish to echo Bethany's very apptly written message.... may I also add my condolences. The passing of a parent, who brought you into the world, is very difficult and traumatic experience. In this moment of sadness you were still capable of giving & sharing the wonderful poem about LIFE. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
