jerican 657 Report post Posted June 24, 2009 Hair is sexy ... Don't even think about removing it ... It feels really good as it rubs against my very sensitive nipples! Note to self, find miracle hair growth formula! Reading this made me regret being not very hairy for the first time ever!:smile: P.S. love the new profile pic Mandalay! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AttilaTheHun 356 Report post Posted June 25, 2009 Anita, Please don't judge what I do or don't with my SO without first knowing what my situation is really like. If I choose to see a companion, its because I have good reasons to. I am a compassionate, caring and very giving man in and out of the hobby. I don't choose cater to my personal hygiene because I see companions. Its just part of my everyday routine with the exception of the enemas. ATH Oh, and one more point. Do your SO a favour and clean yourself for her also. She is human, too, you know.... :) The reason why she comes to kiss you on those days is because you look like you did before you started taking her for granted LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Scarlett 25073 Report post Posted June 25, 2009 One question of ladies. I am a naturally hairy guy to the point where I am close to singlehandedly disproving the theory of creationism. I can't get rid of it all....but what can I do to make things as pleasant or maybe as un unpleasant as possible. I am seeing someone this weekend (you know who you are):-D and I want to make the best first, second and third impression possible. I will be clean, but unless I want to collapse into a scratching, itching tub of goo an hour into our encounter, I am probably still going to be a bit hairy. I love a "MAN", with or without the fur, the only area you may wanna trim is the private zone so she doesn't get a mouthful! haha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted June 25, 2009 Anita, Please don't judge what I do or don't with my SO without first knowing what my situation is really like. If I choose to see a companion, its because I have good reasons to. I am a compassionate, caring and very giving man in and out of the hobby. I don't choose cater to my personal hygiene because I see companions. Its just part of my everyday routine with the exception of the enemas. ATH I am okay if a man doesn't do the enema thing ... but everything else Attilla does is so very much appreciated ... gentlemen like Attilla make the escourt industry a true pleasure ... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
a******s.m*****e 187 Report post Posted June 25, 2009 Anita, Please don't judge what I do or don't with my SO without first knowing what my situation is really like. If I choose to see a companion, its because I have good reasons to. I am a compassionate, caring and very giving man in and out of the hobby. I don't choose cater to my personal hygiene because I see companions. Its just part of my everyday routine with the exception of the enemas. ATH I am sorry Attila, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. I guess I just felt sorry for her, kissing her husband who just came home from cheating on her.... But don't listen to me, I am a sentimental fool. I will learn to keep my mouth shut. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted June 25, 2009 I am okay if a man doesn't do the enema thing ... but everything else Attilla does is so very much appreciated ... gentlemen like Attilla make the escourt industry a true pleasure ... I'm with you on the enema thing. Does anyone on here beside ATH do that in prep for a regular escort date? Does anybody besides Howie Mandell do that regularly? Lol. I'm all for being clean and tidy. I shower, shave, make sure my mouth is fresh, my nails suitable for insertion and put on fresh clothes before every date, whether with an escort or not. If, for scheduling reasons I can't do all that just before I depart for the date, then I shower as soon as I arrive. And if I'm going to ask for a specialty item like PM (or going to see someone like Emma, who's likely to shove anything anywhere - lol - which is just one of the reasons she's so much fun - lol), I try to make sure the orifice involved is ready for the requested service. Lol. But I'm not a cleanliness fetishist prior to a date. Nor am I in a big rush to clean up afterward. Cuddling is good. And sweat, semen, pussy juice and saliva, the four main sex fluids, are things I don't mind having on my skin for awhile. Though if one does have an SO who cares about such things, it is a good idea to clean up before you go home. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 I guess I just felt sorry for her, kissing her husband who just came home from cheating on her.... With all due respect, we prefer to call it hobbying, kinda like you prefer to call it escorting instead of hooking. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AttilaTheHun 356 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 Mandalay, now I have been through your site many times and I know that you don t cater to butts, so in your case I ll make an exception and not go through with the enema. Hun I am okay if a man doesn't do the enema thing ... but everything else Attilla does is so very much appreciated ... gentlemen like Attilla make the escourt industry a true pleasure ... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 Mandalay, now I have been through your site many times and I know that you don t cater to butts, so in your case I ll make an exception and not go through with the enema. Hun I've had a bit of a "butt evolution" lately as a result of experience and experimenting with very patient and encouraging lovers. My evolution includes losing my fear of inserting a finger up a lover's bum. It's a baby step and actually turns me on a bit! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 I'm with you on the enema thing. Does anyone on here beside ATH do that in prep for a regular escort date? Does anybody besides Howie Mandell do that regularly? Lol. I'm all for being clean and tidy. I shower, shave, make sure my mouth is fresh, my nails suitable for insertion and put on fresh clothes before every date, whether with an escort or not. If, for scheduling reasons I can't do all that just before I depart for the date, then I shower as soon as I arrive. And if I'm going to ask for a specialty item like PM (or going to see someone like Emma, who's likely to shove anything anywhere - lol - which is just one of the reasons she's so much fun - lol), I try to make sure the orifice involved is ready for the requested service. Lol. But I'm not a cleanliness fetishist prior to a date. Nor am I in a big rush to clean up afterward. Cuddling is good. And sweat, semen, pussy juice and saliva, the four main sex fluids, are things I don't mind having on my skin for awhile. Though if one does have an SO who cares about such things, it is a good idea to clean up before you go home. haha you know you love t...hehe I've had a bit of a "butt evolution" lately as a result of experience and experimenting with very patient and encouraging lovers. My evolution includes losing my fear of inserting a finger up a lover's bum. It's a baby step and actually turns me on a bit! just wait until you get past just putting a finger in there...you can even start with 2 fingers and give the P a great massage...it can be compared to when a man finds our g-spot...its fantastic! I love to hear them moan and the facial expressions are incredible...do a prostate massage while doing a bj and BAM...have fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AttilaTheHun 356 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 Emma has a Doctorate on the P massage. 2 fingers and a slow hard BJ from Emma has sent me to the point of almost losing consciousness. It s an incredible overwhelming feeling of total release and losing control at the fingers and Lips of an Angel. Hun haha you know you love t...hehe just wait until you get past just putting a finger in there...you can even start with 2 fingers and give the P a great massage...it can be compared to when a man finds our g-spot...its fantastic! I love to hear them moan and the facial expressions are incredible...do a prostate massage while doing a bj and BAM...have fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 Emma has a Doctorate on the P massage. 2 fingers and a slow hard BJ from Emma has sent me to the point of almost losing consciousness. It s an incredible overwhelming feeling of total release and losing control at the fingers and Lips of an Angel. Hun I'm there to revive you thought if you should lose consciousness...hehe..with my lips...wink Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 I definitely want to learn more about prostate massage. I am going to start a new thread about it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ariane Valmont 332 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 I definitely want to learn more about prostate massage. Me too!! I just started using toys for anal play but I would like to learn how to do it properly with my fingers. Emma, do you want to be our sexy teacher? ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
a******s.m*****e 187 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 With all due respect, we prefer to call it hobbying, kinda like you prefer to call it escorting instead of hooking. OK, I understand where you are coming from, but would it be possible to spare us the picture of a loving wife kissing you when you go home after "hobbying"? It makes us look like we have no feelings and we are just money-hungry creatures who don't care about the impact of our work on others as long as we can make a buck. I am sure I am not the only one feeling uncomfortable reading those things. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 I definitely want to learn more about prostate massage. I am going to start a new thread about it. Me too!! I just started using toys for anal play but I would like to learn how to do it properly with my fingers. Emma, do you want to be our sexy teacher? ;) i would love to teach you...now we just need someone to practice on...always better to teach in person don't you think? hehe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
redmachine 1916 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 i would love to teach you...now we just need someone to practice on...always better to teach in person don't you think? hehe pick me pick me :-D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest W***ledi*Time Report post Posted June 26, 2009 It makes us look like we have no feelings and we are just money-hungry creatures who don't care about the impact of our work on others as long as we can make a buck. While I personally do not have a SO, the "What is your relationship status?" poll here on Cerb shows that 53% of respondents do have Significant Others: http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/poll.php?do=showresults&pollid=106 Given that many hobbyists have a SO, I feel that simmering or latent moral sensitivities on this issue should not be focused on any one Cerb member. It does not seem to me that ATH has implied anything negative whatsoever about the motivations, conduct, or moral fibre of providers, nor does it seem to me that he has implied that providers have a negative impact on his home life and SO in any way. We know nothing of the details of ATH's home life. My two cents. Cheers, Wrinkled Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ariane Valmont 332 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 Emma, I would LOVE a live demonstration. ;) Wrinkled, I agree with you. And we have to be realistic : a lot of married people are unsatisfied sexually. Whatever the reason is, many men and some women will feel the need to find sexual gratification away from home. I do not judge them and I do not think it means they do not love their SO. I do not believe in monogamy in the long run. I think it's only normal that after 5-10-20 years, you will feel the need to explore, caress and taste a different body. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 Emma, I would LOVE a live demonstration. ;) Wrinkled, I agree with you. And we have to be realistic : a lot of married people are unsatisfied sexually. Whatever the reason is, many men and some women will feel the need to find sexual gratification away from home. I do not judge them and I do not think it means they do not love their SO. I do not believe in monogamy in the long run. I think it's only normal that after 5-10-20 years, you will feel the need to explore, caress and taste a different body. i know alot of the gents i see love their wives...they just want something to spice things up some...they go home happy thus everyone is happy...i have always thought of what we do as being a type of therapist ...of corse as sensual and sexual as it may be.. we are just making men easier to be around for the wives...hahaha 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whatsup 11893 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 i know alot of the gents i see love their wives...they just want something to spice things up some...they go home happy thus everyone is happy...i have always thought of what we do as being a type of therapist ...of corse as sensual and sexual as it may be.. we are just making men easier to be around for the wives...hahaha Never heard of it put that way. :lol: MAO Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted June 26, 2009 It does not seem to me that ATH has implied anything negative whatsoever about the motivations, conduct, or moral fibre of providers, nor does it seem to me that he has implied that providers have a negative impact on his home life and SO in any way. We know nothing of the details of ATH's home life. I personally believe that if a married man is going to fool around on his wife, the kindest and safest thing to do is to hire an escort. Why? Most of us are super safe, get tested for STDs regularly and will never take things further than a sexual relationship. We are professionals. I personally care very deeply about not only my clients, but their sexual partners currently and in the future. STDs can destroy lives and families. I make sure that there is no chance of catching or spreading any type of disease when you are with me. I think most professional escorts are the same and care about not only their clients ... but their significant others as well. We are much safer than picking up a woman in a bar and/or taking on a mistress, who could fall in love with you and try to break up your marriage. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest C****** K***e Report post Posted June 27, 2009 This brings to mind something one of my clients said to me when he first contacted me: "I'm happily married. I have been for many years and I have a great family. I'm not looking to change that in any way, I just want a little adventure." I actually found that really touching and I think of that a lot. It helps serve as a reminder of why I'm in this business. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AttilaTheHun 356 Report post Posted June 29, 2009 Mbay, I would have to agree. ATH We are much safer than picking up a woman in a bar and/or taking on a mistress, who could fall in love with you and try to break up your marriage. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
